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Being There: Why Prioritizing Motherhood in the First Three Years Matters | Erica Komisar
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In this important and conversation-starting book, veteran psychoanalyst Erica Komisar offers a provocative and compelling premise: a mother's emotional and physical presence in her child's life--especially during the first three years--means that her child has a greater chance of growing up emotionally healthy, happy, secure, and resilient. When that essential presence goes missing, the child is at higher risk for social, emotional, and developmental issues, both immediate and long term. Compassionate and balanced, and focusing on the emotional health and well-being of children as well as that of the mothers who care for them, this book shows mothers and fathers how to give their children the best chance for developing into healthy and loving adults. Based on more than two decades of clinical work, established psychoanalytic theory, and the most current and cutting-edge neurobiological research on caregiving, attachment, and brain development, the book explains: - How to establish emotional connection with a newborn or young child--regardless of whether you're able to pause your career to stay home - How to select and train quality childcare if necessary--and how to ease transitions and minimize stress for your baby or toddler - What's true and false about widely held beliefs like "Babies are resilient" and how to combat feelings of post-partum depression or boredom - Why three months of maternity leave is not long enough--and how women and their partners can take control of their choices to provide for their family's emotional needs in the first three years
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#20in4readathon update: getting that coffee fix in my beloved Audrey Hepburn mug. Just finished a chapter and started another in the tagged book. I missed my library books.

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bibliobliss

"Your baby's brain doubles in size during the first year of life. This extraordinary brain growth is, according to Dr. Allan Schore, a professor of interpersonal neurobiology at the Geffen School of Medicine at UCLA, "experience dependent" -- that is "reliant on social interaction" with the mother."

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"For the first few weeks it may seem like a baby does nothing but eat, poop, and sleep. But the truth is very different; an infant is creating 40,000 synapses (connections between neurons in the brain) per second."

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• Reading this passage and knowing there's so much #truth here. My 8-month old clings desperately to me like his life depends on it...because it does •

#life #mamalife #boymom #children #nonfiction #biology #socialscience #parenting #growthanddevelopment #psychology

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"There is no way to be a perfect mother and a million ways to be a good one."

Need to hear that some days (ok, most days)

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Buchbeeg Especially right now! Thanks for the reminder ❤️ 5y
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"Children are not a distraction from more important work. They are the most important work."

--C.S. Lewis (God love him ?)

#quotes #bestquotes #bookquotes #children #motherhood #truth #family

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• When I saw this at the library, I snapped it up. It looks right up my alley, as far as nonfiction goes right now •

#TBR #stacks #libraryloot #librarylends #librarylove #nonfiction #parenting #children #families #motherhood

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The title of this book sounds like it's anti-working-mom, but so far I agree with its assertion that is not so, but rather makes a case for presence in varying circumstances. Even working limited hours from home and only having 1 kid, I often feel Iike there's not enough of me to go around. And this quote about the house and dinner is SO me. I love to cook and would love a cleaner house, but something's gotta give! And it's usually those 2 things.

smilingshelves Scrambled eggs and frozen pizza are both staples in our house! 😊 7y
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