While good, it wasn‘t on par with Sister, Outsider. The first essay, about S&M in the lesbian community, seemed an odd starting point. The latter part of the book is diary excerpts from when she was diagnosed with liver cancer metastasized from her earlier breast cancer. It was hard to read, as my mom has spent the last three years fighting metastasized BC from 24 years earlier 😡. She‘s good, but it makes it hard to read about.