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It's All Absolutely Fine
It's All Absolutely Fine | Ruby Elliot
51 posts | 37 read | 60 to read
Explore the highs and lows of modern life through the sharp, dark wit of Ruby Elliot--creator of the massively popular Tumblr account, Rubyetc, which has over 210k followers and growing. Ruby's simple drawings of not-so-simple issues capture the humor and melancholy of everyday life. Her comics appeal to both new adults who are beginning to explore these subjects and to battle-tested veterans of the daily struggles of life with mental illness. It's All Absolutely Fine is an honest and unapologetic account of day-to-day life as a groaning, crying, laughing sentient potato being for whom things are often absolutely not fine. Through simple, humorous drawings and a few short narratives, the book encompasses everything from mood disorders, anxiety, and issues with body image through to existential conversations with dogs and some unusually articulate birds. With each chapter a particular set of struggles is picked up, looked at, and squished about a bit using visuals before being put down again with a little more resolve. Problems related to mental health that can be very devastating and even isolating are discussed openly in a way people are often told not to, but this is as much a book about the human emotional experience that touches all of us as it is about mental health. Through the drawings, the reader is shown that it is okay to struggle, and that it is okay to talk about struggling, to not undermine oneself by yelling 'it's fine' when it isn't, and while all this is going on to know that it is absolutely possible to hold on to hope, and of course humor. Building on Rubyetc's huge online presence, It's All Absolutely Fine includes mostly new material, both written and illustrated, and is inspirational, empowering, and entertaining. Hope and tenacity abound in this book that is as heartening as it is hilarious.
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megnews
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Mehso-so

I‘d rate this about 2.5 stars. There were some laughs and some relatable parts but I found it slow moving and not holding my interest all the time.

Book 134/165 4/14/19

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megnews
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Someone who loves ☕️ as much as me!

TheSpineView Yes! 6y
kspenmoll ❤️☕️ 6y
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megnews
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Just started this book and thought this is a profound visual explanation of depression or mental illness.

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triplem80
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"People derive their sense of self-worth from all sorts of places -- that thing you did and that experience you had and that friend who tells you you're not terrible. What happened to me from quite a young age, and certainly as I got older is that my brain decided to use my body as the focal point from which all my value as a person had to be measured..."

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Victoriahoperose
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Mehso-so

I think I expected more humor in this book than what came across. It was a little bit darker than what I expected. I like how she exposes mental illness in a different way, but I think I expected something lighter than what it was.

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Kateri
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“It‘s unrealistic to expect myself to go from ‘I loath myself beyond words‘ to ‘I love and value me ‘cos I‘m worth it *hair swish*‘ overnight. I can take jazzy little lizard steps towards compassion at my own pace”

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CuriousG
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This made me laugh so hard ???
I actually live with #articulate dog! Every day since my husband's accident years ago I've come home completely depleted after work and too stressed to function. My very own articulate dog would cuddle just long enough to drop my defenses...and then say "Now take me for a fucking walk." And I would ❤

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UrsulaMonarch
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💚🐻💚 #strangefurlessbear

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UrsulaMonarch
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Jumped back into this last night - really delightful at times! Not quite sure why I like this so much #reggular #eleggant

SilversReviews It's cute. 😎 7y
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UrsulaMonarch
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Pretty much!

Snow Jazzy little lizard steps ❤️ 7y
UrsulaMonarch @Snow yesssssss!!! 7y
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Clwojick
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Pickpick

A dark and honest illustrated book about daily life when you're struggling with mental illness. A must read for anyone who has or knows anyone who struggles with mental illness. I can't wait to pass this one along. 💜 My last book for #LitsyPartyOfOne

EvieBee This looks like a winner! 7y
mcipher I just scrolled through tons of screenshots of pages of this book and then realized, well, you've read 15 pages now, so you may as well stack it to read for real. 😝 7y
Clwojick @mcipher I do that all the time! Especially with illustrated books. 🙈 7y
RaimeyGallant Quite the illustration. 7y
RealBooks4ever "Glamour beads". I like that! ? 7y
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Clwojick
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Starting another one for #LitsyPartyOfOne 💕Also that's just how Totem sleeps, all sprawled out. I know it looks like I'm squishing him with my book. 😂😂😂 #LitsyKitties #LittenKittens #catsofLitsy #Totem #totesamaze

rubyslippersreads 😹😹😹 7y
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Snow
Pickpick

Gonna flip back to the front and start right over. These make me smile so I read them a little bit at a time.

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Snow
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It me! 😃

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Sarahreadstoomuch
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Pickpick

I can see the comparisons to 'Hyperbole and a half' (right down to the yellow cover), but this is a bit darker, and has less funny bits. It's a real look at how mental illness has affected the author, and the things she has learned as she is making progress in living with it. This could be helpful to someone also living with mental illness, or to loved ones wanting a window into how one person deals with it.

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Sarahreadstoomuch
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She makes a very good point here.

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MatildaBaggins
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Pickpick

This book was very funny, but also serious. I like the way mental illness was discussed, light hearted, but also gets pretty deep. It's nice that artists are doing books like these and more people are opening up about mental illness. ❤️

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MatildaBaggins
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Yes! I love doing this ❤❤ warm and cozy 😂😂

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MatildaBaggins
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Sace This is me. So me. 8y
MatildaBaggins @Sace Same! This book is pretty relatable, same with Hyperbole and a Half 8y
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MatildaBaggins
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I haven't devoted as much time to reading lately, so #litsypartyofone is going to be a little readathon for me 😊 I have these two books as well as American Gods and Order of the Phoenix to start for #hpchapteraday 💙 (I recently discovered Hoopla, loving it!)

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coffeenebula
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Truth 😂

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coffeenebula
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Trying to salvage what's left of this shitty day via #litsypartyofone Couldn't be happening at a better time! 🍵🍪📚

hermyknee Agreed. What is with this week?! 8y
Lmstraubie Milanos make things better 🙃 8y
elkeOriginal Those cookies look yummy! 8y
DebinHawaii The cookies should help! 💜 8y
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erista
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New stuff thanks to #bookmail and a trip to target!
#bookhaul #moviehaul #oopsitreatedmyselfbroke

Coleen 😂😂😂 8y
CocoReads I love that mug! 😂😂❤️❤️ 8y
Texreader That mug!! 👍👍 8y
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moranadatter 🦊💜! 8y
RobinW Love the mug! 8y
Suet624 Totally have to get that mug. 8y
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Hooked_on_books
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Pickpick

A primarily illustrated look at life with mental health infused with humor. The text portions are very down to earth, sensible, straight-talking and useful. For anyone struggling with mental health, this would be a validation and possibly a bit of guidance. For those who know or love someone in that struggle, this would be useful for greater understanding. Reminds me a bit of Hyperbole and a Half.

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WanderingBookaneer
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mjdowens 😂😂😂 8y
OrangeMooseReads 🤣🤣😂😂 8y
JDHawkins Ha!!!! 8y
CatLadyBibliophile Saving that for the next time someone gives me attitude about selfies 😂 8y
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WanderingBookaneer
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🦀💚🦀💚🦀💚🦀💚🦀

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ReadingEnvy I have this on my kanban board at work 8y
Laalaleighh My life in a cartoon 8y
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CuriousG
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Catching up on these after a crazy work week.
Day 23 #riotgrams was #funnybooks
This one definitely qualifies as taking on a difficult and serious subject with that dark humour I absolutely ADORE

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wanderaven
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Pickpick

Absolutely loved this memoir - it's always so thrilling to find someone who oftentimes feels the same in life and particularly when they can articulate those emotions.

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wanderaven
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EchoMyEscape Real Life 😂😂😂 can't wait to read this 8y
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Allietaylor16
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I'm not sure if I can adequately express how much this book means to me. As someone who has bipolar disorder I found myself nodding in agreement with every page. I laughed, and I cried. Ruby is an inspiration, and I highly recommend this book.

HeatherBookNerd Is this like a graphic novel? Would it be good for an older teen? 8y
Allietaylor16 @HeatherBookNerd I wouldn't classify it as a graphic novel. The majority are cartoons but there are also essays throughout. Ruby reflects back on her teen years when she was just beginning to struggle with mental health and body issues. I definitely think that an older teen could relate if they are going through tough times. I know it would have helped me as a teenager. 8y
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WanderingBookaneer
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Riveted_Reader_Melissa 💙❤️💙❤️ 8y
asiriusreader 😳It's like you know me...avoiding writing progress reports that are due on Friday by catching up on all the Litsy posts I missed during the day! 😜#teachersofLitsy #thestruggleisreal 8y
Kmmsellers Yes! I feel your pain. 8y
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Julsmarshall I love this so much! Not a teacher but the daughter of 2 and friend of many 😂 8y
[DELETED] 57804897 I'm a teacher too! So much yes—it's not just students who pull late nights! 8y
Floresj I am a master procrastinator of grading! #blameLitsy 8y
gibblr Still haven't done mine...😬 8y
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WanderingBookaneer
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JSW Perfectly encapsulates my current mental status. 8y
MCYmermaid LOL! 8y
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JenlovesJT47
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Pickpick

This illustration describes me to a T ^^^ I didn't know what to expect from this but was pleasantly surprised. There are some very relatable things here, and some of the illustrations are on point. A different way of looking at the world with anxiety and depression. Recommended! ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️#NetGalley #ARC

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Well-ReadNeck
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#24in48 #readathon #netgalley

Because I have a netgalley problem, I went and grabbed this one just to have a quicker read to put in the readathon.

Really well done graphic non-fiction dealing with depression, anxiety, bipolar disorder, eating disorders and body image. The graphic medium is well suited to creating empathy and understanding where words don't quite capture these mental health issues.

whatthelog !!! What genre was this under? I feel a mighty need to request this one... 8y
Well-ReadNeck @whatthelog it's read now under graphic, comics!! 8y
whatthelog @Well-ReadNeck thanks! 8y
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Mehso-so

An interesting look at living with mental illness. Based on the cartoons, I was hoping for more humor so I was disappointed. The book was good and her fans should enjoy it but it was not for me. 😐

monkeygirlsmama I gave this one a "pick" but it was right on the border of pick/so-so. Meh, you win some; you lose some. ? 8y
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AccessorizedLibrarian
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The wisdom of dogs.🐕🐕🐕

[DELETED] 1409720085 Hahaha, "is dog." 8y
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monkeygirlsmama
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Not everybody copes the same way. Ruby Elliot, author of It's All Absolutely Fine, has found a unique way to share her perspectives on coping through her quirky doodles & drawings. Developed with a comic strip feel, each of the designs & dialogues compels readers to look deep into the inner angst of depression & solitude to find a way to draw parallels to others out there living with the same feelings of inadequacy, loneliness, and/or pain. 4/5⭐️s

monkeygirlsmama This one is available in .pdf on NetGalley right now, FYI. 👍 8y
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Erin01
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absolutely loved this one 🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟
this book does so many things really well - I enjoyed the structure & chapters breakdowns (sometimes online comics don't translate well to the printed page but I thought this was done really well), I loved the mix of writing & illustrations, & I especially admired how Elliot was able to openly discuss her mental health issues & make me laugh at the same time

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Suzze
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Interesting cartoon take on Ruby's bipolar. I get her.

TheLondonBookworm I love every single part of this book I've seen so far- it's just so damn relatable!!!!! Need it in my life 8y
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Suzze
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I love this book! And Ruby.

TheLondonBookworm Ha! It's my life in a picture... 8y
OrangeMooseReads How did they get my resume? 😀 8y
LeahBergen I think everyone should put a farting cat on their CV. 8y
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Zelma 😂😂😂😂 8y
LauraJ I'd hire that person. Her CV is better than most of the ones I see. 8y
Laura317 😂😂😂Yep. Farting cat for the hire! 8y
Faibka 😂👍love this 8y
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