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Chrissyreadit

Joined December 2016

Follow me on storygraph (same name). Link to Litsy info and tips for new members :) : https://sites.google.com/view/litsywelcomewagon/home
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The Covid-19 Vaccine Guide: The Quest for Implementation of Safe and Effective Vaccinations | Kathryn M. Edwards, Walter A. Orenstein, David S. Stephens
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Happy #hyggereadathon day!!! Today I am resting up after getting my covid vax yesterday- So relieved to finally have it! Tonight is the inaugural bookclub meeting for Miss Willa‘s bookclub- ibuprofen will be my best friend!!! I can‘t wait to see how you all fit in an hour of cozy reading in community ❤️

TheBookHippie Beautiful bookshop!! Rest well. 5d
dabbe Rest up! 🧡🍁♥️ 5d
AnnCrystal 📚🤩💝. 4d
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The Winter Witch | Paula Brackston
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Sign ups are open!! See @BookwormAHN for link🖤

BookwormAHN Thanks for sharing 🐈‍⬛ 6d
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Wishing a blessed Samhain to everyone who celebrates this season! I am sharing one of my many altar spaces (embroidery courtesy of the lovely @StaceGhost And thought I‘d share books my beloved Grandma and Dad shared with me as part of my Ancestor journey- please feel free to share books you have been inspired to read by ancestors also🖤Mine will be tagged- and I love all of them!

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lil1inblue 💓💓💓 Love. 1w
Bookwormjillk ❤ ❤ ❤ 1w
AnnCrystal 😍🥲💝💝💝. 1w
Deblovestoread Lovely post! It inspires me to share my grandma‘s story. 1w
Ruthiella 🎃🎃🎃 1w
KT1432 🔮🔮🔮 1w
BookwormAHN ❤️🐈‍⬛❤️ 7d
dabbe L🖤VE!!! 🧡🎃🖤 7d
StaceGhost Gorgeous! Also 🥹🤟 7d
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Witchery | Juliet Diaz
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Post 2/2: Stacey these were all so amazing (coffee too even though on first post) The packaging of the chocolate alone was decadent!!!! The candle and spray smell divine!!!! and the Witches Bells are gorgeous! Thank you so much for this incredible box- I am so grateful for all of it!!! 🖤🖤🖤
Thank you again Ashley -I love having a Witchy holiday 🖤

BookwormAHN Great package and your welcome 🐈‍⬛ 7d
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Witchery | Juliet Diaz
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post 1 of 2 with my fun witchy books and a coffee I am beyond excited to taste!!! Thank you Stacey- opening this package was a genuine celebration of the Day 🌖🌑🌔🖤🖤🖤 #mws
Thank you Ashley for hosting!!!!

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WildAlaskaBibliophile I'm so glad you enjoy everything! I had a lot of fun shopping and putting this together for you! Happy All Hallows! 🧡🎃🧙‍♀️🧹🪄💜 1w
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Thank you so much Kaleah!!!! I love my #ahr package 🧡🧡🧡🧡🧡🧡🧡🧡🧡🧡🧡🧡🧡🧡🧡🧡🧡and i am so happy about the chocolate!!!! Yummmmm

TheBookHippie Oh that chocolate looks good. 1w
KT1432 Yayyy I‘m so glad lol!! I tried the non-vegan ones and they were really good! 😊 Hope you like these! 1w
Gissy Great!!! We have acquired a couple of books📚🙌🖤🖤🖤 1w
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AmyG Great chocolates. I love Unreal. 1w
Avanders Ooh the tagged looks fun! 👏🏼👏🏼 1w
MaleficentBookDragon Play Nice is a popular book this swap. I love it! 😈 1w
MaleficentBookDragon @AmyG ohh, tell me more about unreal. 1w
AmyG @MaleficentBookDragon Unreal is way less sugar, yet you still feel like you are eating candy. Less sweet but very good. My favorites are the peanut butter cups and coconut ones. 1w
Chrissyreadit @MaleficentBookDragon exactly what @AmyG said- but the chocolate is not as sweet- think mildly sweetened dark chocolate- it‘s a taste i prefer and love ❤️ 1w
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Happy #hyggehourreadathon day!!!

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Happy #hyggehourreadathon day!!!

AnnCrystal 🤩💝😍. 2w
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In previous chapters we read about learning to trust ourselves, then this sentence appears! It is a terrifying perspective for those of us who have lived with domestic violence- but in a specific context it is most likely a vital truth. The context of fear, trust and safety- and how do we ever find it after the death of that experience? That is when we have to discern between fear because of danger vs fear because of trauma. Thoughts?

Chrissyreadit In a slightly different context- have you ever been afraid of what being in a relationship would mean for you? 2w
Chrissyreadit Relationships become tricky for many reasons- but do mean that there is a joining by nature- that can make one stronger and safer- Has it ever been scary to transition in and/or out of relationships? 2w
Chrissyreadit I can honestly say that I have probably avoided some men I should have dated and dated some men I should have avoided… Now i am focusing on my relationship with myself. 2w
GingerAntics I was troubled by this. It felt like a complete 180. 2w
BookwormAHN I get the idea behind this statement but it just seems wrong. Relationships can be tricky but when something deep down tells you to run you run. And Chrissy good for you 💗 2w
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Sedna is mentioned in the first part of this chapter so i thought i would share the Goddess card reflection of her I have. If you read it I would be curious to hear how it was received or impacted your thoughts in relation to this chapter and yourself.

AnnCrystal I love this! Sedna was one of the first I read about when I began researching my own Ancestral World.

My ancestors are from Arizona, grandma of my mom's mother.

But I consider the whole of the Americas as my Ancestral World.

This was fascinating for me. Not the tragic of the story, because is felt equal in the extraordinary elements to the tales I read from other “outside“ cultures. From Greece, Nordic, Egypt, Asian, etc.

Epic 👏🏼🤩👍🏼💝💝.
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My responses are leaving high school, endings of friendships, home the way i lived in it and going to college, then leaving college and going to work- then end of childhood and beginning of adulting…. and of course life after divorce - This cycle does play out in numerous ways through life experiences.

TheBookHippie I worked in locked units-I left it when my daughter was 3 -I just couldn‘t risk myself -I loved it so, but I switched to locked Alzheimer‘s units -at the time this was normal.. I did this for a long time but had to quit when pregnant with my son, when I switched over to education and reading literacy advocacy. All things that were bittersweet. 2w
GingerAntics The only thing this brought to mind to me was genuine childhood. When I hit puberty, a lot of my hopes were dashed… so it wasn‘t necessarily a happier/better beginning, but I think it‘s getting there for me. 2w
nanuska_153 I changed my speciality a couple times, I get the feeling that I need to learn something new from time to time and I switch.Currently trying to change from being the door that everyone knocks when they have a Property Law question to start from 0 in Criminal Law. It's always scary because I like to be considered an expert and it's tough to go through the stress of not knowing how to do your job,but if I feel I can't grow anymore I have to leave. 2w
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Went to hear this author speak about her book and experiences (Leanna Renee Heiber) and Then took a ghost tour with the group (of Shepherdstown) - A lot of fun!! BUT So cold!!! I wore my hat made by @MommyOfTwo and it was perfect!!!

Susanita Sounds like a fun evening! 2w
AnnCrystal
📚👏🏼🥳👍🏼👻💝.
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My #ahrs and #mws packages are in the mail as of yesterday. I have now received both my #allhallowsreadswap package and my #modernwitchswap package and am impatiently waiting with anticipation and excitement!!!!

KT1432 Yayyyy lol I forgot to put my handle but you guessed correctly! 😅 2w
BookwormAHN Yay 💜🐈‍⬛💜 2w
MaleficentBookDragon Thanks! 🐈‍⬛ 🔪 🧙🏻‍♀️ 🧛🏻‍♂️ 🐺 👻 2w
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This chapter was interesting- It seemed to have a significant overlap with parts work as well as shadow work. The part that gives up, the part that gets distracted, the part that perseveres… I can relate to all of it. The concept of shadow work is in accepting the parts of ourselves we are uncomfortable with. Through a somatic lens it‘s recognizing the body and brain want us to be safe. My ADHD brain is better suited to some tasks!

Chrissyreadit I know there are times i‘ve had to be stern with myself, use timers and trackers as well as ask for help and grace. This activity is a great example! I love it- but reading, then writing questions all require my focus more than most tasks- and Sometimes it feels overwhelming- and i‘m easily distracted. But once i start i‘m all in!!! 3w
TheBookHippie No. And people get so upset that this is true of me 🫠😝😅🫣 … 3w
Cuilin Ugh ADHD here too. I go between hating this about myself and then other times completely just accepting it and going with the flow. (And if that is not an indicator of being ADHD, I don‘t know what is lol) but I‘m tired of carrying the shame and guilt. 3w
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kspenmoll Please do not,try not to feel shame, guilt. It‘s such a struggle,I know.My mom had our family very organized- school, homework, rotating work chart-I learned to be open about my ADD but it is easy at work as I work with spec ed students-also, much of my family is similar.The ability to hyper focus is a gift- losing things or leaving them behind is not! but the Tile app is my best friend for finding keys, wallet, even my kindle !!!! 3w
TheBookHippie @kspenmoll my daughter struggles too. 2w
TheBookHippie @Cuilin I think so many creative people have ADHD. It just makes you you … 2w
TheBookHippie @kspenmoll what is the tile app 2w
kspenmoll @TheBookHippie I “lose” my phone all over the resource room, etc at work. I just hit the tile button attachment on my key chain. I have one stuck to my kindle, in my wallet, etc. they come in all sizes. Best Buy carries them I think as well as mail order. Not cheap but you can get replacement batteries for some. (edited) 2w
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Sorry- I am definitely a week or so behind.
I do believe names are important- and are why people have nicknames, change their name, use a married name or keep their name from birth. I personally love hearing how people came by their names too. I think names may speak about who we are- there are people who shorten their name and people who use completed names- go by formal address or first names. It all helps us start the conversation.

Chrissyreadit It is also telling when people purposely use the wrong name or title. 3w
TheBookHippie @Chrissyreadit it‘s abusive when they refuse to use your name. 3w
TheBookHippie So what schedule should we use? It‘s chapter 5 for this current week yes? 3w
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Chrissyreadit @TheBookHippie yes i will work on questions for next week for chapter 5 3w
TheBookHippie Names have power. Especially for women. And the Ms Miss Mrs thing is a tool of the patriarchy. 3w
BookwormAHN @TheBookHippie I so agree. Also is it just me or is it weird when you get switched from a Miss to Ma'am by the people working at Walmart? 3w
dabbe I am soooooo behind! 😩 3w
ravenlee One of the things about my husband‘s family (him included) that has baffled me for 20 years is that they‘re weird about names. Hub‘s sister is rarely called by her name, just her first initial (which is mine, too, and confused me at first). The cat my MIL had when I met hubby, the cat who loved him and despised me, was never called by her name (Ivy), but was any number of insulting nicknames, including “GrayFat.” 👇🏻 3w
ravenlee Everything and everybody has some weird pseudonym, and it has taken me years to sort out who they‘re talking about. I still don‘t get some of them. 🤷🏻‍♀️ 3w
kspenmoll I am behind reading. What chapter are we on? Apologies everyone! Been in a reading slump. Oops just saw this week is ch.4 Despite not having read this ch. I do believe names have power. I was named for my paternal grandmother & I feel a kinship with her & her life story despite the fact she was dead before I was born. There are so many instances of names & the power they hold. (edited) 3w
TheBookHippie @BookwormAHN it‘s an insult! 3w
nanuska_153 I'm really behind with my reading for work reasons, but I do think names hold power and identity, that's why in concentration camps they switched their names for numbers. It's so alien to me also that some women change their surnames when married, it's not a thing in Spain so when I moved to Ireland it really shocked me.I read it is inherited from a time when women didn't have capacity so they went from being under the guardianship of the father⬇️ 2w
nanuska_153 to the husband. My surname is Armenian, my grandparents escaped during the genocide, so I can't imagine giving it up and erasing them and that part of me from history. It's part of who I am and where I came from, why would I change it for my husband's history? 2w
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Seriously I don‘t know how I missed this… Happiest of belated Birthdays Amy!!! Sending you lots of Love ❤️

AmyG Thank you. You are actually not late. My birthday is Tuesday. BUT….HUZZAH! You are the first person to wish me a Happy Birthday! 😘 3w
AnnCrystal @AmyG 👏🏼🥳 Happy Birthday Month 🎂🍰💝. 3w
AmyG Ha! Thank you @AnnCrystal 3w
Chrissyreadit @AmyG phew!!! it‘s in the wrong place on my bday calendar 🤣 3w
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Happy Indigenous People‘s Day. The map of WV lands courtesy of an interactive map on savetheboundarywaters.com . Braiding Sweetgrass is a non fiction book I love and thanks to #lpmbc I read Love After The End- a book I absolutely loved and recommend. The third book was read by a local book club and recommended so i bought it this weekend. Please consider sharing your favorite books by Indiginous authors #Indiginouspeoplesday

AnnCrystal 👏🏼🥳👍🏼💝💝💝. 4w
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Hygge | Louisa Thomsen Brits
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Happy #hyggehourreadathon day! Wherever you are! Hope to see you are able to enjoy an hour of cozy, comfy reading in community 🧡

dabbe 🧡💜💛 4w
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I think about how we all have our own perspectives and often struggle to see a big picture or accept other perspectives as valid. I would love to be able to feel grounded more often with clearer understanding of situations.

AmyG Same, probably, for all of us. Just takes more work, more awareness and being present. And listening fully to others. (edited) 1mo
TheBookHippie I think we all struggle to think it‘s valid -so I switched to this is valid for them. Unless hateful- I don‘t generally care… I think it‘s very important to not dismiss lived experience- especially from someone marginalised. 1mo
TheBookHippie I generally feel grounded. Especially in chaos -so I‘m doing fairly better than most in this current regime. Also being in social justice a long time helps. Peace within with chaos outside is the way to live. 1mo
Cuilin I really embrace other people‘s opinions, I think having children who are very much of their generation has led me to explore and grow. I love learning I love hearing what other people have to say. For example, I am not a Taylor Swift fan, but I‘ve enjoyed watching people break down the new album and the lyrics both those who hated it and those who love it I find it fascinating. (edited) 1mo
ravenlee I like the idea that the fiery skull shows what is behind the persona. It burns away the façade and allows us to see who someone truly is. I‘d like to think sometimes it‘s for the better, but generally not. 4w
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We often have “a feeling” but do not know how to respond. Have you ever questioned your intuition? I know that my intuition is often right but sometimes i ignore it because it is “inconvenient “.

AmyG I have been working on listening to my intuition more. How many times, in hindsight, have I realized I should have been listening to myself. But sometimes intuition is a fleeting thought proven correct all along. For me, it‘s trying to be aware of those. 1mo
TheBookHippie Anytime I have not trusted my intuition or put it aside to avoid conflict- I have paid dearly. I don‘t do that anymore. Using No. As a complete sentence has helped me immensely. 1mo
Cuilin @TheBookHippie Yes no is a complete sentence. Definitely works. I also like to use the pause. I literally say nothing but just keep looking, slightly quizzical. It makes people very uncomfortable, and they start filling in the gap themselves. Yeah, always go with your intuition. 1mo
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TheBookHippie @Cuilin oh I‘m going to use that. Thank you. ♥️ 1mo
Kerrbearlib I didn‘t used to listen to my intuition because I was taught not to trust it. I‘ve since realized society brainwashes people, especially women, to not trust our intuition. I think this quote from Controlling People sums it up perfectly: “many people have learned to distrust their own intuition and everyone else's, too. It was not so long ago that those who listened to their intuition were called witches and warlocks.” I trust my intuition now. 1mo
ravenlee I feel like this could have a whole separate discussion about menopause/pre-menopause. As a “woman of a certain age,” there‘s a lot of question as to whether any of this is physical or mental/emotional. 4w
Chrissyreadit @ravenlee We can‘t win either- because everything is our fault. I was gaslit for almost a decade and it was perimenopause and menopause- combined with EDS it‘s all excruciating- 4w
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This is something that lives in my thoughts all the time… We are being fear mongered about immigrants.. vaccines… books…and because our brains are hard wired to seek safety it is easy for some people to give in to the fear mongering. In the end Baba Yaga was the provider of safety….

AmyG With all the fear mongering in our news, I have had moments of “fearful doubt”? I recently got vaccines and for a hot minute I felt fear. But I was able to tell myself, listen to myself, that this is science and nothing to fear. 1mo
AmyG I also want to add….if someone I don‘t fully trust is trying to help me…well, that makes it more difficult to accept the help. 1mo
TheBookHippie I was raised to question everything never take anything at face value. Especially the news, especially those in power. 1mo
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TheBookHippie So fear of reaction to a vaccine or drug -yes -but only because I do have multiple medication allergies. It‘s a leap of faith for new things that they‘ll do more good than harm. Otherwise not that I can think of. 1mo
Cuilin As an immigrant myself living in America, yeah I‘ve been full of fear a lot lately. It‘s definitely affecting my health. A few years ago, I was in a coffee shop and somebody said something to me about not being American and then ended it with, but you‘re the right type of immigrant so you‘re OK. Like WTF? They really thought that last line made things better. 1mo
ravenlee There‘s so much fear of the unknown, fear of the different. It‘s particularly bad now, but it‘s not a recent phenomenon. People in general are afraid of what they do not understand. Sometimes that fear is protective, but it almost cuts off our realm of experience if we never push past it. 4w
Chrissyreadit @AmyG I do think as women it is much harder to trust the medical profession. 4w
Chrissyreadit @TheBookHippie knowing what we know of history it‘s a wonder we can trust anything at all…. 4w
Chrissyreadit @Cuilin I did not realize you are an immigrant! That definitely gives you a different perspective about so much of what is happening now. And Rascim is ugly- and Rascists are currently emboldened…. 4w
Chrissyreadit @Cuilin What are some ways you are caring for yourself? 4w
Chrissyreadit @ravenlee Yes- but also i feel like fear is being groomed and weaponized- and courage is not part of the equation. Especially for fox news watchers. 4w
Cuilin @Chrissyreadit Thanks for asking. I‘ve had some health issues which has kept me home quite a bit for the last two years and I‘m sure all of that is exacerbating my fear. I‘m doing better, getting daily exercise, eating right, etc 3w
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I have always felt a bit of connection to Baba Yaga. When my daughter was little she would ask me which disney princess i was and i always told her i was Baba Yaga. I believed deeply in the wisdom of the crone and fear mongering of witches….

TheBookHippie In my personal post I wrote of how I grew up with this story. I have always loved her. 1mo
Cuilin All I knew honestly was from children‘s books like Tomie DePaola. I enjoyed these stories though. 1mo
lil1inblue I've got to play catch-up! I don't want to say I got stuck on Chapter 2, but I needed to take it in small bits because it got heavy. I'm hoping to get to Chapter 3 this weekend! I do remember hearing about Baba Yaga from my 4th grade teacher, Mrs. Abrams (she was THE BEST), but I don't remember a lot of details. 1mo
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GingerAntics I had never heard of her before this… at least not by the name. 1mo
dabbe I'm with @lil1inblue. Chapter 2 was a LOT to digest. Never heard of Baba Yaga either ... can't wait to read about her! 🧡 1mo
ravenlee I didn‘t grow up with Baba Yaga exactly, but I encountered the stories sometime in my adolescence. Now I‘m starting to think about elements of the BY/Vasilisa stories in books I‘ve read. For instance, Ilona Andrews incorporates Vasilisa into the Kate Daniels world (specifically the Roman novella Sanctuary), Patricia Briggs‘ Mercy Thompson series features a Baba Yaga who is involved in MLM sales… 4w
ravenlee …and I‘m starting to wonder if the heroine of Katherine Arden‘s Small Spaces is a Vasilisa. Well, I had an amazing literature mentor who leaned heavily into Jung/Campbell/Frye archetypes and I‘ve been conditioned to find archetypes in literature! 😆 4w
Chrissyreadit @lil1inblue @dabbe take your time- Chapters are a lot. There is always time to jump in where you are ❤️ 4w
Chrissyreadit @ravenlee I love that!! And i bet those archetypes appear in places we have not yet realized too! 4w
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My #mws package has arrived!!! Am very excited!!

BookwormAHN Yay 🐈‍⬛ 3w
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Happiest of Birthdays @Gissy 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
I hope all your birthday wishes come true ! (and with a little luck your bday package gets mailed this weekend 😘)

Ddzmini Happy birthday 🎁🎂🎊🎈🎉 🥳📚 1mo
jdiehr Happy birthday! 1mo
mabell Happy Birthday, Friend!! 💕🧁🎂📚 And that is a very cool cake! 😍🎃 1mo
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KT1432 Happy Birthday Gissy!! 1mo
Soubhiville Happy birthday @Gissy !!! 1mo
Suet624 Happy birthday!! 1mo
Ruthiella @Gissy Happy Birthday! 🥳🥳🥳 1mo
mrp27 Happy Birthday! 📚🎉🎂 1mo
AnnCrystal 👏🏼🥳 Happy Birthday @Gissy 🎂🍰💝. 1mo
Gissy Thank so much!!! Yesterday I arrived so late🤪But thank you for those lovely wishes🥰I will continue the celebration the whole month. It is fall, my favorite season love the colors, decorations, scents and because of that, is the better excuse to read more spooky, suspense books 👻

@Ddzimini @jdiehr @KT1432 @Soubhiville @Suet624 @Ruthiella @mrp27 @AnnCrystal
🧡🍁🤎🍂💛🍄‍🟫🦫🦊 @mabell Yesterday I receive a box from you. Can I open it? 😃
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mabell @Gissy Definitely!! 😁 1mo
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Happy Belated Birthday Elizabeth!!! I hope this is an amazing year for you!!!!

AnnCrystal 🥳 Happy Birthday @mabell 🎂🍰💝. 1mo
Ddzmini Happy birthday 🎈🎁🎉🎊🎂 🥳📚 1mo
dabbe HB! 🤩😍🤩 1mo
mabell Lovely! Thank you so much, Chrissy! 🥰❤️ 1mo
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I have been wondering why this subgenre is so popular. As someone who has been stalked and assaulted I have a hard time finding the romance in any of this- it lends more to horror for me (although i did think Hooked told a good story and was shocked i liked it) But when reading chapter 2 in the book I wonder if this is a different way to understand the dark man in our psyches. Or is this representing our Shadows and our own dark sides? I have

Chrissyreadit so many thoughts and hopes for discussion on this topic- What do these books heal in us? or What messages do you get from genres with more violence and/or taboo themes? How do you respond to taboo? Could that be a dark man in your life? 1mo
GingerAntics Yeah, I‘ve wondered that myself. I used to enjoy those books as a teen, until I was stalked, abused, etc. Now they just don‘t sit right with me. I‘ve always seen it as the predator trying to convince us that their harm is actually good/romantic. I find it troubling that more and more of this is written by women. 1mo
TheBookHippie @Chrissyreadit @GingerAntics interestingly I‘ve found unhealed women read these and healed women abhor them. Only reason I say this is it‘s how I feel and then I got into a discussion with some women and they said they read it for comfort because it was comforting. When they got to healing and therapy they no longer could read it. Interesting. I honestly don‘t know over all- that‘s a tiny group here at a women shelter book club. I personally ⬇️ 1mo
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TheBookHippie Don‘t read this type of book. I don‘t read certain subjects because I do not believe it‘s ethical and is sometimes theater trauma or voyeur trauma. No thanks. There are things I lived I care not to read about. It‘s not what I use reading for. I however have no issue with people who need it or want it. Personal choice is not my business. 🙃 1mo
GingerAntics @TheBookHippie that‘s a really valid point. If some people want to read it, like it, more power to them I guess. I still find it heartbreaking that falling for the predator is this massive trope. I mean, even Beauty and the Beast falls into this. We‘re selling it to little kids as normal. 1mo
TheBookHippie @GingerAntics I adored dark fairytales as a child and they were comforting because no happy ending and it was real. Like my life. Disney fairytales made me angry because I felt it was lying. It is probably why I adore Alice in Wonderland more than the others. I still love Dark FairyTales but now it‘s just nostalgia -look what saved me. 1mo
lil1inblue @TheBookHippie I tend to agree with you. I don't find an overall value in this type of book, and it does feel voyeuristic. Not gonna judge others for reading it, but it's not for me. 🎯 1mo
BookwormAHN I don't know, I read Anne Rice's Beauty novels as a teenager and they really freaked me out. Having said that Haunting Adeline is on my tbr. I think it just depends on the story and my mood 🤷🏼‍♀️ 1mo
ravenlee I wonder if some of the appeal of reading this is that, at any point, you can put it down. It‘s a small power, but sometimes that‘s all you‘ve got. Maybe the glimpse into the male motivation validates something for some readers (largely the ones who think rape is about sex rather than power - I had someone explain rape fantasy to me as “making a man so wild he can‘t overcome his desire for me” 🤢). 1mo
GingerAntics @ravenlee 🤮 gross! I don‘t mind a mutual chasing fantasy, where a couple who have developed a relationship and trust have this shared fantasy of chasing and catching and whatever… because it‘s mutual and it‘s a good time for all. I just don‘t understand rape fantasies, though. Just, gross. It seriously sounds like something a man made up and convinced some women they actually had. 1mo
GingerAntics @TheBookHippie I like original fairytales too. They are more about teaching kids about life and reality than this Disney crap. I loved Disney movies as a kid, but mostly for the music. If it‘s a musical, I‘ll watch just about anything. lol 1mo
TheBookHippie @ravenlee controlling the narrative is big. Rape is about power and control. So they are controlling at what they can take in is plausible. Uncontrollable desire is a myth. Insecure women fall for it everyday … 1mo
AmyG I am always fascinated by people who do things I‘d never dream of doing. What compels them. It‘s all about understanding why. @ravenlee Yes…understanding the motivation. But I don‘t read these either or don‘t intentionally read them or even like them. (edited) 1mo
AnnCrystal This is an incredible thread to read through.

Personally I can't read stories or watch movies with this kind of romance...well, too much gore or sex just gets annoying anyway...but painting this kind of sinister romance seems dangerous.

I like a good beauty and the beast story, there's a message there. There's more to a person besides their “good“ or “bad“ looks.

But respect and trust in a relationship should be things that are highlighted. 👇
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AnnCrystal I haven't read these titles, but I have had the opportunity to buy each of these books. Thankfully I researched beforehand or read the book's “warning.“

I have accidentally read books like these. If too terrible, they usually get donated, unfinished. Otherwise I skip along.

I feel that stories like these might make a young girl believe that this kind of disrespect is ok, natural, acceptable.

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AnnCrystal In a world with so many predators and bullies, we need stories that teach our young girls what respect means.

I believe there are many of us who are looking warriors, and so many mistake cruelty for strength...
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ElizaMarie So, I am behind on the #WildWomenReading, so I am going to answer this (but not using the current reading to guide my discussion). I have been stalked/beaten/tortured/sexually assaulted AND I have read these types of books (only Lights Out on this list). I don't know why I do. I don't know if its a feeling of control. Like I can read about these things, and be fully “safe“. I watch documentaries about DV, watch Law & Order SVU, podcast truecrime ⬇ 1mo
ElizaMarie And yet, when I feel unsafe or triggered. I can use my coping skills, or totally avoid/DNF/quit the subject. I don't know if it's a test of my boundaries and my feelings of safety, or what it is. I am currently reading this one and am very much struggling with it. He is a stalker/user/rapist. I am more than likely going to DNF it. Some of these dark “romances“ are about stalking and/or coercion, but they try to pretend the woman finds it ⬇ (edited) 1mo
ElizaMarie desirable. Which helps me not think of it as “rape“ even though the parallels are there. 1mo
ElizaMarie @ravenlee I answered this, then went back and read everyone's comments - I think that's what it does for me. I can put it down. I can choose, where in the past, that choice was taken from me. 1mo
ElizaMarie @AnnCrystal I agree with the concern of having young girls feel this type of male attention is “normal“ or should be “sought“. I, too, worry about what we teach children (both boys and girls) about consent, respect, kindness, and general human-ness.

I don't know how old. You are, but have you seen stories about how we as a society talked about women's bodies in the 90s? That was my teenage years and deeply ingrained into my psyche.
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AnnCrystal @ElizaMarie 💝🫂💝 the 90s were my childhood years.

That's true, we need to teach the boys too. We need to encourage these important teachings into our children daily lives.

For one of the books I accidentally read recently, I went researching about it after and saw a review from a young woman. She said it had been the very first book she ever read and believed that the abuse in the book was just how romance was, normal.
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AnnCrystal @ElizaMarie that review has really remain with me. The same reviewer stated that she has now read other books, and has come to realize her mistake. But her words spoke volume.

You're right. I believe so much more work needs to be done to educate our children on what a healthy relationship truly is...

💝🫂💝.
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ElizaMarie @AnnCrystal wow that review is so powerfully heartbreaking. I can see why it stuck. (Thanks for sharing that with me) 1mo
AnnCrystal @ElizaMarie 🥲👌🏼💝🫂💝. 1mo
Chrissyreadit @ElizaMarie @AnnCrystal One thing i find interesting is that sex in the books i grew up reading was always focused on male pleasure or denegrating women… or that women are left… or get pregnant and left- We really did not have any sex positive stuff- Then i remember Delta of Venus…. written by Anais Nin and very rough for women…. 1mo
AnnCrystal @Chrissyreadit 📚🥺📚 Terrible truth. I will search about Anais Nin 😉👍🏼📚💝.

Most of the books that seem easiest to run across are usually the ones showcasing abuse and bullying as romance. It enrages me that it seems so difficult to find romance stories that depict good, well structured relationships.

Truthfully, I'm not much of a romance reader, I prefer love stories to that are woven into the background of the main story events.
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AnnCrystal @ElizaMarie I checked my notes. The book I was referring to was:

Twisted love by Ana Huang, the review had been on Goodreads.

Just wanted to make a reference note.

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The sentence before this refers to the way families of origin impact emotional health, then recognizes the way culture impacts mental health. The discussion around this is the source of many books. In this case the dark man is the entity that threatens our cultural health. What are ways we can create and strengthen our emotional energy when culture is ruled by a predator?

GingerAntics I think we‘ve got “culture ruled by a predator” nailed. I think the biggest problem facing us today is that too few people see this as a problem. 1mo
TheBookHippie Art, Music, Poetry, create create create. Facilitate joy. That‘s the response. Form community. That‘s a culture response. (edited) 1mo
ElizaMarie Again, I am behind. I will try to read today (been a rough week). This quote reminded me of the “diluting water“ video. Where your generational trauma gets passed on, and then you get “water“ to dilute it and make it less of a trauma to pass on yourself. My “water“ is --- friendship (groups of strong people like y'all), finding little wins, taking time for me. 1mo
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Do you recognize parts of yourself that can feel toxic but are actually also healthy and necessary?

GingerAntics My anger and my drive. Both can be toxic if I don‘t find a proper outlet for them, but when I do find a proper outlet, amazing things can happen. 1mo
TheBookHippie My sheer will. Tenacity. I am not swayed. Immovable. No tact. And with @GingerAntics anger …my RAGE is misinterpreted constantly. Interestingly enough my love and loyalty are seen as threats. Allll could be toxic or viewed incorrectly. Everyday I wake up I chose -do I use all of this for good. 😶 1mo
AmyG Absolutely. I tend to give people alot of “rope to hang themselves with”. Once I reach my limit with someone because of how they treat me or others….I am done. No more chances. I am quite rigid in that respect. 1mo
ElizaMarie My compartmentalizm. I work as a psychiatric/mental health nurse. I engage with a challenging population and am not well-treated by most of my patients. I am able to remove myself from the nasty insults getting slung at me, do what needs to be done in the moment, and maintain my peace (which can be difficult). It turns into a problem when I do this way too much and build too strong walls. (But thats what therapy is for 🤍) 1mo
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This chapter was intense! Was there a quote or thought you want to discuss? Please post and share!
Have you ever considered what archetypes you embody? Both the light and shadow side?

GingerAntics Which chapter was this? I feel like I‘m lost. Sorry. My brain has not been working properly lately. I‘m hoping it fully engages again next week. 1mo
Chrissyreadit @GingerAntics it‘s chapter 2 1mo
GingerAntics OH I‘VE READ THAT CHAPTER!!! I feel so accomplished. Thank you! 1mo
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Deblovestoread I really feel this quote. I feel like I have compartmentalized each section of my life based on that times trauma. My child self is one being raised by an angry mother whose words and hands struck out, my teenage rebel self who made horrible choices and so on. They each informed the next but also each lives in their little pocket if that makes sense. 1mo
Deblovestoread So this quote really resonated with me “….or those with injured instincts still, like flowers, turn in the direction of whatever sun is offered.” 1mo
TheBookHippie Mostly the creative and freedom things struck me. 🙃 1mo
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@CBee is bringing #manicmonday back!!!!

CBee Thanks for reposting 💚 2mo
dabbe WOOHOO!!! 💛🤎🧡 1mo
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Jamie!!!!! I love everything- but OMG! Autumn colored embroidery floss!!!! I am so thrilled 🧡Perfect choices- and the Romantasy Coloring book has so many fun pictures 🧡🧡🧡🧡🧡Thank you so much for a beautifully curated #fff package!!!

TheBookHippie It‘s so good. 2mo
JamieArc I‘m glad you liked it! I had fun making it! 🍁🍂🍄‍🟫 2mo
TheBookHippie The floss!!! 2mo
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Chrissyreadit @TheBookHippie I am Obsessed with the colors of the floss!!! so pretty! 2mo
Avanders Love this package!!! 😍😍♥️🍁🍂 2mo
JamieArc @Chrissyreadit I‘m glad you like the floss colors! I took quite a while trying to pick out just the right ones 😊 2mo
Chrissyreadit @JamieArc perfection!!! 😘😘😘 (edited) 2mo
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So excited to open my #fff package- and this just feels so festive in celebrating the first day of Autumn! Thank you @JamieArc for setting the mood 🧡

TheBookHippie So pretty!! 2mo
JamieArc I always love getting the right wrapping paper for the swap! 2mo
Avanders Oooh 😍😍 2mo
mabell How pretty! Perfect! 🍂🍁 1mo
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Happy #hyggehourreadathon day! It is the day before Mabon and Mabon season! The Fall is beginning and cozy begins to have all the nuances the Fall weather in the Northern hemisphere brings! My cozy tonight will be stuffed apples, reading and candles because it is rainy today. Pictures are from last nights fire- it was lovely! Can‘t wait to share our reading hour together 🧡

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TheBookHippie So lovely!!! 2mo
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Thank you so much Gissy!!! I love everything in this birthday package!!! So many fun things!! I love the book tote!! It‘s gorgeous! I‘m hoping to have an opportunity to play the card games…. and i love the embroidery!!!! It‘s all beautiful ❤️😘❤️Thank you so much!!!!

TheBookHippie Oh lots of fun there!! 2mo
AnnCrystal 👏🏼🥳 A Birthday Box 🎂🎁💝. 2mo
AlaMich I just ordered a copy of the Heyer book today. Gotta be prepared! 🎄🧑‍🎄 (edited) 2mo
Gissy I‘m glad you like it! Enjoy the books and each item…you deserve it my friend! Receive a big hug🥰❤️❤️❤️ 2mo
Gissy I bought The Jane Eyre puzzle for me…😃 2mo
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Came home last night to a HUGE surprise! My #fff package has arrived!!! I can hardly wait!

JamieArc Yay! Thanks for letting me know 😁. I was having an irrational fear it wasn‘t going to get to you 🫣 2mo
AmyG Hahahaha @JamieArc I have the same with my swaps. 2mo
Bookwormjillk @JamieArc I always worry about that too! 2mo
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JamieArc @AmyG @Bookwormjillk Glad I‘m not alone with that! 2mo
Chrissyreadit @JamieArc full disclosure- i was not even a tiny bit worried 😘💛 2mo
JamieArc @Chrissyreadit 💛❤️🧡🍁🍄‍🟫🍂 2mo
Avanders Woot!! 🍂🍁🧡🧡🧡 2mo
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I can picture myself lost in the woods, and just meeting an ancient looking librarian who invites me to stay for a while. All the rest, all the thoughts, all the quiet and all the conversations. Cafe with miraculous coffee… and the clearly adopted Motto “Not all who wander are lost”

dabbe Beyond love. 🧡💜💛 2mo
AnnCrystal 🤩📚💝💝💝. 2mo
lil1inblue 😍 😍 😍 😍 😍 2mo
Deblovestoread Lovely 2mo
kspenmoll Sounds wonderful! 2mo
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It‘s #hyggehourreadathon day 💛8-9 your time! Take a picture and share your cozy reading zen with us!
Above is my zinnia patch that has somehow survived the lack of rain where everything around it died!!! It definitely made me smile.

kspenmoll It‘s gorgeous!!!! 2mo
Aims42 Zinnia‘s are just such a happy flower. Anyone who looks at them and doesn‘t smile isn‘t a friend of mine 😊☺️ 2mo
Chrissyreadit @kspenmoll thank you!!! @Aims42 I agree!!! 2mo
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AnnCrystal Your zinnia patch 🤩💝. 2mo
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#wildwomenreading I loved how this chapter brings our awareness to the parts of us that we have buried. Some are better gone, and some we may mourn. Are there any parts of yourself that you mourn and perhaps can be revitalized?

Chrissyreadit I wish i had the optimism of my youth. I believed that we had so much power and so much care. I believed we would want the best for future generations. I really could use some of that optimism now. 2mo
ElizaMarie @Chrissyreadit I hear you! WE need this so much right now. I also think we really need Mr. Rodgers. I need him to remind everyone to be kind to each other and take care of one another. 2mo
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#wildwomenreading Share here- or create a post! #womenwhorunwiththewolves

AmyG I can‘t listen to this often because I feel it very deeply. Have You Forgotten - Red House Painters. It makes me cry.😢 (edited) 2mo
ImperfectCJ I'll probably make my own post, too, but the first that came to mind was "Ring on the Sill" by Cowboy Junkies. Then "Jezebel" by 10,000 Maniacs, "Beloved Wife" by Natalie Merchant, and "Both Hands" by Ani DiFranco. It seems relationship songs get me. 2mo
JenniferEgnor Anything by Rumi. 2mo
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TheBookHippie Not enough time or space to list them all🙃🤣 2mo
Chrissyreadit @TheBookHippie don‘t list all- just pick a few. 2mo
Chrissyreadit @JenniferEgnor did you want to be tagged? 2mo
TheBookHippie @Chrissyreadit I‘m making a post. 2mo
TheBookHippie @Chrissyreadit did you get @DebinHawaii in the tags? 2mo
Chrissyreadit @AmyG I listened to it for the first time- and am so surprised i did not know that group! It‘s a beautiful song. 2mo
Chrissyreadit @ImperfectCJ I love all of those musicians. They do get the feelings part of music! 2mo
Chrissyreadit Mine are pretty random but i LOVE I Am Woman by Helen Reddy and Tell Her by Del Amitri and Phenomenal Woman by Maya Angelou. 2mo
Chrissyreadit @JenniferEgnor yes to Rumí ❤️ 2mo
lil1inblue I made a post. Love this question! ❤ 2mo
nanuska_153 I'm late with Chapter 1 and although there's probably so many songs that do this, Black from Pearl Jam was the one that came instantly to my mind, followed by Like a Stone by Audioslave. Goosebumps every time I listen to them 2mo
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Chapter 1 of Women Who Run With The Wolves. Responds here, or create your own post! This holds true for all of today‘s posts!

Chrissyreadit I do not have many traditions- life has been challenging and things i wanted for traditions often fell to the wayside. But I do want to change that- I‘m just not sure how. Still figuring it out. And hoping to forgive myself for the loss of tradition in my children‘s lives. 2mo
ElizaMarie It's never too late to develop traditions. I feel you have been cultivating traditional times in our groups with the #HyggeHour readathon. And you are so present during the changes of the seasons, creating safe spaces and practices. 2mo
Chrissyreadit @ElizaMarie thank you so much for reminding me of that! 2mo
Chrissyreadit i‘m going to try and create my Christmas forest in my Greenhouse this year. i have missed it because of the cats- but maybe it can happen… 2mo
ElizaMarie @Chrissyreadit Ooo, I am excited to see pictures when you do! I am sure the kitties would LOVE it too. 2mo
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Today is always hard for me. It was my first month in WV. I watched the towers fall in disbelief from my new job as a Spec Ed teacher. I was cut off for a week from my family and close friends. My friend from HS was there as a cop. My uncle was there as a fire man- my cousin was there as a fireman, my brother was there after- initially to rescue people but soon to recover remains the towers were no longer in view from my childhood kitchen window.

JenlovesJT47 Such an awful day 🫂♥️ 2mo
Chrissyreadit The stories of hope and loss live in my head and heart today because these were people i knew and know. They really are the heroes in our stories. I‘d like to think the flags at half mast continue to honor them as well. My cousin in now a Fire Chief. On that day he was in a training- while his company left to answer the call. He jumped on with a different company. His entire company died that day. I did not know any of them but i still grieve for 2mo
Chrissyreadit those families today. 2mo
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Cuilin Thank you for sharing their stories and yours too #NeverForget 2mo
Susanita It‘s also my mom‘s birthday ❤️‍🩹 2mo
ImperfectCJ What sticks with me most about that day was the confusion followed by horrible realization, shock, and sadness, then fear and uncertainty about what else was going to happen. Then the eerily quiet skies afterward. It's a collective trauma that is unfortunately overshadowed by so many things that have happened in the interim. Thank you for sharing your story. 2mo
Chrissyreadit @Susanita share something special about your mom 😘 2mo
Deblovestoread I was on the west coast and how i felt watching the news and for days after i will never forget. I can't imagine how you and all the others who have personsal relationships with the people and places affected by that day felt then and feel now. 2mo
Deblovestoread Sending love and light to you ❤️❤️❤️ 2mo
Kenyazero My uncle was across in Hoboken and watched them fall too. What he saw haunts him still. 2mo
dabbe 💙🤍♥️ 2mo
AnnCrystal ❤️🤍💙 😢 From California it was scary. When I read stories like yours, I can't even fathom 🇺🇲🫂🇺🇸. 2mo
Bookperson96 Even though I am not a us-citizen 9/11 is one of those days where i feel a rush of emotions of all kinds. Sometimes the days leading up to it and the days after, as well. Thank you for sharing something so deeply personal, kinda made this day a little bit bearable❣️Kept thinking about your post. 🙂 2mo
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Bookperson96 Happy belated birthday to your mom. @Susanita 🥳 2mo
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NPR had a 2022 article and because Children in Evergreen Colorado had to face the horror of a school shooting yesterday i am sharing some books related to ending gun violence.
#overcomingevilempires #antifabookclub

AmyG “Gun deaths are the cost of Liberty” - Charlie Kirk 2mo
ImperfectCJ I asked my 16yo how he was doing in the wake of yesterday's violence in Utah and Colorado, and he said, "It's just the same old, same old, you know?" It about broke my heart. 2mo
DinoMom @ImperfectCJ what a horrible feeling it is as a parent to hear how today‘s children and youth recognize this as just “same old , same old”. My heart goes out to all the families but also to just all the youth that this has become the state of the world they live in 2mo
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AnnCrystal Thank You for sharing this post 👏🏼🫂💝.

None of this craziness should be understood as normal, we have to work to correct this 😢🇺🇲🫂🇺🇸✌🏼.
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kspenmoll Thank you.💔❤️ 2mo
Bookperson96 😔🥺💔 Have to agree with you. @ImperfectCJ and @DinoMom So true @AnnCrystal 2mo
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dabbe The book I used with my freshmen is tagged. It also taught the idea that we have lost sight of who we really are, and we have buried those stories too deep into our collective unconscious that they're hard to find. We lead very linear lives these days. Always look ahead, don't move back, go forward and march! Even our clocks are linear on our phones! When's the last time we looked at a clock where the hand is MOVING? Our ancestry lived cyclical ⬇️ 2mo
dabbe ... not linear lives, and it is only by going back and finding those deep connections to nature and our pagan selves that we will unearth our stories again and find that wild woman that is still there deep within us. 2mo
Cuilin @dabbe “Our pagan selves” yes. I hear this as a call almost 💜 Go back, listen, connect!! 2mo
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Chrissyreadit @dabbe I do not see the tagged book can you reshare? 2mo
Chrissyreadit @dabbe @Cuilin I really agree about pagan roots. The book When God Was a Woman was a huge influence on me. 2mo
TheBookHippie @dabbe I have never believed in linear life. Nature is us. @Chrissyreadit @Cuilin one of the things I find interesting is people‘s opinions of being barefoot they peg it is dirty and I think of shoes that way. I‘m barefoot as much a possible and it‘s so grounding. 2mo
Chrissyreadit @TheBookHippie science is showing that to be better, except here in appalachia where it supports worms. 2mo
dabbe @Chrissyreadit Shoot. I never tagged it! 2mo
dabbe @Cuilin Is is our call! In Hero's Quest lingo, it's our CALL TO ADVENTURE: to slay the dragon, cross the poisonous river, deal with asshole men 😂 ... and we wild women have to be our own heroes and answer that call. 2mo
dabbe @Chrissyreadit Adding that to my TBR! 🖤🤍🩶 2mo
dabbe @TheBookHippie @Chrissyreadit @Cuilin Kids would try to convince me of a linear nature example: the seasons: first comes spring, then we move forward to summer ... Then I showed them that this “linear“ pattern CYCLICALLY repeats itself. The look on their faces. God, that's the teaching I miss. I even had them look at a linear clock; some kids actually flinched when the number changed. They felt calmer watching the analog clock seconds move. 2mo
TheBookHippie @dabbe best part of teaching ♥️ although the you were alive when a man landed on the moon generally shocks 🤣 2mo
TheBookHippie @dabbe I firmly believe the making them calm-love linear- by not knowing how to live in the unknown is what got us here. The drive for control to combat fear is wild. 2mo
ElizaMarie @Dabbe - I never really thought about the way we see clocks now vs when I was growing up looking at clocks. It makes me yearn for that time and actually wear a “regular“ watch. 2mo
ElizaMarie So, this might be a bit off topic, but with your statement of the “narrative we tell ourselves“. It's something I have been working with in therapy. The negative self-talk, the putting myself in a box of shoulds (mostly to frame a masculine ideal). I think back to the young child, sitting with my abuela, hearing her tell stories of her childhood, folk stories, just talking. I sometimes forget how much power I have in me. 2mo
Chrissyreadit @ElizaMarie YES!!!! I am so glad you are learning to shift your narrative! 2mo
GingerAntics I am SO sorry I‘ve been AWOL this week. I‘m hoping to catch up this week. Last week was just crazy and exhausting. 2mo
dabbe @TheBookHippie So true! 😂🎯😂 2mo
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dabbe @ElizaMarie I actually will watch an analog clock once in a while; it really is calming to see that time moves ... it doesn't jerk from one number to another. That's also why I'm fascinated with hourglasses. 🤎⌛️🤎 2mo
dabbe @ElizaMarie 🧡🩶💜 2mo
dabbe @GingerAntics Hope this week is calmer for you! 🧡🩶💜 2mo
TheBookHippie @dabbe my grandson thinks that‘s how we time things now since you sent me one 🤣😅♥️♥️♥️ 2mo
ElizaMarie @dabbe ooo I have always found hour glasses especially beautiful :) digging through my jewelry box now to find an old watch :) 2mo
dabbe @ElizaMarie 🧡💜🧡 2mo
Chrissyreadit @GingerAntics take your time- jump in or out as you read. the posts are here. I live in chaos and will never judge. 2mo
lil1inblue @ElizaMarie Yes! This is something I've also been working on in therapy. I think that we as women have had so many “shoulds“ imposed on us, that we lose sight of our own authenticity. 2mo
kspenmoll I know I am late to join in & I have some current health issues to take care of, but IF I can, I would love to join in. Read this years & years ago, but my bet is I have learned much since then thru life experiences as we all do- even if I lag behind, It seems worth it. Where is everyone in chapters? 2mo
Chrissyreadit @kspenmoll i am going to post discussion for chapter 1 by Sunday- join in in any way or time that feels good to you! 2mo
Chrissyreadit @kspenmoll do you want me to add you to the tag list? 2mo
kspenmoll @Chrissyreadit Please add me! Thx! 2mo
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Cuilin I grew up in the Irish/Celtic mythology tradition. I don‘t think I fully understood it as a child. It was just fun stories. Now as an adult I‘m embracing the feminine power of the Brehon laws and the tuatha dé Danann. 2mo
TheBookHippie I grew up with dark fairytales and folklore and BabaYaga. I always preferred it as it was realistic and truth. Disney Princess HEA has always not appealed to me, at all. I find it demeaning to women and I feel it weakens them. It‘s a tool of the patriarchy in my opinion. 2mo
dabbe I was all in for the fairy tales with the HEA's. My parents divorced when I was 10, so I was always chasing down a male, authoritative figure--even though my mom was trying to teach me otherwise. Then, Mr. Gailo gave us Edith Hamilton's MYTHOLOGY book, and my eyes 👀 out of my socket. Such brutality! Such female wusses and bas-asses! It was then Disney no more but GRIMM'S FAIRY TALES for me. The grimmer, the better. 2mo
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TheBookHippie @dabbe I adore Grimms. 🖤🖤🖤 2mo
Chrissyreadit @Cuilin I also love Celtic mythology! and @dabbe i grew up on the blue fairy book and green fairy book and grimes fairy tales. I was the mom who did not embrace Disney- and my daughter struggled by her limited engagement in pop culture. but i really was frustrated by how princesses were always the main character and everything was to get a prince. and the mother always died- and the stepmother was always cruel… 2mo
TheBookHippie @Chrissyreadit I like the colors fairy books too. My daughter only liked Lion King and then Hunchback of Notre Dame Disney of all things .. I didn‘t promote it either. She adored Pooh mostly. 2mo
ElizaMarie When I read this prompt, I initially thought of La Llorona. I know this book is going to have a part in this story - I am eager to read. Initially, it just scared me. She kills kids! But now, I feel like the kids weren't children per se, but more of an extension of herself. I feel sorrow for her, anger for her pain. Also, grew up with stories about Santa Muerte and how mainstream media misunderstands our flaca. 2mo
ElizaMarie @TheBookHippie Although I liked Disney, I didn't aspire to be the princess. I was always drawn to the villains, their story, their history. My favorite Disney movie was Alice in Wonderland, which didn't have the girl-lives-for-guy aspect of it. I agree, I felt the whole “your only worth is a man to love“ really hurt girls. 2mo
ElizaMarie @TheBookHippie Although I liked Disney, I didn't aspire to be the princess. I was always drawn to the villains, their story, their history. My favorite Disney movie was Alice in Wonderland, which didn't have the girl-lives-for-guy aspect of it. I agree, I felt the whole “your only worth is a man to love“ really hurt girls. 2mo
TheBookHippie @ElizaMarie Alice is my favorite too. I adore the Cheshire Cat! 2mo
ElizaMarie @TheBookHippie --- ❤️❤️❤️❤️ #GreatMinds ❤️❤️❤️❤️ --- 2mo
Chrissyreadit @ElizaMarie I‘m so excited to hear your insights- i think you will have grown up with some stories that I do not know anything about. I also love Alice- i have the We are all mad here quote in so many places ❤️ 2mo
ElizaMarie @Chrissyreadit I have it tattooed on my back shoulder :) Ha! 2mo
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Cuilin I related too much with all the fears associated with “a disrupted relationship with the wildish force in the psyche” unfortunately. But at least I know what I need to work on. I loved the definition of wild as that which is natural and authentic. I‘m working on it! 2mo
TheBookHippie I have I guess the opposite problem women hate me because I am wild. It reads as intimidating a lot. I had quite a feral childhood and summer camp in woods, I do not discount that for me being of the wild. (edited) 2mo
TheBookHippie @Cuilin Fear is interesting. 2mo
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dabbe My mom was the wildest of women IMHO. She divorced my dad when NOBODY did that (I was the only kid in my 4th grade whose parents were divorced). She never remarried and taught us that we didn't need ANY man in order to live/succeed/be happy--it was all on US to create a meaningful life. I didn't have as rough a childhood as most people, and I know I got lucky with my mom. When she saw me turn into a pansy with my first husband ... ⬇️ 2mo
dabbe (because that's how his parents behaved and it seemed the only way to “get along), she gave me a rough-talking to about not being my true self, basically asking me, “Where are you? What did you do with Denise?“ Over the years, I vacillate between those two Denises. I'm hoping to go full wild again after reading this book. I've already come out of my shell a wee bit here on Litsy. We'll see. 🤔 2mo
Chrissyreadit @Cuilin It‘s challenging- i‘m not sure about your experience but so many woman are taught not to trust their wild side- because it threatens the status quo- then there is the fear of rejection- I‘m glad you are seeking your most genuine wild self 💛 2mo
Chrissyreadit @dabbe wow! your mom sounds fearless and ferocious! Love that! 2mo
Chrissyreadit I fear that my wild side was lost when i got married and had children. it‘s been a journey for sure. i know catholic guilt and community guilt had a lot to do with it. 2mo
Chrissyreadit @TheBookHippie it‘s good to be fierce! 2mo
TheBookHippie @dabbe I love your mom! 2mo
TheBookHippie @Chrissyreadit keeps one alive. 2mo
dabbe @TheBookHippie NOT this woman! You are one of the main people I attribute to getting me out of my shell. TBH, I would have never had the courage to fly alone to Canada, and worst yet, try to get through Customs back to my own country. I hadn't traveled sin 1998, and I was TERRIFIED. Then, I though of you and realized I needed to do this. Not for you. For me. You taught me that we have to feed ourselves first before we can be a help to others. 🖤 2mo
dabbe @TheBookHippie She would have AD♥️RED you. 🖤🤍🩶 2mo
dabbe @Chrissyreadit She was. A hard act to follow. 🖤🤍🩶 2mo
TheBookHippie @dabbe I‘m so glad you did it it‘s so freeing and empowering. 😭😭😭😭 2mo
TheBookHippie @dabbe ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️ next realm maybe will meet up. 2mo
TheBookHippie @Chrissyreadit the not to trust your instinct is so dangerous for women. 2mo
dabbe @TheBookHippie Would love to. 🖤🤍🩶 2mo
ElizaMarie @Dabbe - Your mother, wow! What a woman! Also, so proud of you! Flying to a different country on your own, dealing with the world as it is today, it's a lot, and you proved you have what it takes! 2mo
ElizaMarie @Dabbe @ChrissyReadIt - I understand the duality of self. I, too, became a whole different person during my first marriage. The stuff I allowed into my life at that time - wow. Who was I? I remember my abuela telling me to toughen up. To leave. To grow. And I resisted because I was stuck in this “what should a good Catholic do“. I am so lucky to have survived the divorce (literally), and now with a man who -- I can honestly say, loves ⬇️ 2mo
ElizaMarie and respects the rough edges of me. I hope this book (and more importantly this group of #BadAssWildWomen) help me to recover some of what I lost. (edited) 2mo
ElizaMarie @TheBookHippie, I am constantly in awe of how amazing you are! And this is only through the post I read!? Women may be intimidated by you - but your kindness bridges that gap! 2mo
ElizaMarie @Cuilin I thought the definition was perfect too! I am here to work on the “fear“ and growth with you! 2mo
TheBookHippie @ElizaMarie I‘m so glad you‘re reading with us!! And thank you. ♥️ I hope you get back you. 2mo
Chrissyreadit @ElizaMarie it‘s amazing at how much more powerful Catholic guilt was than catholic love. I stayed in a horrible dangerous marriage for the same reason. I‘m so glad you found someone to fully love all the parts of you ❤️ 2mo
dabbe @Chrissyreadit @ElizaMarie My first husband was Jewish, so I had the pressure of becoming Jewish and not Christian. He wasn't physically abusive but was definitely verbally so. I so get the “go along to get along“ philosophy of survival, but I am so glad we're out of those marriages and on to being our true, wild selves. 🧡🩶💜 2mo
Chrissyreadit @dabbe 😘😘😘 2mo
lil1inblue I always felt like a bit of a feral child. I spent so much time outside and my imagination would go wild. But I was also sexually abused as a child. As that continued I feel like I lost that wild spirit. A lot of it was because of fear. A lot of it was gaslit out of me. It took a long time and a lot of healing for me to regain that wild and fierce spirit. It's still hard to hold onto sometimes, but I'm fortunate to have women around me to help! 2mo
lil1inblue @Cuilin So much fear! I related to that a lot, as well. 💓 2mo
Cuilin @dabbe @lil1inblue @Chrissyreadit @thebookhippie @ElizaMarie I think we‘re all going to get so much out of this book. I‘m in a safe space and couldn‘t be in a better group of women for this. Thank you all for such honest answers. You‘re all amazing. I need to be braver. 🩷 (edited) 2mo
TheBookHippie @lil1inblue I‘m so so sorry. I am a survivor of severe mental, emotional, physical abuse and a victim of rape. I‘m always around if you need a safe space. social@bookhippie.com 2mo
dabbe @lil1inblue OMG, I am soooo sorry for the young girl in you. I have no words except 🧡🩶💜. How strong and brave you are to have found a way THROUGH. I'm glad you have women around you to help, and we're here, too! #badwolfbitches unite! 2mo
lil1inblue @thebookhippie @dabbe Thank you. That means a lot - more than I can express. I debated about whether to share, but I can't really explore my wild without acknowledging it. And this felt like a safe space. 💓💓💓 We are all indeed #badwolfbitches! 2mo
dabbe @lil1inblue You are COMPLETELY safe here. And thank you for sharing something so difficult. I think we're all not only going to learn a lot together, but we're going to grow together. #badwolfbitches! 💜🩶🧡 2mo
Chrissyreadit @lil1inblue Sharing is bravery and trusting in safety! the identities we choose are part of our internal safety plan- here‘s to feeling safe enough to explore your wild!!!!! 😘💛💛💛 2mo
lil1inblue @Chrissyreadit 💓💓💓 I love this group already. So excited to explore this together! Thank you for leading us! 2mo
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Welcome to the discussion of the intro!!! Add comments here- but also feel free to create a discussion post as well if you have a question or thought you want to have engagement with, just remember to tag everyone.

dabbe The calm woman in me doesn't want to brag, but the wild one will shout to the rooftops: the main literary course for my freshmen honors curriculum was teaching the archetypes: archetypal story patterns (Hero's Quest, Fall from Innocence ...), archetypal settings (forest vs. civilaztion, etc.), and archetypal characters (the damsel in distress, the hero, the sidekick, the villain) ... ⬇️ 2mo
dabbe ... All forms of literature were then read/annotated/discussed in reference to these archetypes: myths, fables, folklore, fairy tales, poems, short stories, novels, the list goes on. Teaching them that these stories in our collective unconscious are BEGGING to be told over and over again was the highlight of my career. Teaching comparative literature is also what made this Christian an agnostic. Talk about being life-changing. 2mo
dabbe ... All forms of literature were then read/annotated/discussed in reference to these archetypes: myths, fables, folklore, fairy tales, poems, short stories, novels, the list goes on. Teaching them that these stories in our collective unconscious are BEGGING to be told over and over again was the highlight of my career. Teaching comparative literature is also what made this Christian an agnostic. Talk about being life-changing. 2mo
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Chrissyreadit @dabbe please please please feel free to jump in and add to these posts - you will definitely have some insights and connections i will want to hear and explore and learn from. 2mo
dabbe @Chrissyreadit You know I'll probably be able to shout something! But you're our guide, m'dear. Fabulous and thought-provoking questions, too! You made me thing! On a hygge day! 😍 2mo
dabbe I found notes I had kept from one of my freshmen groups as they were preparing to their exam over archetypes, motifs, and symbols. I was quite impressed with their work. If you'd like a look, here's the link:
https://docs.google.com/document/d/1QWzChLZ4ACAkIMSz8mFf8aKIV8TACXiN9lLcbIjp-_w/...

Not bad for 13-14-year olds!
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ElizaMarie @Dabbe and @ChrissyReadIt - I am truly lucky that I am in your more than capable hands while we navigate this book! I am excited to learn and grow with y'all.

I feel like I never really thought about archetypes. Like subconsiously, I know them when I see them, but I never really thought to think about it, explore it, frame conclusions based on them.
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dabbe @ElizaMarie @Chrissyreadit It's so easy to just bury them in our struggle to get through our daily lives. Once our basic needs are met (food, water, shelter) ... then we want more and want to learn more about ourselves. That's where the archetypes come in. I am excited to explore this more in depth with all of you as well! 🧡💜🧡
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lil1inblue @dabbe I love all of this! I've always been drawn to myths/fables/oral traditions. I would have ADORED your class. I love seeing similar archetypes show up in different cultural folk tales and myths. 2mo
dabbe @lil1inblue Aww, thank you. I put everything I had into that class, and I do miss teaching it. If you want to join us for this book, let @Chrissyreadit know. the intro was fabulous! 🧡💜💛 2mo
lil1inblue @dabbe I'm all in, just a bit behind because I was waiting for my book to arrive. 🥰 2mo
dabbe @lil1inblue Holy crap. You'd think I'd look at the actual list! 🤦🏼‍♀️ What an idiot am I! 😂😂😂 2mo
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Happy #hyggehourreadathon day! I am sad that Summer is winding down- and also looking forward to tonight to get cozy with my books and thoughts!

Bookperson96 I share the feeling. Have a good, relaxing bookish sunday. 🙂 2mo
Chrissyreadit @Bookperson96 Thank you! Welcome to litsy! The link in my bio has info about ways to interact on this app- and if you are interested in buddy reads and bookish fun follow @LitsyEvents 2mo
Bookperson96 You‘re welcome. Thank you! 🙂📚 Looking forward to my time here. 🥰 Thank you as well for the info - very thoughtful. I already did that. @Chrissyreadit 2mo
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This is the first book i completed in 3 weeks! I‘ve really struggled to sink into any of the 4-5 other books i‘m reading. but this was easy, silly and hea…

AmyG Sometimes you just need a book like this. 2mo
bookandbedandtea I've been having a hard time reading too. 😫 I'm glad you found something you could get through. 2mo
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And so our journey begins! Feel free to comment here and on your own page and on each others pages as we begin this community of Wild Women reading. Over the next week consider posting about A particular segment you read and why it spoke to you. I am tagging everyone who requested so far- please tag the group in your posts so we can all participate- and feel free to add more on storygraph! This week is all about the intro!

Chrissyreadit A couple out of many lines that spoke to me : “Fear to set out ones imperfect work before it is an opus”- I have so much fear that has held me back professionally! 2mo
Chrissyreadit I love Jungian archetypes. I love how vital it is that the stories we tell ourselves serve so many purposes and how we use them is vital to how we see ourselves in our own stories! I hope that I can learn more about how to use stories and my own story to grow and learn and experience 💛I can‘t wait to hear more of everyone‘s thoughts after reading each section. 2mo
ElizaMarie I am almost done with the intro (and at work now so I don‘t have a direct quote but —) language is so powerful. The stories we tell ourselves, the labels we give ourselves matter so much- I know you, as a clinician, know how person first language has been proven invaluable. 2mo
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GingerAntics So like yesterday to Saturday is intro, and then first chapter next week? Sorry, my brain is still a bit foggy and I want to make sure I catch up properly. 2mo
Chrissyreadit @GingerAntics this week to read intro- i‘m trying out posting thoughts/questions to use to reflect as you read or answer after - next sunday i will consider day one of part one- so this week is just about reading and reflecting on intro. 2mo
GingerAntics @Chrissyreadit I haven‘t started yet, so I don‘t necessarily know what that means, but I‘m just going with the flow! Intro it is. You got it! 2mo
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