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I'll Have What She's Having: How Nora Ephron's Three Iconic Films Saved the Romantic Comedy
I'll Have What She's Having: How Nora Ephron's Three Iconic Films Saved the Romantic Comedy | Erin Carlson
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A backstage look at the making of Nora Ephron's revered trilogy--When Harry Met Sally, You've Got Mail, and Sleepless in Seattle--which brought romantic comedies back to the fore, and an intimate portrait of the beloved writer/director who inspired a generation of Hollywood women, from Mindy Kaling to Lena Dunham. In I'll Have What She's Having entertainment journalist Erin Carlson tells the story of the real Nora Ephron and how she reinvented the romcom through her trio of instant classics. With a cast of famous faces including Reiner, Hanks, Ryan, and Crystal, Carlson takes readers on a rollicking, revelatory trip to Ephron's New York City, where reality took a backseat to romance and Ephron--who always knew what she wanted and how she wanted it--ruled the set with an attention to detail that made her actors feel safe but sometimes exasperated crew members. Along the way, Carlson examines how Ephron explored in the cinema answers to the questions that plagued her own romantic life and how she regained faith in love after one broken engagement and two failed marriages. Carlson also explores countless other questions Ephron's fans have wondered about: What sparked Reiner to snap out of his bachelor blues during the making of When Harry Met Sally? Why was Ryan, a gifted comedian trapped in the body of a fairytale princess, not the first choice for the role? After she and Hanks each separatel balked at playing Mail's Kathleen Kelly and Sleepless' Sam Baldwin, what changed their minds? And perhaps most importantly: What was Dave Chappelle doing ... in a turtleneck? An intimate portrait of a one of America's most iconic filmmakers and a look behind the scenes of her crowning achievements, I'll Have What She's Having is a vivid account of the days and nights when Ephron, along with assorted cynical collaborators, learned to show her heart on the screen.
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BennettBookworm
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Mehso-so

This felt more like a collection of notes from a hundred interviews with a thousand names and crisscrossing timelines, rather than a book. Especially disturbing was how no editor caught the error of misquoting “daisies are the friendliest flower.”
BUT, I love these movies to death so hearing all the behind-the-scenes stuff was really cool. And it inspired me to watch The Shop Around The Corner for the first time, which is a new fave!

LiteraryinPA Bummer. What did they mess up about the line? 1y
rubyslippersreads You might also want to watch the Judy Garland film, In The Good Old Summertime, also based on The Shop Around the Corner. 🙂 1y
BennettBookworm @LiteraryinLawrence yeah they called it the happiest flower haha 1y
BennettBookworm @rubyslippersreads oh I totally should, thanks! 1y
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peanutnine
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Pickpick

This was a really interesting look into Nora Ephron's career, specifically her three most famous romcoms. It goes into a ton of detail about the whole production process from the initial concept, to writing, casting, filming, & the repercussions on the film industry as a whole. There were so many names that were impossible to keep up with but despite that it was a pretty easy read. It also gave some insight into ⤵️

peanutnine Meg Ryan and Tom Hanks' careers since they were such an integral part. #Nonfiction2023 Like a Virgin, Madonna @Riveted_Reader_Melissa #2023ReadySetRead well-known landmark on cover @Clwojick 2y
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peanutnine
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Schadenfreude (n) pleasure derived by someone from another person's misfortune

German words are just so fun sometimes
#weirdwords @CBee

julesG Love the quote! 2y
CBee Yessss they are fun! But so complicated too 😂😂 2y
peanutnine @CBee omg yes I would never learn the language 2y
CBee @peanutnine my husband‘s parents immigrated here from Germany and he can still speak it 😊 2y
peanutnine @CBee oh wow how cool! 2y
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AmyK1
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I found this in the LFL by my house and had to read it based on the title alone-When Harry Met Sally is one of my favorites. I‘ve seen Sleepless in Seattle and You‘ve Got Mail, both once and a long time ago. This was a fun look at the behind the scenes of getting these 3 movies made, with details about Nora, Meg, Tom and Billy. Now I want to watch the movies again lol

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Kristin_Reads
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5⭐️|| This was such a fun listen-read! Behind the scenes of three of my favorite romantic comedies: When Harry Met Sally; Sleepless in Seattle; You‘ve Got Mail.

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HotCocoaReads
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I‘m giving away 3 copies of this book on Instagram—come find me (same handle name) and enter. Giveaway ends Thursday, May 31

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ontheBL
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A really lovely look into Nora Ephron's three most well known movies and how they transformed the romcom genre. Carlson writes with a bubbly fondness for the movies I too grew up with.

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RosieBoo65
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Nora Ephron‘s trinity of rom coms - When Harry Met Sally, Sleepless in Seattle, and You‘ve Got Mail - are some of my favorite movies I never tire of watching. This book takes you on the journey of those movies and how Nora set the stage for the future of rom coms. As someone who can quote every line of these movies, this book was so fascinating as I learned all sorts of backstage trivia none of which dampened my love of those movies.

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danimgill
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This was a light and mostly interesting look at Nora Ephron‘s life and film career but the author never really answered the question in the book‘s subtitle (how DID Nora‘s films save the romantic comedy?) so that knocked it down for me. If anyone knows of a book that does explore the history and cultural impact of rom com films let ya girl know!

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danimgill
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Just in time for Valentine‘s Day! I‘ve seen mixed reviews of this book, so I‘m tempering my expectations for just some fun movie trivia. I have a feeling I‘ll need to get my hands on You‘ve Got Mail again once I‘m finished...

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Zelma
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This was a giant disappointment. Great topic, but lack of a cohesive vision and poor writing made this a one-star read. The author couldn‘t decide whether this was a Nora Ephron biography, an insider look at filmmaking, or an analysis of the romantic comedy, so she tried to do all three. The result was a spare outline of Ephron‘s life, vignettes on her best movies, and lots of name-dropping. No flow whatsoever, but some interesting movie trivia.

manifestsanity There's a really great HBO documentary about Ephron called Everything is Copy. Worth watching. 7y
rubyslippersreads So disappointing to hear that. 😕 7y
Zelma @manifestsanity this was mentioned quite a bit in the book; thanks for the rec to check it out. (edited) 7y
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Zelma
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Just finished baking chocolate chip pumpkin cookies and have my stack of books ready for the holiday weekend. I purposely chose less taxing titles and think these will be fun. Plus I checked out Gilmore Girls since I‘ve never seen it. 😄 bring on turkey and stuffing!!!

(Edited to add that we‘re celebrating tomorrow so I jumpstarted my prep tonight.)

slategreyskies Gilmore Girls is one of the few tv shows I watch. Did you check out season one? 7y
merelybookish Thats fun that you get to watch the Gilmore Girls. Hope you enjoy! 7y
Zelma @slategreyskies I did. I wanted something feel-good this weekend (besides Christmas movies 😉). 7y
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NatalieR I bake those cookies several times every fall. 😃🍪 7y
Zelma @NatalieR they are soooo good! I had to stop eating them so not to make myself sick. 😋 7y
Suet624 Wait...you‘ve never seen Gilmore Girls? You‘re in for a treat. 7y
Zelma @Suet624 I figure something with such a fervent fandom is worth giving a try. I just binge watched the first 4 episodes last night. 👍 7y
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“...in You‘ve Got Mail, Meg scored the apartment that would later get pinned to oblivion on Pinterest.” -Erin Carlson, I‘ll Have What She‘s Having
aannnnd now I need to go watch You‘ve Got Mail for the millionth time!
#erincarlson #noraephron #bookworm #bookish #givemekathleensapartment

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Pamwurtzler
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I love Nora Ephron - I‘m looking forward to reading this! #3 #Novemberbythenumbers

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MrBook
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#TBRtemptation post 3! Recently released. A backstage look at Nora Ephron's revered trilogy: "When Harry Met Sally", "You've Got Mail", and "Sleepless In Seattle"; and, an intimate portrait of the writer/director who's inspired a generation of Hollywood women, from Mindy Kaling to Lena Dunham. Lots of intriguing and meaningful questions get answered! #blameLitsy #blameMrBook ?

thewallflower0707 Wow! I watched the 3 movies with my mum this summer and we loved them all. Now I‘m curious about this book! 7y
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Suetara
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So far, this book is a delight and scratches a reading itch that I didn't know I had. I haven't watched these movies in ages, and it might be time to introduce them to my girls.

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MatchlessMarie
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Sadie hasn't been getting the attention she deserves lately, but she is always my go to for #bathtimebooks #autumnreads #kindlepaperwhite #arc #netgalley

Reviewsbylola Pretty blue bath water. 7y
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DebinHawaii
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Entertaining & engaging look at the uber-talented Nora Ephron & her 3 iconic romcoms: When Harry Met Sally, Sleepless in Seattle & You've Got Mail. Full of fun details & juicy behind-the-scenes tidbits of the films & how Ephron revived a movie genre. One of my favorites for August. 💜My full review, a recipe for Sleepless-inspired Tiramisu Cream Clouds, & a giveaway to win a copy of the book (U.S. & Canada addresses) are on my blog post-Link👇🏻

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DebinHawaii
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Spent time at urgent care for breathing, then a long nap as I didn't sleep last night-so nothing much got done & today's soup was dinner instead of lunch.😬It's a (vegan) Moroccan Corn Chowder I put together for a blogging film event, inspired by Secondhand Lions. It's got chickpeas, Israeli couscous & Moroccan spices--really tasty! 🌽🍲😋📚The book pictured is my current read for book tour review this week-it's fun so far. Link to soup recipe👇🏻

kspenmoll Hope you are feeling better & breathing treatment helped. The soup sounds delicious! Plan to try making some! Thanks! 7y
Texreader What a day! Hope all is well now. Looks delicious as always 7y
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MemoirsForMe Feel better! 🤗🌷 7y
LeahBergen I hope you're feeling better. 😘 7y
Magpiegem 🌷🌻I hope you feel better soon 🌸🌺 7y
monkeygirlsmama Feel better! Your chowder looks delish! 7y
RohitSawant Hope you feel better! 7y
LauraBrook Yes, I hope you keep feeling better! And that soup looks amazing, I wish I could cook like you. 7y
theshrinkette Hope you feel better soon! 7y
TrishB Hope you're feeling better soon 💓 7y
DebinHawaii @kspenmoll @Texreader @UwannaPublishme @LeahBergen @Magpiegem @monkeygirlsmama @rohit-sawant @LauraBrook @theshrinkette @TrishB Thanks for the well wishes everyone. I'm better than earlier today for sure. Darned weenie lungs.😬 And the chowder really hit the spot tonight. 👍 7y
JessClark78 Hope you feel better soon. 🌺 7y
AmandaL Feel better! 7y
SaraFair Feel better! Also, wish they had more Nora Ephron comedies again. They were sweet as now romantic comedies seem so racy. 7y
Avanders Oh I hope you feel better soon! 🤒🤕 7y
LeeRHarry Feel better soon! 7y
megt Hope you feel better soon! 7y
peaKnit Comfort food and rest!❤️ 7y
Jas16 I hope you feel better soon 7y
Graciouswarriorprincess Feel better soon. 7y
DebinHawaii @SaraFair I agree! Her rom-coms were sweet & fun! 💜 7y
DebinHawaii @JessClark78 @AmandaL @Avanders @LeeRHarry @megt @peaknit @Jas16 @Graciouswarriorprincess Thank you everyone! Definitely breathing is better today and although a bit blah, I'm on the mend. 💜💜💜 7y
Dragon Hope you are feeling better! 💐 7y
Graciouswarriorprincess Glad to hear. 👍🏻💕 7y
BethFishReads Oh no!!!!!!! Glad you're doing better 7y
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DebinHawaii
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Day 1 #AndItsJune #AugustMostAnticipated 📚My #AugustTBR stack, not including e-books, ARCs or audiobooks & my #hpchapteraday & #LOTRchapteraday 😬Out of these I'm most anticipating How to Change a Life, The Doll Funeral & the tagged book about Nora Ephron's movies, but I'm excited about all of them-most are for review. I WILL finish The Boy on the Bridge this month & I'll at least start Farmer Boy as it's my pick for virtual foodie bookclub.🍴📚

mom2bugnbee I had no idea there was a book about Nora Ephron movies! Stacked! #blameLitsy 7y
DebinHawaii @mom2bugnbee It looks really good! 📚👍😀 7y
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MatchlessMarie
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I swore I was just gonna take a peek at my most recent ARC from #netgalley at the pool but now it's dinner time and I'm already hooked! Thanks @DebinHawaii for posting about this one 😘
PS I'm one of those 🍍 on 🍕 gals.
Judge me 😜

saguarosally Pineapple pizza is the best! 7y
DebinHawaii I can't wait to read it but I am resisting as I have other books on tour ahead of it! 😬📚I will not judge on the pizza as long as you don't claim it is Hawaiian. People think you slap pineapple on something and it's Hawaiian! 😆🍍 7y
MatchlessMarie @DebinHawaii You are stronger than I. I'm so deep in the polygamy its unreal ? Here the "Hawaiian" has ham on it too. I'd rather do straight pineapple or with black olives. ? 7y
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DarcysMom
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DarcysMom I am happy such a refreshing read was my 100th book this year on goodreads. 7y
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Yay! I was approved!

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DebinHawaii
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#bookmail I'm pretty excited about this #ARC for a book tour review in August. When Harry Met Sally, Sleepless in Seattle, & You've Got Mail are three of my favorite movies & I love books about pop culture & film. I'm also trying my first Halo Top (salted caramel) tonight because my local grocery store gave me a coupon for a free one. Which is good because the $6.49 a pint regular price is ALOT for 🍦! Is it really high here, or is that normal?!😱

tammysue I've never heard of that brand. It's definitely a high price but it sounds like a good deal to me😉 7y
Jess7 It's delicious, and super low calorie for a pint of ice cream. The most popular (and in my opinion best) flavor is red velvet. Hope you enjoy it. I love Halo @whatshesreadingnow (edited) 7y
DarcysMom Looks like a fun book! I just requested it on #Netgalley. Hopefully I will be approved! 🤞 7y
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Lidia OMG I need this book! Sleepless in Seattle and You've got mail are 2 of my favorite movies ever ❤️ 7y
MatchlessMarie 😲 That is pretty high. Ours is 4.64 here in TX. I hear a lot of ppl raving about it though. 7y
LauraJ Same price here. Actually it went up to $7 as soon as it got hot. 7y
LazyOwl I love the cat spoon, super cute. We pay about $7 for the more extravegant brand icecream here. But it is worth it 😏 7y
Simona Spoon❣️😍😍😍😍😍😍 7y
DebinHawaii @whatshesreadingnow @Jess7 @MatchlessMarie @LauraJ @LazyOwl OK, maybe I'm just cheap when it comes to ice cream! 😋🍦🤑😆 It is good. @Simona Thanks! It always makes me smile. 😻 7y
DebinHawaii @DarcysMom I hope you get it! 👍😀@Lidia Me too! They are comfort movies for me. 💜 I've only paged through a little so far but it looks good. 📚👍 7y
batsy Like @Simona I was drawn to that adorable spoon. Then the ice cream. I know there's a book in there somewhere 😁 7y
Lcsmcat Where did you find that spoon?!?! 7y
tammysue Thanks @Jess7 I'll have to check that out next time I'm at grocers. I love red velvet😋😊 7y
tpixie @LauraJ 😩😫😯 7y
tpixie @DebinHawaii cute spoon!! Pricey ice cream - but it supposed to be lower in calories so I guess it's of the specially ice cream they can get away with that? But it is hard to buy a little tub like that for seven dollars when we can get a whole half-gallon for 3 to 4 dollars! 7y
Jess_Read_This 🙌🏼🙌🏼Halo makes Sea Salt Carmel?!!! I have to look for this one. 7y
Jess7 You're welcome. The comparison calorie wise is amazing - it's like 240-380 (depending on flavor of Halo - which is made with stevia not aspartame) for a pint vs 800-1,200 for a regular pint of ice cream depending on brand and flavor. They are able to charge so much bc there isn't really any other ice cream that has all three features: super low calories, made with stevia and still tastes really good. It's about $4.99 at Kroger here 7y
LauraJ @DebinHawaii No, you're not cheap. That's too damn much for ice cream. I stick with Whatever's on sale and good. Food is expensive in Los Angeles. 7y
DebinHawaii @batsy @Lcsmcat @tpixie @Simona Thanks for the spoon love. 😆 A friend brought it back to me from Japan several years ago and it always makes me happy when I use it. 😽❤️ 7y
tpixie @DebinHawaii cool! 🇯🇵🐱 7y
Graciouswarriorprincess Cool book and spoon. I love Halo Top but it is pricey. 7y
Zelma I've noticed ice cream in general has gotten really expensive. All of a sudden, pints are $5 or more. 😬 7y
rubyslippersreads @Jess7 I just found red velvet, and have to admit I ate an entire pint in one sitting! 😱 7y
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