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I need some serious emotional support guys. I feel like I‘m drowning & don‘t know where the surface is. On top of my current major health issues, I found out today that my so-called son,his ex girl & her mother have decided that they won‘t be allowing us to see our grand babies, not just for Xmas but at all the 3weeks they are here. I‘ve had to watch my youngest daughter bawling her eyes out & my husband question his worth as a father & poppy.👇👇

Lizpixie I‘ve spent over an hour sobbing myself & haven‘t felt this depressed in years. Please please please suggest some uplifting books, music, movies or tv shows to distract me before I have had enough. My heart is broken💔 7y

CoffeeBooksRepeat I‘m so sorry...sending hugs. 7y

ReadingSusan I am so sorry 😢😢 it‘s so rough to have to deal with this stuff around the holidays. I have found when I get bogged down like this I go back to my comfort reads. Books that are familiar and I love. Going through a reread calms and comforts me. Also, I listen to lots of podcasts. Levar Burton Reads is really good. And the show The Good Place is funny and distracting. 7y

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ReadingSusan Also, I know you didn‘t ask for advice on family stuff but when this happens to me instead of texting and calling them I will sit down and write a long email pouring out how I feel. Sometimes I send it; sometimes I don‘t. And when all else fails if I can scrounge up the money I will go see my therapist. 7y

LitLogophile I‘m so sorry. I know the feeling of being stuck in a depression so dark that you can‘t see the end of it. I can‘t offer you anything except commiseration here, but sometimes it‘s nice to know: it‘s not uncommon to feel this horrible, you can‘t account for the actions of others, even the darkest depressions end. Sending you love❤️ 7y

mrsmarch Oh my gosh! What the heck? I don‘t like the way my MIL treats my children, but I don‘t say she can‘t see them. I just stay present so I can defray the damage. You need to watch You‘ve Got Mail, or The Terminal (Tom Hanks is the cinematic equivalent of mashed potatoes, total comfort food). 7y

robinb @LitLogophile very well said. ❤️ @Lizpixie I‘m keeping you in my prayers and will especially pray for a change of heart for your son. Love and hugs to you 😘🤗 7y

jfalkens I'm so sorry xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx I agree with @ReadingSusan an old friend is perfect for when your sad and probably won't be concentrating too hard on what your reading. I hope they change their minds xxxxxxxxxxxxxx 7y

ScorpioBookDreams I have depression so completely understanding. Sending good thoughts your way. For a cute contemporary romance try

When Dimple Met Rishi

ScorpioBookDreams Or this never fails to cheer me up

The Guernsey Literary and Potato Peel Pie Society

mrsmarch I just looked at your feed to see what books you liked. You need David Eddings‘ Pawn of Prophecy. And if you can find it at the library,

Our Lady of the Lost and Found: A Novel of Mary, Faith, and Friendship

SilversReviews HUGS. 7y

Tamra Hoping for a change of your son‘s heart 💜. 7y

aprilpohren Sending you tons of hugs, prayers, love and support. 7y

Ddzmini Awe when family does something like this even books often doesn‘t help. My oldest daughter has done this to me... I‘m not going into details why but it‘s been about 2-3 years she has not talked to me I have a grandson and she is now pregnant. It is very difficult but I keep try to reach out it is the only thing I can do. Depression sucks I deal with it by meditating and yoga, when it‘s really bad you just have to take time for you. 7y

erzascarletbookgasm I wish I‘m in your city, Liz. I‘ll drop by for a visit and take you out shopping and dinning and whatever you want for a distraction, though temporary. It‘s alright if you want to take a break from reading, maybe just watch movies and tv shows - your favourite reruns. For me, rom-coms are a treat - light, easy, fun. Keeping you in my thoughts and big hugs to you. 💕Hope things will work out alright. 7y

josie281 You are all heart. I‘m sorry that your son is being stupid. (Sounds like my brother....). His decisions are not a reflection of you as a person. 💜💙💚💛❤️🖤 7y

LibrarianRyan This sucks. I haven't seen my nephews in two years. My sister in law is punishing my brother. The worst part, Jaxon had a school assignment to write a letter and he wrote it to me. Asked me to take him to see the new Star Wars. I would do it in a heart beat but his mom won't let them contact us. If it wasn't for a school assignment I doubt I would have heard anything. I feel you pain. I hope it gets better for you. 7y

tournevis *all the hugs* You are worthy! 7y

Godmotherx5 Family can cause the deepest wounds. I know this firsthand. You have to know their choices are not always about you. Even though the hurt is real, it‘s important not to let it spiral you into a dark place. Hugs & more hugs. 7y

Suelizbeth I‘m so sorry. Sending you hugs and love and all good wishes. Yes, you are worthy! 7y

cobwebmoth I'm so sorry that you're having to deal with this. Sending love and light.💗 7y

hes7 Aw, this sucks, and I'm so sorry. ❤️❤️ I hope you feel lots of love surrounding you in the next few weeks! 7y

quietjenn Oh, man. That's awful. Sending lots of love and good vibes your way. 7y

GypsyKat I‘m so sorry, Christmas is supposed to be a time for family and loved ones. I‘m so sorry that your son doesn‘t understand that. I don‘t understand some people. I don‘t have recommendations, but I hope that you will still be able to celebrate the season with the people who are in your life, and try to focus on them. (((HUGS))) ❤️ 7y

Julsmarshall Sending love and wishes that they will change their minds and remember the joy family brings at Christmas. ❤️❤️❤️ 7y

scripturient Sending hugs and lots of love! I herewith officially allow you to open your Litsy around the World Secret Santa package in the hope it will make you feel better. And I hope your son will eventually see sense and remember what Xmas is about. Hang in there, lovely! We‘re here for you and support you!! 😘 7y

scripturient As for suggestions of uplifting TV shows, etc: I don‘t know about you but the Gilmore Girls have always lifted my spirits in any bad situation. 7y

scripturient And my book suggestion: Jenny Colgan‘s The Summer Seaside Kitchen. Hope you feel better soon, my dear! 7y

daena Hugs to you💚 7y

Christine11 I‘m so sorry for everything you‘re going through. I‘m dealing with major health issues too and it is so difficult to then have other things not concerning illness piling up on you too. I would suggest A Man Called Ove or The Rosie Project for an uplifting read. My comfort reading is usually Harry Potter! I hope things improve for you soon !

The Rosie Project

(edited) 7y

ErikasMindfulShelf 💕 7y

Kendra.Diane I‘m so sorry 💜 hugs and prayers for some good vibes 7y

TricksyTails Sending you hugs and love. ♥️I am so sorry you're faced with this. Sigh. Family heartbreak is the worst heartache. I completely relate to the feeling of drowning with no end in sight. I always reread Harry Potter for comfort. Also, a book I've recently read that I think will be the perfect medicine--comforting AND make you laugh out loud is

The Guernsey Literary and Potato Peel Pie Society: A Novel

laundry_piles I am so sorry, what a terrible heartbreak. Sending you love and the hope that things take a turn for the better very soon 💕 7y

NCNY So sorry to hear this. My sister and mother aren't currently speaking and I see how heartbreaking it is for my mother. The Incredibles always makes me happy. And I agree with the people suggesting Guernsey Literary... I hope they have a change of heart and you get to see the kiddos. 7y

mrp27 Sending love and happiness to you. 7y

LiteraryinPA I‘m so, so sorry you‘re going through this on top of everything else. My literary comfort food is Agatha Christie. If you want a laugh out loud movie, I suggest Noises Off, or maybe something comforting like Mary Poppins. Keep taking it one hour at a time. You can get through this. 💚💚 7y

squirrelbrain Oh I‘m so sorry @Lizpixie. I can‘t add any more to the fabulous advice you‘ve already received but just wanted to say I‘m thinking of you xx 7y

Ashley_Nicoletto How awful. I'm sorry that all of this is happening to you. Sending all the love. ❤️ Stay strong. 7y

Kalalalatja I'm so, so sorry 💔 I hope it all works out in the end, but man, this sucks! My mom and little brother had a period, where they didn't talk, and it still impacts our family today, even though it has been 4 years... I would suggest visiting old, favourite book, or watching some easy-breasy comedy. That always work for me when I'm feeling overwhelmed and done with it all. 7y

megt Sending love and hugs to you, your husband, and your daughter. I‘m so sorry that you‘re facing this, especially at this time of year. At trying times I tend to reach for silly things that make me giggle and don‘t make my brain work, like the Stephanie Plum series. Whatever you choose to read or watch right now, just know that it all comes with a big Litsy hug from all of us. ❤️ 7y

BookwormAHN I'm so sorry to hear that. I'm sending you love and hugs. 💚 Also I suggest a tv series marathon of Buffy the Vampire Slayer or Psych, something to get your mind elsewhere. As for books Tessa Dare's books are good light hearted romances, very good for escaping reality for a while. 7y

Lizpixie @CoffeeBooksRepeat @ReadingSusan @LitLogophile @mrsmarch @robinb @jfalkens @ScorpioBookDreams @SilversReviews @Tamra @aprilpohren @Ddzmini @erzascarletbookgasm @josie281 @LibrarianRyan @tournevis @Godmotherx5 @Suelizbeth @cobwebmoth @hes7 @quietjenn @GypsyKat @Julsmarshall @daena @Christine11 @irre @Kendra.Diane @TricksyTails @laundry_piles @NCNY @mrp27 @LiteraryinLititz @squirrelbrain @Ashley_Nicoletto @Kalalalatja @megt @BookwormAHN 👇👇👇👇👇👇 7y

Lizpixie Thankyou all for your well wishes, hugs, love & suggestions. It‘s been a very very long & lonely night but I‘m trying to go to bed and get some sleep before moving forward with a smile on my face again. Much much love and hugs to all of you.😘❤️😘💜😘💙😘🧡😘💕 7y

LeahBergen Aww, this sucks, Liz. Sending you big hugs and much love. 😘😘😘 7y

Lizpixie @scripturient thank you lovely, with your permission, I would very much love to open my #litsyaroundtheworldsecretsanta & cheer myself up for awhile. I‘m positive I will love everything in it. I took photos of the damage to the box, did you want them emailed to you or put them in a dm on slack? Much much love hugs & kisses from this world weary Aussie.😘😘😘😘😘 7y

Lizpixie @LeahBergen thanks lovey, you know what would definitely cheer me up? A package full of Davids Tea! I am willing to reciprocate with vegemite, milo & Caramello koalas!🇦🇺💚💙💛 7y

JacqMac I‘m so sorry. I‘d like to say I haven‘t been there, but I can relate. I know it hurts. Sending you lots of love. I hope you find some peace. 💕 💕 7y

scripturient @Lizpixie I‘m excited to see what you think. Don‘t worry about sending the damage pix yet. Once you‘ve opened it, we‘ll see if anything is missing and then we can see what we should do. :) 7y

LeahBergen @Lizpixie I‘ll start working on putting together one for you today! 😘😘 7y

JennyM Sending hugs and good thoughts your way ❣️ 7y

Laura317 @Lizpixie Praying that things work out. Hugs to you! 💕💕 7y

Owlizabeth Hugs 💞💞💞 7y

TrishB Sorry to hear 💜 this can be a difficult time of year. Sending love and hugs 💕 7y

Eggs Aww that's crummy. Hugs and blessings coming your way😩😘😍😊 7y

Jas16 I am so sorry. Sending you lots of love. 7y

MamaGina Well that just bites! I'm sorry your family's causing you and yours such emotional pain, especially at the holidays! (edited) 7y

minkyb That is horrible. I am so sorry. 7y

sprainedbrain I‘m so sorry. Family have a way of hurting us more than anyone else. Hugs. ❤️ 7y

Dragon So very sorry to hear your sad news. I know how much you were looking forward to seeing your grandchildren. I‘m praying 🙏 your son will change his mind. 7y

ErickaS_Flyleafunfurled I am so so sorry. We all love you. Hope things turn around. Wishing you lots of love and healing. 7y

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