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The Four Agreements
The Four Agreements: A Practical Guide to Personal Freedom | Don Miguel Ruiz
THE FOUR AGREEMENTSBE IMPECCABLE WITH YOUR WORDSpeak with integrity. Say only what you mean. Avoid using the word to speak against yourself or to gossip about others. Use the power of your word in the direction of truth and love. DON'T TAKE ANYTHING PERSONALLYNothing others do is because of you. What others say and do is a projection of their own reality, their own dream. When you are immune to the opinions and actions of others, you won't be the victim of needless suffering.DON'T MAKE ASSUMPTIONSFind the courage to ask questions and to express what you really want. Communicate with others as clearly as you can to avoid misunderstandings, sadness, and drama. With just this one agreement, you can completely transform your life.ALWAYS DO YOUR BESTYour best is going to change from moment to moment; it will be different when you are tired as opposed to well-rested. Under any circumstance, simply do your best, and you will avoid self-judgment, self-abuse, and regret.15TH ANNIVERSARY EDITIONOver seven years on The New York Timesbestseller list!In THE FOUR AGREEMENTS, don Miguel Ruiz reveals the source of self-limiting beliefs that rob us of joy and create needless suffering. Based on ancient Toltec wisdom, The Four Agreements offer a powerful code of conduct that can rapidly transform our lives to a new experience of freedom, true happiness, and love.'Don Miguel Ruiz'a book is a roadmap to enlightenment and freedom.'- Deepak Chopra, Author, The Seven Spiritual Laws of Success'An inspiring book with many great lessons . . . '- Wayne Dyer, Author, Real Magic'In the tradition of Castaneda, Ruiz distils essential Toltec wisdom, expressing with clarity and impeccability what it means for men and women to live as peaceful warriors in the modern world.'- Dan Millman, Author, Way of the Peaceful Warrior
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peaKnit
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#Two4Tuesday Thank you so much for tags @Eggs and @Kshakal
1. My grandmother‘s silverware
2. Tagged - I pray this “powerful code of conduct” is still relevant in 2124…🤞🏻

TheSpineView Thanks for playing! 3mo
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Paus0312

“La felicidad, igual que el sufrimiento, es una elección “

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Paus0312

“Hacer lo máximo que puedas significa actuar porque amas hacerlo, no porque esperas una recompensa. La mayor parte de las personas hacen exactamente lo contrario: sólo emprenden la acción cuando esperan una recompensa, y no disfrutan de ella. Y ese es el motivo por el que no hacen lo máximo que pueden.”

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Paus0312

El maestro contestó: “No estás aquí para sacrificar tu alegría ni tu vida. Estás aquí para vivir, para ser feliz y para amar. Si puedes alcanzar tu máximo nivel en dos horas de meditación, pero utilizas ocho, sólo conseguirás agotarte, apartarte del verdadero sentido de la meditación y no disfrutar de tu vida. Haz lo máximo que puedas, y tal vez aprenderás que independientemente del tiempo que medites, puedes vivir, amar y ser feliz”.

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MoistStickyBun
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Pickpick

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Daily
Pickpick

Miguel wisdom and experience, presented through the audiobook format, really spoke to me.
The Four Agreements are be impeccable with your word, don't take anything personally, don't make assumptions, and always do your best, and are life-changing. There is no better self improvement guide and spiritual manual than this....
Full review: https://www.goodreads.com/review/show/6472779567

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Lizwarnerpdx
Bailedbailed

Not my style of writing/story.

dabbe #hailthebail! 🤩🤩🤩 7mo
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nabilnhd
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The 4 Agreements:

1. Be impeccable with your word
2. Don't take anything personally
3. Don't make assumptions
4. Always do your best

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SarahBookInterrupted
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Pickpick

This has been on my bookshelf for 10+ years and I‘m so glad I finally picked it up. It‘s a super short book and honestly it was repetitive so it could have been even shorter, but it think the author wanted to make sure the reader fully understood each agreement. I‘ll definitely use these agreements in the future. I also felt good how I had already changed my “nightmare” agreements and really feel my life has become my dream. I highly recommend.

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SarahBookInterrupted
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#mondaymotivation 1. It‘s Ramadan so EID this week and my 3 kids are still on Spring break so family time at the beach and finally my daughter‘s 12th birthday sleep over party. 2. I started making my own Chai Latte from scratch, so lately that‘s the one. But, any hot drink. Usually tea but sometimes coffee or hot chocolate. 3. A book mark and I save them over the years like little memories. 4. Tagged- it‘s been in my TBR pile for 10+ years.

AnnCrystal 🎉🎂🥳👍. 8mo
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ItsAnotherJen
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Pickpick

#bestof2023 📚
9 books out 268 got a five star rating this year!

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Eggs
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1-🙏🏻 🤗 👏🏻 and 🩵s

2- first thing that came to mind: tagged

#Two4Tuesday @TheSpineView

Alwaysbeenaloverofbooks 🧡💛🧡 1y
TheSpineView That book is on my TBR list. Thanks for playing! 1y
Eggs @Alwaysbeenaloverofbooks ❤️❤️❤️ 1y
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Eggs @TheSpineView 🧡🧡🧡 1y
Deblovestoread The Four Agreements changed my life. Thanks for the tag! 💜 1y
Eggs @Deblovestoread Same here! And you‘re welcome ☺️ 1y
Bklover Thanks for tag!! ❤️❤️ 1y
Bklover I think I may need to read this book! 1y
Eggs @Bklover you‘re welcome! Agree with @Deblovestoread 👆🏻 1y
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ellimanelli

Wherever you go you will find people lying to you, and as your awareness grows, you will notice that you also lie to yourself. Do not expect people to tell you the truth because they also lie to themselves. You have to trust yourself and choose to believe or not to believe what someone says to you.

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ellimanelli

You can have many great ideas in your head, but what makes the difference is the action. Without action upon an idea, there will be no manifestation, no results, and no reward.

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SassyPants617
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Book club pick for October 📖 I probably wouldn‘t have picked this up on my own and I‘m looking forward to reading it.

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BookDee
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Pickpick

A refreshing short book that focuses on 4 important agreements in order not to be to hard on yourself and attract positivity. A must read if you feel overwhelmed and need a book to help you focus on what‘s really important in life.⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

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Kshakal
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Alwaysbeenaloverofbooks Great choices 📚 1y
Eggs Perfection 👌🏼 1y
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Mansisicho

The other one that had a really profound impact on me was “The Four Agreements“, which is basically the agreements that you make with yourself. People often have conflicting agreements in their mind and if you read this book you'll stop the chatter in your mind. It makes it way easier to focus and execute. It also makes you much stronger emotionally

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megnews
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Bailedbailed

Recommended by a counselor. DNF. Either this is ancient wisdom never shared and the author has chosen to cash in on it OR it‘s his own wisdom and he‘s using that as a hook. I don‘t believe the ancestors gave him permission to share said wisdom after thousands of years. But who am I? 🤷‍♀️ There may be good principles in this book but that turned me off from the start and I couldn‘t carry on. Felt too gimmicky.

AnnR @megnews, I had a similar reaction to this one. At one point I had a co-worker who raved about this book and even had a copy of the “four agreements“ on her desk. Somehow I was put off by some of the author's claims and therefore never fully embraced his message. (You are right that some of it comes off as a gimmick.) I'm surprised this book has continued to be so popular. Maybe there is something to it after all. 2y
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ShaaM
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Mehso-so

The four agreements were good but I found the prayers at the end exaggerated

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Eggs
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Alwaysbeenaloverofbooks Great choice 🧡💛 2y
Eggs ❤️🌿💚 2y
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JudeCC
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#ThinkPositiveBePositive

We should always keep the faith, but also empower ourselves and be ready for battle.
We CAN be STRONG and OVERCOME! 🙌 🌊

Thanks @brittanybooks for the tag. 🥰😃❤
Tagging anyone who wants to play. 😉

The tagged book is a good one! 👍

Alwaysbeenaloverofbooks ❤️❤️❤️ 3y
bthegood love this - 3y
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DebbieGrillo
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"The rest of the animals pay once for every mistake they make. But not us. We have a powerful memory. We make a mistake, we judge ourselves, we find ourselves guilty, and we punish ourselves. If Justice exists, then that was enough; we don't need to do it again. But every time we remember, we judge ourselves again, we are guilty again, and we punish ourselves again, and again, and again."

JudeCC This book is AMAZING!! 3y
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Sharpeipup
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Thanks @ramsfan1963 for the tag!
1. Tagged book helped me change my outlook & many of my relationships.
2. With my last name (Ireland), I celebrate everyday. Ha! No plans this year other than reading a book in quiet.
#two4tuesday @thespineview

TheSpineView I like your plans! Thanks for playing! 💚🍀📖 3y
Bobokyfk Four agreements 2y
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SarahBookInterrupted
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Check out Kara‘s review of The Four Agreements on Book Interrupted‘s Manuscript Monday‘s blog post. https://www.bookinterrupted.com/post/manuscript-monday-the-four-agreements

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JohnLAndBenji
Mehso-so

I understand why people like this book. There were a few good quotes that I highlighted, but I still don‘t fully recommend it. I was occasionally offended, but I could tell the author had good intent. It‘s not life changing, but there are a few parts that make you think differently.

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ShannikaKim
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Mehso-so

Some of the lines are repeatitive.

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CaliforniaCay
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Pickpick

This is one of those books that, had I read it at a different time in my life, I probably wouldn't have liked it. But because I read it at this current point in my life, where I'm on a path of self love and self development, I really connected with it. I highlighted a lot and I really do believe that honoring the 4 agreements will make life easier and more enjoyable. Not for everyone, but a good read for an open mind 😌

IuliaC Stacked! I read The Mastery of Love by Don Miguel Ruiz and enjoyed it 😊 4y
NikkiM5 Four Agreements was an amazing book. I also enjoyed Mindworks by van Warmerdam. It is longer but it helped me work/think through a very hard time. 4y
CaliforniaCay @IuliaC good to know you enjoyed Mastery of love, stacked! 4y
CaliforniaCay @NikkiM5 I haven't heard of that one but sounds interesting, also stacked! 4y
MemoirsForMe Love this book! 🙌🏻 4y
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Eggs
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The 4 agreements above are a good guide for life-this book has been a revelation for me. Sometimes I just pick it up and read a few pages when I feel adrift or disenchanted.
Please share a quote and pass along to others, tagging @Alwaysbeenaloverofbooks #thinkpositivebepositive
Be sure to tag some Litsy folks💗

Crazeedi This little book has been my mantra for many many years. 4y
Crazeedi I have it framed 4y
tracey38 Love this. ❤ A perfect mantra for me at this time. 4y
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Librarybelle Such sage advice. Thank you for the tag! ❤️ 4y
Eggs @crazeedi Which do you find is the hardest one to do? 4y
Eggs @tracey38 great! 4y
Eggs @Librarybelle you‘re most welcome 🙏🏻 4y
TheSpineView Love this! Thanks for the tag! 🥰 4y
Crazeedi All of them!! But probably dont make assumptions. Do you have the book? 4y
Crazeedi @Eggs ⬆️ 4y
Kaylamburson Thank you for the tag! Needed this tonight xox 4y
Eggs @Crazeedi I have several of his books 4y
Crazeedi @Eggs of course you do, I knew it! I only have that one 4y
Mjm1 I‘ll have to check that out. 4y
Eggs @Crazeedi IMO it‘s the best one 4y
Eggs @Mjm1 I hope you can 🤗 4y
JanuarieTimewalker13 I had the audiobook on CDs from years ago, but I no longer have it. Sorry. I really did enjoy that book, however! 4y
Eggs @JanuarieTimewalker13 Glad you liked it! 4y
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ScoobySnacks3
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Crazeedi One of my most important favorite books 4y
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ScoobySnacks3

Only by making an inventory of our agreements will we uncover all of the conflicts in the mind and eventually make order out of the chaos of the mitote.

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Petelord
Pickpick

I was given this book as a gift from my Ex and I loved it. The writing style makes the wisdom within book relatable and easy to digest. Great gift idea, particularly for your loved ones looking to make a change in their life‘s 🙏

ScoobySnacks3 Current read! 4y
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Eggs
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“It's not the stars that create light but rather light that creates stars. Everything is made of light and is the messenger of life. Human perception is merely light perceiving light. Pure love, pure light”.....Don Miguel Ruiz

#thinkpositivebepositive @Alwaysbeenaloverofbooks @Andrew65

You don‘t need to be tagged to play! Everyone can play🥰🥰

Alwaysbeenaloverofbooks ❤️✨🌟💫⭐️ 4y
Andrew65 Great quote 😍 4y
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Crazeedi I love this, and I especially love the book you tagged. 4y
Mjm1 Great quote. 4y
Eggs @Crazeedi Just for you ❤️Diane❤️ sweet friend @Crazeedi 4y
Eggs @Mjm1 Thanks so much ❤️❤️ 4y
Crazeedi @Eggs 🥰💗 4y
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wanderinglynn
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Pickpick

Not new information, but well organized and presented. A book that I will pick up and return to.

I‘ve lost count on what number book I‘m on for all the various readathons and challenges. 😆

NikkiM5 Agreed, not new information for me but I love reminders. 4y
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Eggs
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True freedom has to do with the human spirit — it is the freedom to be who we really are.

#beingfree
#flyhighjuly

CaitlinR This book has meant a lot to me. 💜 4y
Eggs @CaitlinR I concur😌 I reread it plenty 4y
SiameseCatsRead I read and listened to the audiobook. This is a book that I could read over and over for gentle reminders on how to live my best life! 4y
Eggs Agreed 💕 @kelly_anne 4y
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sarahlandis
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“And I put a little piece of my love in every human, and I became one with the whole of humanity. Wherever I go, whomever I meet, I see myself in their eyes, because I am a part of everything, because I love.“

This was a decent read. I think this is a really good starter book for someone on the path to find more peace and have a more positive outlook/effect in life.

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AdamCaron
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Pickpick

This book will open your eye to so many things. Be ready for some emotional moments for yourself.

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Nuree

Great read.

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Eggs
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Toltec Wisdom never fails me. #7days7books
Day 2

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MrBook
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1/4 Yyyyep. 😂👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 #LitsyHumor

hannah-leeloo @Jackal121 this is our thinking 💭😂 5y
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Romy819
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noellereads
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Currently reading The Four Agreements! Definitely challenging my way of thinking and how I see the world! Loving every page so far! Has anyone else read this?

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soul.myths
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Are we free to be who we really are? ♡

#firstpost
#fouragreements
#wisdom
#donmiguelruiz

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MrBook
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My #BestSellers Display is doing the best so far this month! I‘ve had 22 get borrowed off of it since I set it up a little over two weeks ago 😁👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻!

#Bestsellers Display replenishment stack 1/2. Have you read any of these?!

#LitsyLovesLibraries #MrBooksDisplays

Scochrane26 One of these days, I really need to read Night. 5y
Crazeedi Four agreements are my motto 5y
Eggs I‘ve read all of these 5y
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rwmg Night, Gatsby, Lord of the Flies 5y
ShelleyBooksie I read Lord Of The Flies in high school. I REALLY disliked it. 5y
Andrew65 Then She Was Gone And The Great Gatsby. 5y
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freyaheart
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This has been on my TBR forever. Finally going to read it.

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JeezBee
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Just starting this! Found it on a list via Forbes : )

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sailu112
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This book is such an eye opener for me. I should have read it when I was ten years old. Or may be I wouldn't have understood it then! Nevertheless I am so glad I read it. And now I have the four agreements as a post it on my laptop. I fall off and jump back on the wagon again, everyday!

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