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DebinHawaii
Bad Feminist | Roxane Gay
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#Read2025

I finally read this one thanks to #AuthorAMonth It‘s been in my TBR for ages & it‘s my 2nd Roxane Gay (I read Hunger in 2017). I had hoped to finish Not That Bad too but I ran out of time. Although some of the cultural references are dated (it was written 12 years ago), the fact that so little has changed is pretty telling & sobering. Some essays were better (or at least I connected with them more) than others but overall, a good read.

DieAReader 🎉🎉🎉 9h
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Zuhkeeyah
Bad Feminist | Roxane Gay
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This was my first Roxanne Gay read and I quite enjoyed it. Her opinions were relatable and, even if I didn‘t agree, she broke them down in such a way that I could still appreciate her viewpoint.

#authoramonth @Soubhiville

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@WildAlaskaBibliophile @TieDyeDude

Such gorgeous books and goodies from my match, Andrew!
I am so thankful for this, and I'm really excited to start reading.
I reserved it for March, so I'm counting down mood! And maybe the pages will be in the candlelight!🕯📚

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WildAlaskaBibliophile Yahoo!!! 😍🎉 So glad everything arrived! 2d
TieDyeDude I'm glad you enjoy everything! Sorry for the delay... 😋 2d
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JulietteReadsALot
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Pickpick

First part of the Second Sex.

To-be-read for sure, but before beginning the second tome, I'll let my brain recover, haha.

Very interesting, I just love how she writes, how she builds her arguments. And the amount of research is just mind blowing.

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Texreader
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Pickpick

Suffering a despicable, traumatic experience at a young age, the author ate, a lot, to protect her body from future harm. But as a result, she became super obese (I like her personally acceptable description: a person of size). I gained a lot of weight last year (but significantly less than her) for health reasons, so I have a small taste of the shame she feels because of her size. But the bigger connection to this book for me is what I believe ⬇️

Texreader is likely universal, or almost universal, lifelong shame about something about something: something we did or said, or happened to us, something that eats at us and we hope to hide forever. Gay‘s extraordinary revelations about herself resonated deeply with me. That being said, she also opened my eyes to the struggles of the obese in this world. First, her gaining weight was a result of a child dealing the only way she knew how with the cruelty ⬇️ 2d
Texreader she endured, a cruelty against which she wages a daily battle. Second, she must plan her days to a level of infinite detail. We‘ve all heard about the difficulty flying when overweight; but it‘s true for seating at movie theaters, concert halls, and even restaurants! Third, enduring a world where just trying to sit in a chair can be torture leaving bruises and pain. Fourth, little to no clothes available for the super obese. And finally and ⬇️ 2d
Texreader most importantly, dealing with people who despise her for her weight (not to mention her race), who treat her as imaginary, whose faces fill with disgust upon seeing her—and conversely, those offering advice to her that she certainly doesn‘t need from strangers much less family (as she points out, she‘s extremely well-educated, she knows the problem and she‘s tried everything to lose the weight). Or offering platitudes (“your face is pretty!). ⬇️ (edited) 2d
Texreader Suffice it to say, this is a deeply personal book by Gay but that can resonate with every one of us on some level. If we all could be so brave as she is. #authoramonth @Soubhiville 2d
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julieclair
Bad Feminist | Roxane Gay
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This book made me laugh out loud a couple of times, but more importantly, it made me think. A lot. Roxane Gay‘s down-to-Earth writing style is so approachable. Even when I didn‘t agree with her opinions, she helped me focus on what my own opinions are. In the end, I realized that, like her, I am a Bad Feminist. But that‘s better than not being a feminist at all.

#authoramonth @Soubhiville
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AnneCecilie

In general, I think of misogyny as being a bit like the shock collar worn by a dog to keep them behind one of those invisible fences that proliferate in suburbia. Misogyny is capable of causing pain, to be sure, and it often does so. But even when it isn‘t actively hurting anyone, it tends to discourage girls and women from venturing out of bounds. If we stray, or err, we know what we are in for.

(I can already tell this book will make me angry)

DogMomIrene Great comparison! Living on PEI, lots of people use “invisible fences” so any time I‘m talking to people here, I call them electric fences because I‘m not going to help make someone feel better about abusing their dog. Sounds like this book is doing similar, but I get how emotionally taxing that can be. Hang in there! 2d
AnneCecilie @DogMomIrene I also found Manne‘s comparison very fitting and explains why it‘s so hard for white men to understand how it works 2d
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Sace
Bad Feminist | Roxane Gay
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I finally got around to reading Roxane Gay thanks to #authoramonth hosted by @Soubhiville . I forgot I had this one on my kindle so I‘m diving in. I doubt I‘ll finish it before Friday though.

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kspenmoll
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This is my son‘s book-he is planning another 2 trips for us to NYC, one this month for an exhibit at the Center for the Book Arts & the Casper Friedrich the Soul of Nature exhibit at the MET in April. In the meantime I am going to read this article later today. I did see an exhibit on Artemisia Gentileschi here inHartford at the Wadsworth atheneum. https://centerforbookarts.org/exhibitions/the-best-kept-secret-200-years-of-bloo...

kspenmoll Christine i thought i might copy this article at work & get to you later at some point - Especially given your Woolf love , etc. @TheBookHippie (edited) 3d
TheBookHippie Oh!!!! Lovely! 3d
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vonnie862
Difficult Women | Roxane Gay
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I'm not a big fan collections of short stories, so I'm not surprised that I was not really into this one. Some of the stories were good, some were weird, and some I did not care for. However, there were some stories that were hard to read due to the topics (e.g. rape). So trigger warnings before reading this one.

#authoramonth @Soubhiville #bookspin