Not sure if this is for a specific group, but I figured it wouldn't hurt to jump in.

1. Pretty well. Time feels slippery today, and I'm constantly starving because I've increased my activity level but not my caloric intake (by design), so I'm fighting hangriness.
2. Mostly negative (except for Litsy) unless I'm very careful.
3. I'm taking a break from Facebook and using IG & Bluesky sparingly. So far, so good.
@Kerrbearlib #MentalHealthMonday

When all the library holds come in at once.

This is a mix of #Roll100 titles and books I requested to help me figure out my relationship with social media (except Litsy. I know exactly how I feel about Litsy ❤️).

I've enjoyed all of the books I read this week, but if I have to choose just one, Help Wanted it is! If I'd finished Moon of the Turning Leaves a day earlier, that would have been an easy pick for this week. We'll see if anything I read this week tops that title!

#WeeklyFavorites @Read4life

What a beautiful and immersive follow-up this novel is. I love the portrayal of the landscape and that Rice leaves dialogue in Anishinaabemowin untranslated, with context clues to meaning. While reading this novel, I have found myself observing the world around me differently and requesting from myself more attention in the moment. I find myself contemplating what's most important and how to center those elements in my life. It's a gift of a book.

Friday night splurge. I'm so sad that our indie is moving across the highway in a couple of weeks. I can still get there, but it's a drive rather than a walk (and parking is a pain). I likely won't spend as much at their new location as I have in their current location, but hopefully for them it's a better spot.

1) #ToB goodies.
2) Solar-powered cats.
3) A hike with beautiful views and a chance to identify poison oak without touching it.
4) Climbing 489 "secret" stairs with a friend.
5) Looong shadows on an evening walk.

#5JoysFriday @DebinHawaii

I might also have bought myself a #ToB25 t-shirt. I like wearing IYKYK shirts and seeing how many people K (and say so). No one today so far.

After the 6th graders put me through my paces in class tonight, I feel like having something stronger, but I'm trying to convince myself that salad, nonalcoholic kombucha, and post-apocalyptic fiction will nourish me better in the long run---and disturb my sleep less---than a martini.

I first read this in 2009. With this 2025 re-read, I'm struck by how GenX this novel is: disillusion with/suspicion of consumerism, a desire for real experiences, a sense of impending doom not recognized by those in power, a desire for community if for no other reason than to have people to have a beer with while we watched the world burn. 2025 turns out to be a great time for a re-read and a reminder that stability isn't a given.

1. Crocus in New England (first to push through the snow and give me hope that it would be warm again eventually), jasmine in San Diego (I love walking through the neighborhood and wondering why I smell tea and realizing it's the jasmine blossoms).

2. Tagged reminds me of spring, both the literally and emotionally/metaphorically.

@TheSpineView #Two4Tuesday

My mom and my brother both worked at a major discount retailer in a rust belt city for several years, and Waldman captures well the feeling of being trapped---by corporate indifference, by an economically bifurcated community, by the accident of birth and privilege---that those years highlighted for our family (and that led me to boycott the retailer for 25+ years and counting). This is a well written but depressing novel from the #ToB25 longlist.

It's bizarre books like this that make me want to live in Sweden (or anywhere in Scandinavia). I would love to see if the off-the-wall perspectives in Scandinavian fiction are universal within the culture, if they'd be accessible to an ex-pat, and if they would make up for the climate being as near the opposite as possible to the weather in San Diego (which has, unfortunately, become my baseline). This book is delightfully weird.

I'm really enjoying this year's #ToB! I got myself a mug to commemorate finishing the whole shortlist (as I did in 2023). Today's decision and commentary---between Liars and The Book of George---are particularly interesting, and I enjoyed reading them while enjoying decaf from my official mug.

I missed a week, so here's my mid-month #WeeklyFavorites post. @Read4life

I went to the library to pick up one hold, and three more books jumped into my arms. At least I wasn't visiting the animal shelter.

I finally finished my February Bookends post, in which I talk about my solo trip last month, uncomfortable interactions, and, of course, the books I read. Here's where it lives, if you'd like to check it out: http://imperfecthappiness.org/2025/03/13/bookends-february-2025/

I've yet to meet a time travel storyline that doesn't become tedious at some point, and this one is no exception. However, it's less tedious than most, and I really like the premise and the tie-in to actual historical figures. The steamy bits are nicely written but maybe a little more detailed than necessary for what the book is meant to be, but I really like the characters and was disappointed to say goodbye at the end. #tob25 longlist

I got myself a bit of a treat that's not in the database: Agatha Christie's England: A Map and Guide from Herb Lester Associates, written and researched by Caroline Crampton. Now I can get a sense of the geography of the Christies I read each month.

I took time out from reading the tagged, which I'm really enjoying, to go see some live music. I'm kind of disappointed that the trumpet and saxophone players (and perhaps the others at times) were just pretending. I guess I've been going to the symphony too much and expect that if someone is on stage, they're actually going to be performing music. I probably could have listened to the album while reading at home, but it's good to get out.

This one has promise, but it doesn't quite hit the mark for me. The twin thing gets pushed a little too hard in some places then nearly abandoned in others (as is one major character). There was one more twist I was expecting that didn't happen, and some of the seams between story elements are showing. I do appreciate the attempt to make the characters nuanced rather than all-good/all-evil, but I suspect this is one I will forget I've read.

Congratulations, @Texreader !

I love that Litsy has all the best of social media without the stuff I don't like. Here I find a thoughtful, considerate community of readers, a feed that's chronological without boosted posts trying to sell me personalized jewelry or bikini body programs, and a place to talk about books with people who get where I'm coming from (rather than the blank-stare/smile-and-nod I usually get IRL).

This one had me at the Oscar Wilde quote in the front of the book. While it's a little superficial at times, the humor is excellent and tempered well with moments of authentic-feeling connection. I enjoyed laughing out loud and then tearing up, and I appreciate what Rowley has to say about the role that acting can play in giving one the opportunity to feel, explore, and express difficult emotions in a controlled environment.

#5JoysFriday @DebinHawaii

1) Coffee date with my home-for-spring-break college student.
2) Successful and uneventful dental cleaning and mani-pedi for Miss Camille (who is so funny coming off of anesthesia).
3) ToB kickoff!!!
4) Rain!!!!
5) Watching my younger teen build critical thinking skills quickly in the current political atmosphere. We're having great discussions! (Silver lining to watching the possible collapse of our democracy.)

It took me a while to get into the world of this novel, and I'm not sure that I ever completely got my bearings. The writing style is lighter than the story, which is continually unsettling. It reminds me a little of Poor Deer and other novels narrated by children navigating grown-up worlds. I'm not sure I was in the mood for another dystopian novel, but these days, I want to know that life goes on even after things we take for granted fall apart.

"And I realized that I'd brought you into life at a time when everyone else's debts had come due. Only, the debtors weren't around anymore to pay up. So it'd be you doing the paying."

Oof. I have had this same thought many times during quiet moments since my children were born.

Trying to share a quote without sharing spoilers...

"It was just a trick. That's all the thing was. Tricks and lies, all of them cheap, all of them ugly. They only worked because nobody cared about the truth."

Feeling this right about now, in our putative nonfictional world.

I liked this one better than I liked Manhunt, but Felker-Martin doesn't present a very well developed, cohesive idea of who the villain is, which, given the nature of the main antagonist, might be a silly thing to write. The characters are more developed in this one than in Manhunt, and I cared more about what happened to them, but I still found the novel wordy overall and tedious at points, especially in the second half. #ToB25 longlist

Current situation. Reading has stalled, but I'm getting a great belly massage as Camille makes biscuits on me.

Camille just got home from a dental cleaning, and she's all about the pets as she comes off of her anesthesia, which means I might need to hang out and give her some snuggles while hopefully finally finishing the tagged.

Well, I liked this one quite a bit! I find it amusing how Poirot has started acting a little like Miss Marple in this one ("Now, what does that remind me of?"). The political intrigue subplot felt unnecessary and a little like Red Scare Era propaganda, but otherwise, this mystery was delightful to read. #doublespin

March #bookspinbingo card! I forgot to leave space on my #bookspin list for my #Roll100 titles, so I have them on a separate list outside of my bingo card, and I'll put them in free spaces if I read them.

@TheAromaofBooks

Wow, all #tob25 for this month's favorites. It either says something about the quality of the longlist, or it's just a reflection of the fact that I read most of this month's books from the longlist so my favorites are statistically more likely to be from among those titles.

#WeeklyFavorites @Read4life

I managed to get myself a bingo on my February #bookspinbingo card! Lots of progress on #tob25 longlist titles, but I didn't do quite so well on my #Roll100. I need just to bite the bullet on The Glass Bead Game. It just has so many PAGES!

I hope the move is going well, @TheAromaofBooks !

My book club's pick for March, so I gave it a go. Bailing 45% in. It's not bad, it just jumps around, and I alternated between uninterested (not really interested in reading a detailed account about buying boots in Paris) and fiercely jealous (free outdoor exercise spaces within 5 minutes of every resident??). Although I do feel even better about being mistaken for French while I was in Spain. Perhaps I'm less unstylish than I thought.

Pre-kids, my spouse and I set about watching as many of the Best Picture winners as we could find in the local video store. We made a decent dent in the list before we got bogged down and video stores closed.

Some of my faves, only one of which is from that "trying to watch them all" period:
-All About Eve
-Terms of Endearment (which I liked better than the book)
-The Silence of the Lambs

Thanks for the tag, @dabbe !

#ThreeListThursday #TLT

Although I enjoyed this novel, and I like reading a story about a hero at the FDA (they do so much to keep us safe), I found the story itself to be a little flimsy. The motives of the bad guy never quite ring true for me. It seems more like a collection of elements and character types mixed together than it does like a cohesive story. I found it fun to read while I was reading, but I don't think this one is going to stick with me.

Oops! I lost track of time and am posting this a few days after the fact. Better late, etc., etc. The March image going up reminded me. February is a very short month this year.

#WeeklyFavorites @Read4life

I wonder if this novel would have hit me quite like it did if I'd read it before January 20, 2025. Because right now it feels practically prophetic. But in addition to being prophetic, it's also a beautiful story of persevering through hardship and maintaining integrity (defined in this case as acting in alignment with one's core values) in a world geared towards profit and self-interest at all costs. #tob25 longlist

"But this was clear...he could not tell left from right. Which in itself was not the problem. The problem was that when he turned, and the world turned round him, he could not adjust. The evidence was not enough. He had no compass of his own, yet wouldn't follow the one before him, its trembling needle pointing out directions for anyone with eyes."

This quote hits hard, especially at this time in history.

Things I love:
-The pacing leaves plenty of room for emotions to develop.
-The perspective shows both the frustration of the US medical system and the wonder we can access when knocked out of our unconscious narratives.
-The writing, beautiful without being sappy.

Things that don't quite work:
-The extended treatises on poetry and music go on too long for my taste.
-The meticulous detail, which gets tedious.

Soft pick for a #tob25 longlist title

I goofed and made my March #bookspin list without leaving space for my #Roll100 titles for the month. But being that I'm way behind on January and February #Roll100, it probably works out. This month I'm hoping to make a dent in the small stack of ARCs I'm way overdue on reviewing. We shall see.

@TheAromaofBooks @PuddleJumper

"Lark and I once took life a year at a time. As the world shifted we went to a month at a time, later a week. At this point an hour would do. I'd take twenty minutes in the sun."

Does this novel stay devastating? I love it, but it's breaking my heart.

I bought a new plant. And I keep taking pictures of her. I think the cats are getting jealous. Not related to the tagged except that it's the book I keep looking up from to admire the plant.

This is my second Sally Rooney, and I like it quite a bit more than I did that first. This one took me a while to get into, but once I got the hang of it, I enjoyed the meandering pace at which these characters navigate grief, love, family, and societal expectations. It's interesting to see how each character doing what they want affects everyone else and how balance comes from unveiling secrets and being honest with themselves and others.#tob25

I went to the library to pick up a hold and was seduced by the "blind date with a book" display. I almost don't want to open it, the anticipation is so sweet! Any guesses about what it is before the big reveal? The clues: It's satire, "dark, unsettling, and nerve chafing," and about 1/2 inch/1 cm thick.

Just over halfway through February, I've finally posted about my January reading! (And also about my cats.)

https://imperfecthappiness.org/2025/02/18/bookends-january-2025/

I've been really digging this song lately:

https://open.spotify.com/track/56bVCBk20LrKXdADA4qWaA?si=0yvA55TGRsK58QRfF-irgQ

#tuesdaytunes @TieDyeDude

I'm on my third month of reading to two UTK classes, and it's turning into a highlight of my week. The (mostly) unfiltered energy and enthusiasm and wonder is a balm to me. And I think they like my visits, too. :-)

"What kind of truth would require this many lies to tell?"

I love this take on the role of fiction. It reminds me not only of how I experience fiction (lies told to convey a truth) but of the likely apocryphal stories traditionally told about US presidents to convey the ideals the American people valued in their leaders (which in itself feels like a lie these days, but employed for a different reason).