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TheKidUpstairs

Joined September 2016

She/Her “When I get a little money, I buy books. If any is left, I buy food and clothes.”
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The Persians by Sanam Mahloudji
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Orchid and the Wasp: A Novel by Caoilinn Hughes
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Tomb of Sand by Geetanjali Shree
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Impossible Creatures by Katherine Rundell
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Blue Light Hours | Bruna Dantas Lobato
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A beautiful little novella about connection, distance, familial love, the pull of home vs the joys and possibilities of independence. Thoughtful, lovely, bittersweet.

A daughter leaves home in Brazil to attend a small Liberal Arts college in Vermont. She speaks to her mother regularly over Skype, savouring those “blue light hours“, while beginning to picture the possibilities of a life in America, and asking how to exist in both lives at once

sarahbarnes I just saw this at a bookstore last weekend and almost bought it. Your review is making me wish I had! 2h
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Blue Heron Books | Uxbridge, Ontario, Canada (Bookstore)
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Yes! One of my local indie bookstores (tagged) runs amazing book events, and a wonderful festival, Book Drunkard, in the fall. I get to volunteer at a lot of the events, which include signings. So far I've met: Fredrik Backman, Ann-Marie MacDonald, David Robertson, CS Richardson, Michael Crummey, Alissa York, Holly Hogan, Heather O'Neill, and Jane Urquhart.

@BookmarkTavern #SundayFunday

ShelleyBooksie Backman! So jealous ♡♡♡ 2d
BookmarkTavern That must be so rewarding! Thank you for sharing! 2d
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The Persians | Sanam Mahloudji
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It's very important to match your donut choices to your book covers 🤣🤣🤣

squirrelbrain Love this! ❤️🤪 2d
ChaoticMissAdventures Yummmmm!! 💖 2d
BarbaraBB That donut looks delicious and I love that edition of the book. 2d
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Stone Yard Devotional | CHARLOTTE. WOOD
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This is a book you could read seven times and get something new each time. A woman leaves her life behind to live a quiet life at a priory, although she herself doesn't share the nuns' religious beliefs. The beauty and solitude of her daily life are haunted by her past and her grief. The creeping, claustrophobic feelings presented by an infestation of mice on the property play with these themes and keep the reader as unsettled as the narrator.

TheKidUpstairs Wood's craft is top-notch. Her writing is spare, thoughtful and beautiful. The characters are all so fully formed and genuine, even if we only get a glimpse of their lives. And the story is the right amount of "nothing much happens" while still being incredibly engaging. Loved it. Highly recommend. 4d
MrsMalaprop Love her work so much. 4d
TheKidUpstairs @MrsMalaprop this was my first time reading her work, will definitely keep an eye out for more! 4d
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quietlycuriouskate I loved this book! ❤️ 3d
Singout Thanks! Added to my looooong to-listen pile! 3d
sarahbarnes Great review. I loved this one too. 3d
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I Might Be in Trouble | Daniel Aleman
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An author in a writing/confidence/romance slump wakes up next to a dead body. Instead of calling the police, he calls his agent, and together they hatch a plan to move the body across NYC.

It is chaotic, thrilling, a little bit goofy, thoughtful, and ultimately just the right touch of sweet. A fun diversion that I very much needed!

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Stone Yard Devotional | CHARLOTTE. WOOD
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"A heavy spring frost this morning. Crossing the grass I made a clean track of footprints, deep green on the white spread of the lawn. It returned me to my childhood, to the sense of secret authority, imprinting one's presence into a place with those clear, sharp prints. I exist. The private, pleasurable sound of the finest layer of ice breaking beneath the weight of each step."

Chelsea.Poole This is such a ‘you‘ book. How are you liking it? I have it checked out and I‘m itching to crack it open. 1w
TheKidUpstairs @Chelsea.Poole it totally is! I was a bit worried that it wouldn't live up to my expectations, because I've been waiting so long to read it, but it is so SO good so far. The writing is beautiful, and evocative, and engaging, and thoughtful. I think you'll love it, too! 1w
BarbaraBB Yes, totally your kind of book! Glad it lives up to your expectations! 7d
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Cold as Hell | Kelley Armstrong
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The usual wilderness, over-the-top, wild and crazy, palate cleansing visit to Haven's Rock. Whipped through it in 24 hours.

LiseWorks I'm audio cross stitching through this. I love this series. 1w
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Dubliners | James Joyce
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Happy St Paddy's Day! ☘️☘️☘️

I started my day with a couple stories from the tagged while drinking tea my parents brought back from their last trip to Ireland 🇮🇪 before jumping into the kitchen to bake soda bread to go with tonight's dinner. Next, on to Dublin Coddle while the music plays! If you're looking for a playlist today, I love this one: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/0GpyyMiGai1OHwfmkSEG6c?si=P7_wQtDjQ_mvsSdrPqua...

Deblovestoread Bread looks amazing! 1w
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Texreader I love soda bread! I need to make some too!! 1w
sarahbarnes Very cool! 🍀 1w
Leftcoastzen Soda bread ! 👏👏👏👏 1w
Catsandbooks Yum! 🇮🇪 1w
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In 90's Edmonton, Molly MacGregor dreams of a life worthy of her adored Penguin Classics and of writing The Great Canadian/Edmontonian Novel. But summers selling shoes at West Edmonton Mall and semesters with pretentious English Lit profs don't seem to be cutting it. But this year, she just might find truth and beauty in the place she finds herself.

Charming, witty, and thoroughly delightful. I loved spending time with Molly. Highly recommend!

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This showed up on my FB feed this morning, and I thought of all you #NancyDrew buddy reading Littens! 🤣🤣🤣

Librarybelle OMG! 😂 1w
Ruthiella 😂😂😂 1w
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Little Miss Magic | Jennifer Frantz
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It's Me!

Ruthiella It‘s all of us! 😂 2w
Soscha I also collect too many stuffed animals on my bed coz I take them in when neighbors want to either give or throw them away. 🧸 2w
BarbaraJean 😂 😂 I need to expand this to “Little Miss Buys More Books Than She Has Time For & Then Puts Too Many Library Books on Hold (as if She'll Have Time to Read Those, Too)“ 2w
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MallenNC I agree that this is all of us! 2w
monalyisha @BarbaraJean 👯‍♀️ I don‘t even want to show you the stack on the passenger seat of my car right now! 😅 I haven‘t even brought them inside! In my defense, I‘m collecting them for an imminent vacation. On the other hand, I‘m going away with my two best girlfriends from high school & there‘s no way we‘re not going to be way too chatty to get any serious reading done. 🙈 2w
AmyG I should only read all my books before I die. Not sure I will. I have that many (and I‘m old). 2w
TheKidUpstairs @BarbaraJean LOL, right? My library stack is out of control right now! 2w
vivastory @BarbaraJean @monalyisha This is definitely me lolol I stopped at my library today on my break for a random browse & lucked out that nearly all the books I had in mind were in stock, plus a couple that looked good I hadn't heard of. (edited) 2w
LeahBergen Yep. Me, too! 2w
BarbaraBB And me… 2w
Birdsong28 Yes me too 🙋 2w
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"Last night, I found myself perusing the shelves in our family library the way one might gaze reflectively into the refrigerator looking for that perfect bedtime snack."

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Another excellent selection from the #wpnf25 long list. Centering on the ups and downs and legal manipulations of a Supreme Court decision, Nagle explores Indigenous Land Rights in the US. It is sad and infuriating, with occasional glimmers of hope.

jitteryjane724 These books are so important. Really glad to know that others are exploring works like this. 2w
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#5JoysFriday @DebinHawaii

This week was March Break, which means chaos and family fun.

1. My eldest's first speed cubing competition
2. Family movie day - Dog Man!
3. Bowling 🎳
4. Sunshine-y Ski Day!
5. Cobs Scones...mmm...

TheBookHippie Love it!!!! 2w
mcctrish What a great March Break! 2w
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"What's weirder," Eugenie asked, "that Maureen has so many shoe-store guys after her or that they're all named Gordon?"
"Being surrounded by Gordons does seem to be a distinctly Canadian occurrence."

#InGordWeTrust #CanLit

ChaoticMissAdventures You can't get more Canadian than Mr Hockey himself Gordie Howe!! 2w
LeahBergen Our family cat when I was growing up was called Gordon. 🤣🤣 2w
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It's possible I have too many books checked out from the library at the moment....

squirrelbrain Never too many! 🤪 2w
Mollyanna Not possible. 😆 2w
TheKidUpstairs @squirrelbrain @Mollyanna thank you for your kind enabling ? And I just got another "your hold is available for pick up" email ?‍♀️ 2w
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BarbaraBB This would make me so stressed out 😀 2w
BittersweetBooks Never! But I feel this pressure constantly myself 😅 2w
Kenyazero That‘s a pretty great library stack! 1w
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Kills Well with Others | Deanna Raybourn
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I just love these women. Such fun palate cleansers, I hope she writes more!

eclectic-reader The first one was a favorite when I read it, definitely looking forward to reading this one 2w
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Kills Well with Others | Deanna Raybourn
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My eldest is competing in his first speed cubing competition today 👏👏👏

We're in the waiting stage, so he's off checking things out and making friends, and I get time with some book friends.

BookmarkTavern Good luck to your boy! 🍀 2w
tpixie Fun!! 🍀🍀🍀 2w
Leftcoastzen Awesome! 2w
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dabbe Good luck! 🍀 2w
TheKidUpstairs @BookmarkTavern @tpixie @Leftcoastzen @dabbe Thanks all for your well wishes! He had a lot of fun, and accomplished/surpassed the goals he set for himself, so it was a really good day all around. We didn't really know what to expect going in, but it was such a positive and supportive atmosphere. And kiddo got to talk to people who actually know what he means when he starts using cubing lingo 😂 2w
tpixie @TheKidUpstairs what a fantastic experience! I‘m glad you were able and willing to find such an event for him. 2w
dabbe @TheKidUpstairs There is nothing better than a kid who loves to learn. Many kudos to his parents for such encouragement and love. 💙🩵💙 2w
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The Hearing Test: A Novel | Eliza Barry Callahan
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Who doesn't need another longlist to expand their TBRs, right? The Carol Shields Prize for Fiction announced their longlist on Thursday. I've read a few, been wanting to read another few, and the ones I've never heard of are definitely intriguing!

https://carolshieldsprizeforfiction.com/

First awarded in 2023, the Carol Shields Prize is for works of fiction written by women-identifying and non-binary authors in the US and Canada.

ChaoticMissAdventures I have read 4! I love how this is presented, with the inclusion of non-binary people, I am so incredibly disappointed that the Women's Prize included Adichie this year maybe next year I will prioritize this prize instead. 2w
squirrelbrain Ooh, another list! Or should that be…oh no, another list! 🤪 I‘ve read 5 of these - I‘ll wait to see what makes the shortlist before deciding whether to read any more. 2w
Jolynne Bear is the only one i read. I liked it a lot. 2w
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sarahbarnes Oh fun! I have a copy of The Hearing Test so I‘m excited to see it here! 😀 2w
Hooked_on_books Oh no, not another longlist! And one focused on women writers, too! What are you doing to us?! 😉 I‘ve read 5 and may bookmark this to dive into others. 😬 2w
Deblovestoread I‘ve read 3, DNF‘d 1 and definitely need to read Liars. Love that there are books I haven‘t heard of from other lists. Will be watching for the shortlist. 2w
TheKidUpstairs @ChaoticMissAdventures Yes, the inclusivity and intersectionality of their mission statement is a big draw for me as well. I probably won't read the whole long list, but it's definitely a worthy one to keep on the radar! Which four have you read? 2w
TheKidUpstairs @squirrelbrain Right? So many lists, so little time! But it's interesting to see which books have made multiple lists, and I'm always happy to overload my TBR for “someday“ 2w
TheKidUpstairs @Jolynne Bear was such an interesting one for me. I LOVED the first half, but was really disappointed with the second half when I read it. But the book as a whole has really stuck with me. 2w
TheKidUpstairs @sarahbarnes That was one that I hadn't heard of before, but really stood out to me. It's on my TBR now! 2w
TheKidUpstairs @Hooked_on_books Mua ha ha! I am here to ensure everyone's TBRs are as overloaded as mine! Which ones have you read? 2w
TheKidUpstairs @Deblovestoread Liars is high on my list, too. I keep seeing such good reviews here! 2w
ChaoticMissAdventures @TheKidUpstairs I read Bear and All Fours with Camp Litsy last summer, River East, River West was long listed by the Women's Prize last year, and I read Creation Lake (my least favorite of the bunch) I am really interested in Curiosities and Pale Shadows 2w
Hooked_on_books I read and enjoyed River East, River West, Bear, and Liars. I did not enjoy Creation Lake or All Fours. 2w
BarbaraBB That is an interesting list. I read five of them and liked them all. I‘ll be checking out the other books. 2w
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Fundamentally: A Novel | Nussaibah Younis
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Sharp, thoughtful, and darkly funny. Nadia is an academic who heads to Iraq to work with the UN on the deradicalization of ISIS brides, but also to run away from heartbreak and grapple with her own history with religion and rebellion. Fundamentally tackles ideas of religion, racism, belonging, bureaucracy and systemic failures within the foreign aid systems without prescribing answers, 👇 cont'd in comments

TheKidUpstairs ... instead presenting genuine, human characters trying to figure things out in the grey areas of life. A solid start to my #wpf25 long list reading! 3w
Amor4Libros I loved this one!! 3w
ChaoticMissAdventures I am about 1/3 in and loving this! So sharp and funny. 3w
squirrelbrain Great - looking forward to this even more now! 3w
BarbaraBB So much praise for this book. I must get my hands on a copy! 3w
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#MondayMood

@talkthattalk_rarity on Insta - Spoken word that puts a fire in your belly. Highly recommend.
https://www.instagram.com/reel/DEtYQfGJz5J/?igsh=MTF6OXE2azZ1MjhuMA==

🔥🔥🔥👏👏👏

ChaoticMissAdventures I never thought I liked poetry until I found spoken word. It just makes so much sense to me and my ears. Love it. 3w
Deblovestoread All of this! 3w
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Reservoir Bitches: Stories | Dahlia de la Cerda
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Pitch dark interconnected stories of women's lives and violence in Mexico. Stories of violent women bleed into those about violence against women, revenge and rage intermingle with ironic teenage posing and sarcasm. Most of these stories work. There were some that I just wanted more from, to delve deeper, but sometimes the true weight of a story was felt as connections were made in later tales. The last few stories were, IMO, the strongest.

BarbaraBB Sounds good. I hope to get to it soon! 4w
Graywacke Sounds interesting. Glad you liked it overall 2w
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Reservoir Bitches: Stories | Dahlia de la Cerda
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"There is no room of one's own when men think our bodies belong to them."

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I love that Yang chose to profile four regular women in China, this book really does provide a glimpse into a very different kind of everyday life. The challenges of work, family, and independence made for fascinating reading. There were some things that I wish were addressed (*see comments) but overall another great #wpnf25 read. Very impressed with this year's list so far!

TheKidUpstairs *for instance, at least three of the four women had siblings, but only Leiya's story touched on one child policies, and it made me curious as to the different families' experiences with the policy. 4w
squirrelbrain I agree - I found this book really interesting but, on occasion, it didn‘t quite delve deep enough. 4w
Hooked_on_books Totally agree with you about the list. It‘s seems really strong based on what I‘ve read so far. The only one I‘m not happy with is Neneh. I just couldn‘t stay interested. 4w
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Reservoir Bitches: Stories | Dahlia de la Cerda
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"Life's a bitch. That's why you gotta rattle her cage, even if she's foaming at the mouth."

BarbaraBB You‘ve got your hands on an #InternationalBooker book already! That‘s fast! I am interested in this one too. 4w
TheKidUpstairs @BarbaraBB I was pleasantly surprised to find three of the ones that most interested me were available on hoopla! 4w
BarbaraBB Looking forward to your thoughts on them! 4w
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Reservoir Bitches: Stories | Dahlia de la Cerda
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Happy #InternationalBooker Longlist Day!

Which have you read? Loved? Loathed? Which are going on your TBR? I won't be reading the whole list, but I'll check out what I can get through the library, starting with the tagged. I'm also looking forward to The Book of Disappearance and On a Woman's Madness, both of which I can get through hoopla.

#IntlBookerLonglist #IntlBooker25 #BooksinTranslation

TheBookHippie Tagged and I‘d rather read it in Spanish 😂 and On a Woman's Madness for sure. I‘ve read none. 1mo
ChaoticMissAdventures As usual with this prize I have not read any. But I love that, it always takes me places I have not thought of. I had on my TBR and really want to get to 1mo
JacqMac I haven‘t read any. Yet. But the Bookers are always my favorite. 1mo
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AnneCecilie I loved On the Calculation of Volume 1 and I‘m waiting eagerly for volume 6 1mo
BarbaraBB I have only read On a Woman‘s Madness but there are so many on this list that have caught my eye! Very excited! 1mo
TheKidUpstairs @TheBookHippie I started the tagged last night, and I'm about 2/3 through, it's a very quick read. There can be something so cathartic about reading stories about women who refuse to repress their rage and vengeance. 4w
TheKidUpstairs @ChaoticMissAdventures that one will probably be next for me after Reservoir Bitches, I was happy to find both on hoopla! 4w
TheKidUpstairs @JacqMac so far I'm finding this year's awards list very exciting (women's prize nonfiction, and this one), I hope the trend continues! 4w
TheKidUpstairs @AnneCecilie I didn't realize there were so many! I think only the first two are available on English so far, I'll have to check them out! 4w
TheKidUpstairs @BarbaraBB it's a very exciting year for awards lists so far, I hope the trend continues! Looking forward to next week's Women's Prize announcement! 4w
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Romeo and Juliet & West Side Story | William Shakespeare, Paul Werstine
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Today's Monday Night Hockey is The Jets vs The Sharks. So now I have this stuck in my head: https://youtu.be/twbuT1V5mFE?si=OZWRSdfkL4zPu_v6

#TheatreNerdsUnite

ChaoticMissAdventures When you're a jet you're a jet all the way!! (I am not .. I am a Rangers fan 😂) 1mo
Bookzombie 😂😂 1mo
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It is difficult to read and review a book like this when, less than a year after its publication, it is already out of date. Applebaum lays out many of the ways autocracies work in the modern day to undermine democracy, truth, and morale. In that way it is important reading, and I found it quite accessible to listen to. Cont'd in comments

#wpbf25

TheKidUpstairs However, she continually points to the US as one of the largest and most powerful opposition factors to these autocratic leaders. And as action items she talks about what the US government can do on the world stage, and how they can regulate social media companies to help. Points that are depressing and enraging as we instead see much of the autocrat's playbook being enacted by Trump, Musk, and the Republican party. 1mo
Leftcoastzen Yes , she definitely has been pointing out what‘s going on here and now in the U.S. in her recent stories in The Atlantic. 1mo
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What an absolute triumph of a book. #wpnf25

In the summer of 2017, 9 year old Keira was killed in a tragic car accident. Her family's decision to donate her organs led to her heart being transplanted into Max, also 9. Dr Clarke writes the story of Keira and Max, their families, and all the incredible people who contributed to this heart's journey with such compassion and humanity.

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TheKidUpstairs At each stage of the journey she offers fascinating historical context to the achievement: the doctor who developed a standardized trauma response for medical professionals, the doctor who first used manual ventilators to save Polio patients, the first to successfully operate on a heart. It is a book that speaks to the heart and mind in equal measure. Highly recommend 1mo
squirrelbrain Fabulous review! ❤️ 1mo
dabbe 🖤🐾🖤 1mo
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jenniferw88 I'm a bit wary of this one, as I've had a heart transplant myself. 1mo
Chelsea.Poole Love your review “speaks to the heart and mind”. Very well put! I‘m planning to pass on this one. I have a 9 year old, plus I don‘t enjoy medical-focused books. Those two factors together… I‘d be traumatized! V glad the book exists though. 1mo
TheKidUpstairs @Chelsea.Poole I totally get that. My middle guy is 9, I cried so much reading this one. She handles it really beautifully, but it's rough! 1mo
TheKidUpstairs @jenniferw88 I can see how it would hit a bit close to home. 1mo
Hooked_on_books Well done review of a beautifully crafted book. I found this one hard to put down. 1mo
jenniferw88 @TheKidUpstairs I'll read it if it makes the shortlist. If not, I'm probably going to leave it. 1mo
youneverarrived Having young kids I don‘t feel like I could read this. It sounds amazing though. Great review. 1mo
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Check me out, buying a book, and then reading it right away instead of letting it sit on my shelf for months/years first! The things I will do for Evie Wyld. I absolutely loved this, I think it might be her strongest yet.

Hannah is haunted; by the (literal) ghost of her boyfriend Max, by the life in Australia she moved to London to escape, by the unknown traumas her family carries... cont'd in comments 👇

TheKidUpstairs and by the land she grew up on, itself haunted by the blood and bones of those who were there before. Cont'd 👇 1mo
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Wyld excels in restraint. She gives us just enough of each character's story to understand how trauma can echo through generations, without weighing down the book with too many tangled threads. Just enough glimpses of the interconnected moments to carry through the tale. Just enough answers to begin to understand, but enough questions left to keep you thinking.

I will read anything she writes.
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squirrelbrain Great review! Loved this but I haven‘t read any others by this author - where should I start? 1mo
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TheKidUpstairs @squirrelbrain The Bass Rock was one of my favourites a couple years ago, so I'd start there! 1mo
TheKidUpstairs @squirrelbrain All the Birds, Singing was also really good. Stylistically similar to The Echoes. The only one I haven't read is her debut, but I'll definitely be seeking it out! 1mo
BarbaraBB Thanks for the review and the recommendations. I want to read more Wyld too after loving The Echoes! 1mo
squirrelbrain Thanks, Megan - I‘ll look into those. (After all of the WP books! 🤪) 1mo
ChaoticMissAdventures I really loved the bits with the cat 😂. I am sure that isn't what the author wants to hear but that was my favorite parts! 1mo
Lindy Good on you! I leave purchased books languishing on my bookshelf forever too, reading library books instead. 😆 1mo
TheKidUpstairs @ChaoticMissAdventures oh my, when he pushes the cat into the bath 🤣🤣🤣🤣 1mo
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I knew next to nothing about Cherry going into this. I knew Buffalo Stance, and had a vague idea she was Swedish, but that's it. I started listening because it was long listed for the Women's Prize for Non-Fiction, and quickly fell in love with Cherry's voice, both as narrator and the poetic tones of her writing. This is a celebration of creativity, love, and families both born and made. Cont'd in comments

TheKidUpstairs Of cross cultural expression, of New York, London, Sweden, Sierra Leone, and Spain. Of food and music and art and the way they can be used to create community. Of all the beautiful, creative, life affirming people she has met and worked with (and there are SO SO many, coming into her life in such varied, interesting ways) cont'd 👇 1mo
TheKidUpstairs Cherry has also faced the darkness of the world, and she doesn't shy away from stories of addiction, racism, violence, and the AIDS Crisis. But as she says, "I know a story can contain some dark threads, without them dulling the brighter colours" 1mo
TheKidUpstairs I highly recommend this one, especially the audio, if you can. #wpnf25 1mo
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TheBookHippie I love her. 1mo
squirrelbrain Fabulous review! I‘m about 2/3 of the way through and I ❤️❤️❤️ it! 1mo
Amor4Libros This sounds great, stacked! 1mo
Chelsea.Poole Another to look forward to! Great review! I hope to get the audio soon/next month. 1mo
youneverarrived Great review 🤍 it‘s very inspiring - I‘m just over halfway through. (edited) 1mo
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In a time of hate
Love is an act of resistance.
In a time of fear
Faith is an act of resistance.
In a time of misinformation
Education is an act of resistance.
In a time of poor leadership
Community is an act of resistance.

In a time like this
joy is an act of resistance.
Resist. Resist. Resist.

By Loryn Brantz 🌹

Susanita Amén 1mo
Suet624 So beautiful. 1mo
BarbaraBB So true 🤍 1mo
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AmyG Yes! 1mo
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This book defies easy categorization, which if you've read it you'll know is quite fitting. An engaging look at how humans have attempted to place order on the natural world, and how wrong we can be. About a turn of the century naturalist-scientist who was compelled to discover the order of life, and used his scientific mind to promote dark, dangerous, and deadly ideas. About how we find meaning and hope in a life ruled by chaos. Loved it. 👇

TheKidUpstairs TW: suicidal thoughts, eugenics, racism, ableism, rape, and forced sterilization. 1mo
Chelsea.Poole Great review! 1mo
Lindy I enjoyed this too. I thought of it when I read a more recent book about humans intent on cataloguing all of nature: 1mo
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@TheBookHippie I couldn't resist doing mine, too. I don't know what it says that Alice is in there twice 🤷‍♀️

TheBookHippie You‘ve fallen down the rabbit hole!!!!! 1mo
TheBookHippie Cake. Love. 1mo
RavenclawOwlCat Hex girl! 1mo
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Fractured Soul: A Novel | Akira Mizubayashi
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While not a perfect novel (it can feel a bit stilted and awkward in style at times, perhaps a translation thing?) this feels quite special.

As a young boy in Tokyo, Rei witnesses his father's arrest and the destruction of his beloved violin. Coming of age in France, he devotes his life to the reconstruction of his father's treasured instrument. A quiet story about beauty in the face of destructive, oppressive elements, I'm glad to have read it.

squirrelbrain Great review! 1mo
jitteryjane724 Why does this feel strangely relevant today... 1mo
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Waiting to Be Read | Jonika Antoinette Haynes
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This feels so accurate. Except there's also constant snow falling, creating a bigger and bigger TBR pile!

rabbitprincess Oh wow, footage of my driveway after the plow went by 🤣 1mo
Bookwormjillk Truth! 1mo
BarbaraJean YEP! 😫 😂 1mo
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Hooked_on_books This is perfect! 1mo
Suet624 Oh Lordy, yes!!! 1mo
JazzFeathers Accurate. My square is actually even tinier 😬 1mo
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I ADORE Evie Wyld and her beautifully messy, complex women. So last summer when I read she had a new book I immediately ordered it, even though I knew I'd have to wait awhile for its North American release. The day is finally here! I'm almost finished another book, but plan to start this one today. Buying a book and starting to read it in the same day?!?! THAT'S how much I love her.

squirrelbrain It‘s so good! ❤️ 1mo
Suet624 Jeepers. I ordered this so long ago. I hope it arrives soon. 1mo
BarbaraBB Great cover! And the book is very good 1mo
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My Husband: A Novel | Maud Ventura
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This was A LOT, in all the best ways. Our narrator is deeply, obsessively in love with her husband. And with crafting every moment towards him, plagued by thoughts of his every slight, absorbed with thoughts of him and her love for him as she goes about her week at work, with the children, with friends. It's, again, a lot, but so deliciously wild to go along for the ride.

BarbaraBB Yes! Great review! 1mo
sarahbarnes Agreed! Great review. 1mo
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Still Missing | Beth Gutcheon
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Whew, what an emotional experience! When 6 year old Alex Selky goes missing on his walk to school one day, police are baffled - no one just disappears without ANY trace. As time goes by and leads dwindle, we follow his mother Susan as her determination to find him alive never falters, despite the changing attitudes of those around her.

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#AuldLangSpine @CarolynM @monalyisha

TheKidUpstairs I particularly appreciated the depiction of what happens after a case leaves the news cycle (and this was in the 80s, such a drop would happen so much quicker these days), and it is left to those who care to try and keep a case and a memory alive, as other people move on with their lives, and disinformation muddies the waters.

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TheKidUpstairs As it is from the 80s, you can expect some things to be a bit dated. I particularly felt it in the depictions of gay men. While it does strive to point out that there is no correlation between gay men and pedophilia, there is a certain scene that really clouds the line in a way that I did not feel was necessary, and did a disservice to the issue.

TW: child kidnapping, pedophilia, child physical and sexual abuse
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BarbaraBB I still remember this one 1mo
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sarahbarnes This one sounds like a lot. 1mo
TheKidUpstairs @sarahbarnes it is, and I wasn't sure I'd be able to read it, considering the subject matter (I have a hard time with anything involving children in that way). But it's so engagingly written I found I couldn't put it down. I did have to skim through one part, involving discussion of a child exploration ring, but for the most part the focus is on the process for the mother and the lead detective. 1mo
CarolynM I had grave reservations about reading it for the same reasons, but I‘m glad I was brave enough to do it. I‘m also glad you “enjoyed” it. It‘s just so well done, I think. I agree about the attitude to gay men, but I think it was very prevalent at the time the book was written. I liked that the mother refused to accept that solution. 1mo
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Jolly Christmas Postman | Allan Ahlberg
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TheBookHippie YAY!!!! How wonderful!! 1mo
Bookwormjillk I'm glad your mail is finally coming through! Merry Valentine's Day? 1mo
FromMyLectory Wooohooo! 🥳🥰 1mo
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"One does not learn to be silent, one is forced to shut up."

In beautifully poetic prose, Rivera Garza gives voice to her sister, Liliana, murdered at a young age by a jealous ex in Mexico City. By combining her own words with those of Liliana's friends, their family, police and newspaper reports, and Liliana's journal entries and unsent letters, we are given a complete portrait of a young woman making her way in life. cont'd

TheKidUpstairs She is a young woman full of the contradictions of youth, the joy of a life ahead of her, and the rage, fear, and violence that shadow the lives of women in patriarchal society. Her murderer's jealousy and anger colour the edges of Liliana's story, but he is not the only one. In the words of other men who claim to have loved her, we see the obsession and possessiveness of men in a culture that treats women as objects cont'd 1mo
TheKidUpstairs ...to be subdued or "protected", but always controlled. This is often labeled true crime, but it is not a story of answers, rather a story of grief and of love and of joy, and of the impossibility of finding satisfactory answers to the question of loss. It is beautifully, heart achingly rendered, worthy of all its praise and awards. 1mo
Jolynne I am currently reading this on audio. 1mo
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squirrelbrain Sounds interesting! I have an ARC of her latest to read - it comes out here in 2 weeks‘ time 1mo
ChaoticMissAdventures she won a Pulitzer for this and it was so well deserved! I thought it was really well done. 1mo
TheKidUpstairs @squirrelbrain I kept seeing Death Takes Me on “Most Anticipated“ lists, but wasn't too keen on it until I read this one. Her writing is so fantastic, I'm interested to see what she does in fiction. 1mo
TheKidUpstairs @Jolynne I listened to the audio, too. Villareal did such a great job with the narration. 1mo
TheKidUpstairs @ChaoticMissAdventures I totally agree, so well deserved! 1mo
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Still Missing | Beth Gutcheon
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My ILLO on this one finally came in, so I'm returning to @CarolynM 's #AuldLangSpine list and preparing to be devastated.

@monalyisha

TrishB A good read 👍🏻 1mo
Cathythoughts It‘s good , and yes , devastating ❤️ 1mo
Tamra 😬 1mo
TheKidUpstairs @TrishB @Cathythoughts @Tamra My daughter was begging me to walk to school on her own this morning. She's 5, and it's a 20 minute walk, so it would be a no anytime, but this morning it was a "heck no!" 1mo
CarolynM It‘s tough but worth it. 1mo
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Dandelion | Jamie Chai Yun Liew
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#CanadaReads - four down, one to go, and this was by far my favourite of a decidedly underwhelming selection this year.

As a preteen, Lily's mother walked out on her family and was never seen again. Later, following the birth of her own daughter, Lily once again embarks on a search for answers. The first half, Lily's childhood in a mining town in BC, was good but a bit uneven. Cont'd in comments...

TheKidUpstairs Loved the 80s references (I❤Pogo Balls!), and it was well written but didn't fully grab me until the 2nd part. Lily's struggles with early motherhood, and her search for closure on her past were the more engaging story, for me. The heartfelt examination of what it means to be a mother, and all the various ways a person can be stateless (and what that can do to a sense of self) were emotional and beautiful, and at that point I couldn't put it down. 1mo
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My Husband: A Novel | Maud Ventura
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“And what more beautiful gift is there than a hiding place?“

The deceptively simple, unsettling prose in this one is so spot on. Unnerved and intrigued so far!

ChaoticMissAdventures This was my favorite book of '23 I think about it all of the time, hope you enjoy it's unsettling ways! 1mo
BarbaraBB It‘s good! 1mo
youneverarrived One of my favourites last year! 1mo
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Snuggle Buddies | Courtney Carbone
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Last night was one of our favourite school events of the year! Every year, they host a Snuggle Up and Read evening. Everyone comes to the school in their pajamas, and there are all sorts of literacy focused events throughout the school. It's the most cozy form of chaos, and the kids LOVE it!

#RaisingReaders

Jari-chan What a wonderful idea❤️ 2mo
mrp27 What a great event! 2mo
dabbe 🤩🤩🤩 2mo
Prairiegirl_reading That‘s adorable 💜 2mo
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Middlesex: A Novel | Jeffrey Eugenides
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36/100 - being a Drama major at university really helps with all the plays on these lists!

Three of my all time favourites were on this one:
Middlesex
The Namesake
Never Let Me Go

#ThreeListThursday #TLT @dabbe

dabbe Ya definitely whipped my sorry butt! Thanks for playing and sharing. 🩶🩷🩶 2mo
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Love the idea, but it's just not working for me in execution. Moss gives far too broad an overview of each bird to engage me as a reader. If you have even the most basic knowledge of any of these birds, you are likely not going to learn anything new here. For me, this would have been more effective if it delved into one specific thing/story about each bird (kind of like Eight Bears did), rather than try to do a complete overview in 30-40 pages.

TheKidUpstairs Also, stating that something in the natural world "still occurs" and using a study from 1946 as your evidence is not convincing. That's 80 long years of change! 2mo
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Watch Out for Her | Samantha M. Bailey
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Third book for #CanadaReads and so far I'm not overly impressed with this year's contenders. I'm all for genre fiction in the Canada Reads list, and I know that there are domestic thrillers that can contribute and propel discussion forward with regards to nationally important topics, but this certainly ain't it.

Taken alone, this still didn't work for me. I actively disliked characters that I'm pretty sure I was supposed to feel for. Cont'd

TheKidUpstairs I really didn't care at all about the resolution, didn't even really get what we were waiting for. And there was far too many "if I had known what would happen" "they can never know what I did" type hooks that took way too long to pay off and felt really anticlimactic. 2mo
TheKidUpstairs As a Canada Reads selection, I have no idea what is here to champion as a book to "change how we see, share, and experience the world around us". I'm interested to see how Maggie MacNeill defends this one, but I predict it'll be first out. 2mo
squirrelbrain Even the cover looks ‘generic‘! 2mo
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LeahBergen The inclusion of this surprised me (for all the reasons you say)! 2mo
JacqMac This one is up next on my TBR. I think they made some puzzling choices this year. The long list was more promising. 2mo
xicanti This is actually my favourite of the four I‘ve read so far, in large part because I read it as a thriller about the ways women are socialized to view each other and the distrust this breeds. (I also found it nice and creepy.) It‘ll be interesting to see what approach its defender takes, but I‘m pretty sure it‘s going out in the first round due to the competition‘s usual anti-popular-literature stance. 2mo
TheKidUpstairs @xicanti I'm glad it worked better for you! And I can definitely see your take on the socialization of distrust among women, it'll be interesting to see how it is defended. It is unfortunate that popular and genre fiction tends to be voted out in the first round, simply because of what it is. Last year especially, I thought Mirian Njoh did a really good job of defending her choice, and it was not the first one I would have sent home. 2mo
TheKidUpstairs @JacqMac I'll be interested to see your thoughts! It has good reviews here on Litsy, so it very well might just be me. I totally agree with you about the long list, there were definitely some better titles that weren't chosen. 2mo
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#5JoysFriday

1. A visit to my library's makerspace to 3D print a cool stand for my oldest's speed cube
2. Maple Leafs vs Bruins Alumni game! So much fun watching the "old guys" having fun out there.
3. At the game, I won a $100 grocery gift card ??
4. A visit to the Toronto Zoo with middle kid. He made friends with Rosie the Galah, she followed him around for half an hour ?
5. All my kids are healthy this week ???

@DebinHawaii

Texreader Awww that is all good news!! 2mo
llwheeler How's the zoo in winter? I've only ever been in warm weather. Is there still lots to do? My 2.5 yo wants to go but I'm hesitant cause it's a bit of a drive... 2mo
Bookwormjillk Having all kids healthy is a major joy this time of year! 2mo
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TheKidUpstairs @llwheeler we love going in the winter! Our zoo (Toronto) has a good mix of indoor and outdoor spaces, so we can go inside if it's too cold. And I find that most of the outdoor animals are more active in the cooler temperatures. And there are far less crowds, which is a bonus. 2mo
llwheeler Yeah I do like the mix of indoor and outdoor at Toronto zoo. That's good to know! I like the sound of less crowds lol. Maybe we'll give it a try in Feb. Thanks 🙂 2mo
TheBookHippie ♥️♥️♥️ 2mo
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One Another | Gail Jones
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January #AuldLangSpine wrap up!

Thanks to the always fabulous matchmaking skills of @monalyisha I received a great list of books from @CarolynM to kick off 2025! I read four this month, and all were great reads, with the tagged emerging as a surprise favourite 😍 I just loved discovering Gail Jones' beautiful, engaging writing.

TheKidUpstairs I have Edenglassie on pre-order (it'll be released here in September!) and recently learned I can get Girl in a Pink Dress on audio, so I'm hoping to read that one soon. And my catch up of the Jackson Brodie series will continue, and I'll make it to Rook by year's end! 2mo
CarolynM I‘m glad you‘ve enjoyed my list, and delighted that you liked One Another so much 😄 I hope you like the others just as much when you get to them. 2mo
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