Becoming Unbecoming | 
pickJust excellent.
Everyone should read it, even if it's a hard read because of the content (sexual assault + trauma).
In this graphic memoir, Una questions the treatment of women, how difficult it is for a female victim to be heard, the labels put on women (good/bad victims), she also questions the responsibility of men, the banality of men's violence, the cause of this violence.
A lot of food for thought.
pickan unusual and very bleak book to read during #wintergames but it was leant to me by someone at work after a really interesting conversation about true crime. This is the graphic novel memoir of a woman living in Yorkshire during the time of the Yorkshire ripper murders and reflecting on her own experiences with sexual violence. An interesting and horrid look at what authority figures notice and don‘t notice, it reminded me of My Friend Dahmer
pickThis was a difficult to read memoir that discusses the trauma inflicted on girls who survive sexual assault at a young age. It‘s combined with the author‘s story of coming of age in the time of the Yorkshire Ripper and notes how women and girls were routinely ignored in that case. I loved some of the art, especially the outdoor scenes.
pickPublished under the pseudonym Una, this account of sexual and gender violence stretches from the 70s into the 00ts and includes both personal details from the author‘s life and an overview of the broader political/societal backdrop she grew up in. It is told with a combination of comics, expressive art, and media clippings. This was really well done, but so difficult to read! #PopSugar2022ABookWithAPalindromicTitle #Booked2022TitleRepeatsItself
pickMy goodness, what a powerful, haunting graphic novel about the shame and blame that women experience due to male violence and societal misogyny. The art is unique, spare, and evocative and, on more than one page, took my breath away. #ReadHarder2020 #challenge #Booked2020 #13 @Cinfhen @4thhouseontheleft @BarbaraTheBibliophage
so-soThis is an important topic, but I wish the author would have picked a trajectory and gone with it. Is it about her personal traumatic experiences, the Yorkshire Ripper, or lists of facts and figures about sexism and sexual assault? The landscape art is beautiful; I didn‘t find the art of people as effective. Some books could have combined all of these things seamlessly, but I don‘t feel this one does.
pickAlthough this is a hard read it is an important one. It focuses on victim blaming and society‘s views on violence against women. It set in 1070s but you can still hear the same comments today. The author focuses on her own experiences with abuse but also on the 1970s jack the Ripper who would have been caught so much earlier if the police had listened to the victims instead of deciding they were just prostitutes and loose women.
1. Becoming, Unbecoming
2. The Great Alone
3. The Princess and the FanGirl
#weekendreads @rachelsbrittain
Fourth book done for @DeweysReadathon ! I‘m going to at least try to start a fifth. My stalwart and adorable reading companion is already asleep 🐶😴
I am not even half way through this book and it‘s already extremely powerful. I just don‘t have words. #bibliophile #memoir #graphicnovel
so-soThis graphic feminist memoir of a sexual abuse survivor coming of age during the era of the Yorkshire Ripper seemed to be right up my alley. However, something about this didn‘t work for me that I can‘t quite name. The final drawings were amazing and moving though. I think perhaps someone who reads more graphic books will like this more than I did.
#becomingunbecoming #una
Questa graphic novel è una meraviglia!
Tratta della violenza di genere e della consapevolezza dell'essere vittima.
pickThis is a graphic novel about a young girl struggling to pick up the pieces after sexual assault. It is painful to read how Una‘s life got smaller and smaller as she struggles to understand her silence, the triggers she avoids and the people around her who prioritize “perfect” victims. I used this for my bookriot challenge- read a comic illustrated and written by the same person. However, I recommend for everyone to read. TW: sexual assault.
I am honestly so sore today, and I think I'm coming down with the flu. I had the day off and planned on reading all day long, but I've had a hard time getting comfortable. I've stuck to graphic novels, as they're quick and easy. 👌 Hoping to get one more in tonight., so I'm starting this one. It's been on my TBR for a while.
There are lots of interesting graphic choices in this book, but my two favorites are the paper dolls and the trees
pickA #thoughtprovoking, #insightful and #poignant #graphicmemoir of the author's personal account of #sexualviolence she endured amid the #1970s #yorkshireripper #manhunt . These #beautiful and #meaningful #illustrations were #heartbreaking at times. #booklover #bibliophage #bookworm #readforlife #read150 #yycreads #calgaryreads #readeverythingandanything #crimestory #unitedkingdom #violenceagainstwomen #multiplebookreading #bookart #calgarylibrary
pickAs a memoir and a comic, Una's style is very unique and artistic. While visually a bit off-putting, it fits well with the story she tells, because its a subject matter that can be difficult to read.
As Una tells her story of sexual abuse, she ties it into the broader picture of society. Using statistic, research, and personal experience, she brings voice to the destructive behavior the world takes towards half its population.
#30Comics30Days
Why are women angry?
'35.8% of all sexual assaults are carried out on 12 to 17 year-olds. 82% of these victimized juveniles are females. 21.8% of rapes of females are gang rapes. 92% of Native American girls say they have been forced to have sex while on a date. 346,830 rapes and sexual assaults of women and girls were reported in the US in 2012. In a society where only 2% of rapists are convicted'
That's why we are so mad.
pickThis graphic novel is the story of a young girl growing up between the ages of 10 and 16 as she tries to deal with a rape at a young age, she also watches the story of women beaten and murdered by a serial killer during this time. This is an intense book!
#BookAndBreakfast Usually I'm too frazzled in the morning to sit down and read. But today I'm trying to slow down and enjoy the first hours of my day. Eating spaghetti for breakfast because I can and tackling this graphic novel!
#booksandtreats A beer, a gelato pop and a fairly harrowing graphic memoir about sexual violence against women. #riotgrams
"Girls had to be sexy, but not too sexy and, although the rate at which girls grew was completely beyond their control, they had to be careful not to let their breasts and thighs alarm people"
pickA heartbreaking examination of the impact of rape culture. Una was repeatedly made a victim of sexual assault at the same time that a serial killer who targeted women was at large in Yorkshire. The media's victim-blaming and the slut-shaming she witnessed among her classmates made sure she withdrew, and never received any help -- until she found feminist Joan Smith. A chilling personal account of one hidden cost of patriarchy.
pickThe blurb is completely accurate. This memoir/info book *is* unflinching and heartbreaking because, while this is about a historical British case, attitudes about violence against women haven't changed much since the 70s. It is still taboo, it is still avoided and ignored and rationalized. And that needs to change.
This is so heartbreaking but so realistic, unfortunately.
pickUsing the Yorkshire Ripper as a touchstone, this comic skillfully moves from personal trauma to probing questions about a society that accepts misogyny and violence against women. Una is just as comfortable using silence and poetic images as she is statistics and history to fight against complacency and victim-shaming, toward listening.
pickUna's personal experience with rape and slut shaming as a child, combined with a look at the culture of sexual violence and misogyny that was all around as she grew up in Yorkshire in the 1970s, documented in a variety of styles of artwork. Powerful.
Change takes time, I hear you say. We've had a few thousand years. How much longer before we are rid of this dead weight?
Una's representation of misogyny. This graphic memoir is difficult and wonderful and extremely important. If you can get your hands on a copy, I highly recommend it.
pickA beautifully done powerful graphic novel. This book takes an unflinching look at sexual violence against girls and women at how there power and voices get stolen and their trauma responses work against them. The imagines are beautiful at points and disturbing at others. This book might be triggering for some but I definitely recommend it. Your heart will ache for Una as she struggles to live with fear and pain she can't even understand.
"This is how I found out I had something called a reputation that I was supposed to have been looking after. I didn't even get a good look at it before it was gone." This book!!!
Back at the bookstore after telling myself I did not need this right now and that it can wait. Proof I have no self control. I've already well exceeded my book budget for the month. At least I'm in good company.
pickEndearing story of survivorship. I wanna give this graphic novel to all my feminist friends.
