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All the Young Men
All the Young Men | Ruth Coker Burks, Kevin Carr O'Leary
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In 1986, 26-year old Ruth visits a friend at the hospital when she notices that the door to one of the hospital rooms is painted red. She witnesses nurses drawing straws to see who would tend to the patient inside, all of them reluctant to enter the room. Out of impulse, Ruth herself enters the quarantined space and immediately begins to care for the young man who cries for his mother in the last moments of his life. Before she can even process what she's done, word spreads in the community that Ruth is the only person willing to help these young men afflicted by AIDS, and is called upon to nurse them. As she forges deep friendships with the men she helps, she works tirelessly to find them housing and jobs, even searching for funeral homes willing to take their bodies - often in the middle of the night. She cooks meals for tens of people out of discarded food found in the dumpsters behind supermarkets, stores rare medications for her most urgent patients, teaches sex-ed to drag queens after hours at secret bars, and becomes a beacon of hope to an otherwise spurned group of ailing gay men on the fringes of a deeply conservative state. Throughout the years, Ruth defies local pastors and nurses to help the men she cares for: Paul and Billy, Angel, Chip, Todd and Luke. Emboldened by the weight of their collective pain, she fervently advocates for their safety and visibility, ultimately advising Governor Bill Clinton on the national HIV-AIDS crisis. This deeply moving and elegiac memoir honors the extraordinary life of Ruth Coker Burks and the beloved men who fought valiantly for their lives with AIDS during a most hostile and misinformed time in America.
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Amiable
All the Young Men | Ruth Coker Burks, Kevin Carr O'Leary
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First book completed for #Nonfiction2023. A wonderful, lovely, heartbreaking read. Highly recommend.

Prompt: Same Love

Riveted_Reader_Melissa Great start to the new year! 2y
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Amiable
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My 1st book completed for #AuldLangSpine and it‘s a 5-star read! Ruth Coker Burks is an angel— and I don‘t toss that word around lightly. In 1986 she began helping young men with AIDS in her community in Arkansas. Nobody else would do it —not their families, not the doctors and nurses, not the preachers, not the “good Christians” in town. She recognized them as human beings and gave them dignity in death. A powerful, lovely read. Thanks, Deb!

Amiable @GinaKButler This is the book that completed my GR challenge for the year! 😀 (edited) 2y
GinaKButler Woo-hoo!! 🎉 2y
Oryx She's an amazing person. 2y
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monalyisha What a fabulous start! 2y
Deblovestoread I‘m so glad you loved it, too. It was on my 2022 #NYWD list from @thewallflower0707 2y
Amiable @Deblovestoread Oh, I love that! It‘s like the book just keeps paying it forward. 💙💙 2y
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squirrelbrain
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Thanks for the tag @Crazeedi - this week‘s questions are soooo difficult @Eggs ! 🤪

1. Loved the tag book which I read recently.
2. I don‘t think I have a fave genre but I love the crime / mystery novels by Angela Marsons. She‘s my go-to author.
3. I found both Columbine and Parkland by Dave Cullen fascinating, although tough.

Who else wants to play?

Eggs Okay I‘ll stop being difficult 🤣. Great answers though 👏🏻📚👍🏼 4y
Megabooks I had Dave Cullen in my list as well. Great books! 4y
Crazeedi Great choices! 4y
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TrishB
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And I finished it with a little cry 😭 with all the prejudice and discrimination in the world, we should all be grateful for the heroes like Ruth. Who took on everything and everyone to help fight for these men to be able to die with some dignity and love.
Ruth is a true hero ♥️

Lindy Hey! I‘ve got that same bookmark, which I found in a library book. 4y
BarbaraBB Great review 💔 Did you make the most of your day off? (edited) 4y
TrishB @Lindy oh how cool 👍🏻 mine‘s from the actual shop, I thought it was very fitting to use for this book. The shop is awesome 😁 4y
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TrishB @BarbaraBB I‘ve had a lovely relaxing day 😁 read my book and had a nice walk in the sun and 12 degrees weather. Just what was needed. 4y
Lindy @TrishB Yes, a very fitting bookmark - book match-up. 👍 4y
sarahbarnes Love that bookmark! 4y
BarbaraBB That sounds perfect and well deserved. 12 degrees all of a sudden. Crazy times! 4y
TrishB @sarahbarnes it‘s cool isn‘t it 😁 4y
TrishB @BarbaraBB the weather was definitely barmy! 4y
Centique Oh this sounds good! Stacked - I‘m sure it‘s going to make me weep 😢 4y
TrishB @Centique it‘s so good. It is also hopeful and uplifting. But it did make me weep. There are some horrible things human do to humans in this world. 4y
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squirrelbrain
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Such a heartbreaking book - I cried a few times. 😢 But also strangely uplifting too.

Ruth cares for people with AIDS in the mid-eighties when everyone else around was ostracising them (and worse). I don‘t know how she found the willpower to keep pushing against society, but I‘m glad she did and told her story here.

One of my favourite reads of the year so far.

Cathythoughts Nice review! One of your faves this year too 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 4y
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Oryx
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Definitely a worthwhile read. Heartbreaking to read how these dying young men were abandoned by their families and also the medical establishment. Ruth is really a force for good in the world.

TrishB Looking forward to it 👍🏻 4y
squirrelbrain What @TrishB said! 😁👍 4y
Caroline2 I don‘t know if I could handle this book at the mo. 😔 4y
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BarbaraTheBibliophage
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Ruth Coker Burks is the kind of woman who ran towards a problem that no one else wanted to help with. In the early days of the AIDS crisis she helped the young gay men who had no one else. The book is simultaneously hopeful and heartbreaking. You‘ll find parallels between the epidemic of AIDS and today‘s pandemic—and many differences. Burks is definitely a quiet hero.

Full review http://www.TheBibliophage.com
#thebibliophage2021 #thxnetgalley

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Oryx
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So far, so heartbreaking. This is a great book (only about a third of the way through) but my heart hurts for all those young men whose family turned their back on them.

squirrelbrain My copy is on its way....along with Betty. Yes, I succumbed! 4y
Oryx @squirrelbrain Amazing 😄 ok, now we're even 😂 4y
ReadingOver50 This sounds so good! 4y
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Bookishlie I must read this...... 4y
Hooked_on_books This sounds incredible. Thank goodness some of those young men had someone like Ruth. My heart hurts for those who were shunned as they lay dying and had no one like her. Amazing how cruel people can be. 😔 4y
Suet624 Unbelievable that a parent would leave their child to die alone. So wrong. 4y
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BarbaraTheBibliophage
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Starting this today ... ugh, I hate when I get behind with ARCs. So I‘m not even worrying about challenge prompts while I catch up! And yes, this one is already very moving!

TheBookHippie This is high in my to read not sure I‘m ready to relive those years. 4y
BarbaraTheBibliophage @TheBookHippie I hear you. I put my review up on GR and my blog. Just forgot to post it today. It really is just so so good. Full of hope and love even amidst the devastating losses. 4y
TheBookHippie @BarbaraTheBibliophage I‘ll check it out. 4y
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Cinfhen
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Sometimes a simple act of kindness can alter a life, and in this case thousands of lives. One ordinary woman did something extraordinary. Ruth Coker Burks a single mother, barely able to support her little girl, finds herself the lifeline for a community of young men who were alone, sick and suffering from the AIDS virus in the early days of the disease. It‘s an inspiring & heartbreaking story. #NetGalley #ARC

TrishB Stacked 👍🏻 this sounds really good. 4y
squirrelbrain Sounds great - stacked! 4y
squirrelbrain Ha! #booktwins @trishb - we posted at exactly the same time! 4y
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TrishB @squirrelbrain we could almost buddy read 😁 wait, no... 4y
squirrelbrain Never a good idea @TrishB ! 4y
BarbaraTheBibliophage Just started this today. Already it‘s just so moving. 4y
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Cinfhen
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#ARC #NetGalley This story of one woman‘s battle against an entire country is pretty amazing. Ruth Coker Burks is a true everyday hero 🙌🏻💖Fascinating story so far. I‘m curious to see how then Governor Bill Clinton handled the AIDS crisis in his home state of Arkansas.

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BarbaraTheBibliophage
All the Young Men | Ruth Coker Burks, Kevin Carr O'Leary
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It was a very good #NetGalley week. Just when I start to work my shelf down, I find more books I *really* want to read! #bookhaul #arc #advancedreaderscopy

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