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After the Parade
After the Parade: A Novel | Lori Ostlund
From Flannery OConnor and Rona Jaffe Award winner Lori Ostlund, a deeply moving and beautiful debut novel about a man who leaves his longtime partner in New Mexico for a new life in San Francisco, launching him on a tragicomic road trip and into the mysteries of his own Midwestern childhood. Sensitive, big-hearted, and achingly self-conscious, forty-year-old Aaron Englund long ago escaped the confines of his Midwestern hometown, but he still feels like an outcast. After twenty years under the Pygmalion-like direction of his older partner Walter, Aaron at last decides it is time to stop letting life happen to him and to take control of his own fate. But soon after establishing himself in San Franciscowhere he alternates between a shoddy garage apartment and the absurdly ramshackle ESL school where he teachesAaron sees that real freedom will not come until he has made peace with his memories of Morton, Minnesota: a cramped town whose four hundred souls form a constellation of Aarons childhood heartbreaks and hopes. After Aarons father died in the town parade, it was the larger-than-life misfits of his childhoodsardonic, wheel-chair bound dwarf named Clarence, a generous, obese baker named Bernice, a kindly aunt preoccupied with dreams of The Rapturewho helped Aaron find his place in a provincial world hostile to difference. But Aarons sense of rejection runs deep: when Aaron was seventeen, DoloresAarons loving, selfish, and enigmatic mothervanished one night with the town pastor. Aaron hasnt heard from Dolores in more than twenty years, but when a shambolic PI named Bill offers a key to closure, Aaron must confront his own role in his troubled past and rethink his place in a world of unpredictable, life-changing forces. Lori Ostlunds debut novel is an openhearted contemplation of how we grow up and move on, how we can turn our deepest wounds into our greatest strengths. Written with homespun charm and unceasing vitality, After the Parade is a glorious new anthem for the outsider.
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TrishB
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Thank you lovely Litsy friends, Ali, Rachel and Jessie. These all look amazing looking forward to reading them 😁. Grateful for Litsy and so many wonderful friends, hope you have a lovely Christmas 🎄🎅💜
Happy Christmas to all those celebrating.

squirrelbrain Lots of great-sounding books there! ❤️ 5y
erzascarletbookgasm Wishing you all the blessings of a wonderful Christmastime. Happy reading! 💕 5y
MicheleinPhilly Merry Christmas to you and the family! 😘 5y
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TrishB @squirrelbrain I know - always amazed when haven‘t even heard of so many books! 5y
TrishB @erzascarletbookgasm and to you and your family ♥️ 5y
TrishB @MicheleinPhilly and to you and yours Michele 😘❤️ 5y
Suet624 You have some terrific friends. You must be a terrific person. Have a wonderful Christmas. 💝 💝 5y
Cinfhen ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ 5y
Balibee146 @Suet624 she is an awesome person 👍 Enjoy @TrishB 😘😘😘 5y
LeahBergen Oooo! A Month in the Country, Black Wings Has My Angel, The Hours Before Dawn ... loved them all! Happy Holidays, friend! 😘😘 5y
TrishB @Suet624 @Balibee146 awww thank you 😘 you‘re all amazing. 5y
TrishB @Cinfhen 😘😘 5y
TrishB @LeahBergen excited for them all 😁 have a great Christmas 🎄😘 5y
batsy What a lovely selection 💕 5y
TrishB @batsy excited for them ❤️ 5y
rockpools Hope you‘re having a lovely break Trish 😊. Haven‘t we co-ordinated tgem nicely 😉 5y
TrishB @RachelO I am, hope you‘re enjoying yourself 😘 and these are wonderfully coordinated! 😂😂 5y
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Reggie
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Aaron leaves his partner, Walter, of 20 years and decides to move to San Francisco. Which might sound fabulous!!! but is not. His present is interspersed and informed by these somber and subdued memories. Many we can all relate to. Ostlund has such language that she‘s able to illuminate every why and how. Have you ever read prose that has comforted and held you in ways you never knew prose could? That was this book. It was like coming home 👇🏼

Reggie after school to grandma‘s before everyone gets home. She‘s finishing up making tortillas for dinner but let‘s you have one. And it‘s so warm and fluffy and slathered in butter. Total pick!! (edited) 6y
Tanisha_A Sire, your reviews do not help my TBR. 😶 6y
BarbaraBB Fantastic review. Stacked, of course! 💜 6y
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TrishB It seems I‘ve already stacked this! Or I would have stacked again 😁 6y
SamanthaMarie Well sheesh, better stack this and get myself a homemade tortilla while I'm at it! 6y
CarolynM Another stack here🙂 6y
CampbellTaraL @Tanisha_A Right? I just whittled mine down, too 6y
Tanisha_A @taraWritesSci Haha. I meant it increases the books I want to read. 6y
Mdargusch Lovely review 6y
TNbookworm I love your reviews! 6y
Cathythoughts Great review! Stacked 6y
minkyb Love the review. Stacked. 6y
Reggie @Tanisha_A @taraWritesSci Lol, I don‘t feel bad as someone on here put the 60something new releases to look forward list in my feed earlier. It ruined me!! Lol. 6y
Reggie @SamanthaMarie Awww I wish I could make tortillas like grandma but have never gotten it right. And if I do get it right I can‘t get a perfect circle. They come out looking like Florida and California. 6y
RohitSawant Obviously stacking! Awesome review! 6y
Reggie @BarbaraBB @TrishB @CarolynM @Mdargusch @TNbookworm @Cathythoughts @minkyb @rohit-sawant Thanks!!! In San Francisco Aaron teaches ESL to immigrants and some of the best moments come out of their wonder and excitement for language which also sends him into a flashback. Overall, just a real tender book. (edited) 6y
Centique Oh my lord Reggie you can write a review! I don‘t just want to stack this book now, I want to adopt it and take it home to live with me. Also tortillas! I‘ve never had a tortilla that was soft and fluffy - that sounds magnificent 😍😍 6y
SamanthaMarie @Reggie I mean, as long as they taste delish, who cares what they look like, right?! I do use a tortilla press though, because rolling them out really started to annoy me haha. 6y
Reggie @Centique Thanks, Paula.🤗It took me a week to read and I was ok with that because I didn‘t want to let it go. Aww, you would love a fresh tortilla hot off the stove. They‘re the worst thing for you being made of lard and flour but the best thing for the soul!! Lol. 6y
Suet624 Aw, Reggie. What a delicious review. 6y
Reggie @Suet624 Thanks, Sue!!! 6y
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Reggie
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I‘m really liking my next book so far.

LauraBeth This sounds good! 6y
TheBookHippie Oh this looks good! 6y
Suet624 This is stacked already. It now I want to run out today and find it. Wouldn‘t it be something to be in a relationship like that? 😀 6y
Reggie @Suet624 Yes it would be because the couples in my family prefer to include everyone in their unhappiness. Something to look for. 6y
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RobinGustafson
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65 pages read, 6 mile walk, farmers market, Friends of the Library book sale, bookish mail...excellent start to the weekend

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RebelReader
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Cinfhen Oh wow! This sounds bonkers - the good kind!!!! #stacked 7y
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shawnmooney
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A deeply felt novel about a sensitive late-30s gay man who leaves his lover of two decades and moves to San Francisco to reinvent himself. But for the wounds of his childhood—which surface with a vengeance—everything would‘ve been fabulous; what happens instead is narrated with a deep, aching beauty that just might restore your faith in fiction. Not to mention humanity. A stunning debut.

My BookTube video review: https://youtu.be/Dg0wHL7J9Y8

Reggie Sold. 7y
TrishB Sounds great👍🏻 7y
BooksForEmpathy Such a wonderful book!!! 7y
LeahBergen That sounds wonderful! 7y
Lindy I already had this book on my radar. Now moving it up in priority. 😁 7y
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Soubhiville Ew. That‘s very strange. 7y
cariashley 😯 7y
jbhops Wss ⬆️@Soubhiville 7y
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tjwill 🤷🏻‍♀️ 7y
LauraBeth I need some follow up... 7y
saresmoore Shawn, how you toy with us, just ripping quotes out of their context! I love it. 7y
saresmoore Is it strange that I‘m now craving toast with jam? 😆 7y
emilyhaldi Well!! 7y
Wife 😳😳😳 7y
Bklover 🧐🤨🧐🤨 7y
CouronneDhiver I‘m with @LauraBeth on this one... what‘s the context? 😂 7y
LeahBergen @saresmoore 😂😂😂 7y
shawnmooney @Soubhiville @jbhops @LauraBeth @saresmoore @CouronneDhiver @LeahBergen Fine. 5 words: COLLEGE DORM ROOMMATE FROM HELL.... 😂😂 7y
CouronneDhiver Haha! Gosh, there IS a reason that I‘ve never had roommates. 🤣🤣🤣 7y
Soubhiville Lol, ah, makes much more sense now. 7y
LauraBeth Ahhhh 7y
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shawnmooney
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jbhops I can't wrap my head around the purple commas comment. Help me understand? 7y
shawnmooney @jbhops I wondered about it as well – but it‘s the wine stains from having taken communion. 😀 7y
jbhops Phew. She enjoys herself some communion wine! 😂 7y
Mdargusch Funny! I‘m going to worry about purple commas on my face now. Guess I better stick to white wine. 👍🏼 (edited) 7y
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MayJasper Please tell me he survived 7y
shawnmooney @MayJasper Yeah he‘s the adult protagonist, so no worries. 7y
MayJasper Thank goodness. Death by bubblegum seemed too cruel a fate 7y
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LeahBergen This sounds like the prairie drives of my childhood (Alberta to Manitoba). 😆 7y
shawnmooney @LeahBergen Thanks for indirectly insulting my home province! 😍😍😛😛 7y
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Mindyrecycles
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#LitsyReadingChallenge Well I got 22/25 and will have to settle for that. In my defense, my daughter was in a terrible car accident in March and I spent a lot of time caring for her (she has since made a full recovery) and we have spent the holidays selling our home and buying another. Good excuses, you must admit!

nelehelen So wonderful to hear shes made a full recovery! 7y
GypsyKat Definitely good excuses! And I‘m so glad to hear that your daughter is ok! 7y
Yellowpigeon Glad she is doing better 7y
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britt_brooke So happy she‘s okay!! How scary. 7y
merelybookish Life does intervene! Glad to hear your daughter is better! 7y
DrexEdit Glad your daughter has recovered! Not much comes before books but health and family are right up there! 😊 7y
silentrequiem Glad your daughter is okay! 7y
shanebeth happy to hear your daughter recovered! 7y
RebelReader The great thing about books as they will still be there when you have the time!😍😍 Happy your family is healthy again! 7y
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Alicia
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One of my favorite novels of 2017 thanks to @BooksForEmpathy ! I absolutely loved this novel and have recommended it a number of times. A heartbreaking exploration of relationships and love as well as family and understanding oneself. #VACATIONBOOTY

BooksForEmpathy OMG!!! This makes me SO happy!!!!!!!!!!!! I felt the exact same way! 7y
Alicia @BooksForEmpathy 💞💞 yaayyy!!!!! I am so happy you had sent this book. I know I never would‘ve picked it up otherwise and despite it being intense it brought me so much joy to read it! And also hopefully all other people I told to read it too! 💕💕💕📚 7y
DocBrown This made the top of my list last year!! 7y
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RebelReader I made my book group read this in 2016 because I loved it so much and the group voted it "Best Book of the Year"! 7y
Alicia @mdhughes72 nice! It is definitely in my top ten for 2017. 7y
Alicia @RebelReader wow! I think I will recommend for my book group too, great idea. 7y
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Bibliogeekery
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This book was beautiful and sad and hopeful. We meet Aaron when he's leaving his boyfriend of 20 years. The book is a journey through Aaron's life as he reflects on and revisits his painful childhood and how it has impacted his whole life. It's the story of trauma and healing. It's beautifully written. #queerbooks 📚

shawnmooney Ooh, I'd forgotten about this one - thanks for reminding me it's on my TBR! 7y
ReadingEnvy Sounds good 7y
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Bibliogeekery
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#audiobookwalk I love these painted electrical boxes!

riversong153 Cool! What city is that? 7y
Bibliogeekery @riversong153 Toronto, Ontario, Canada 7y
Laura317 Very cool! 7y
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Bibliogeekery
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Bibliogeekery
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Audiobook road trip!

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Bibliogeekery
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#audiobookwalk Saturday market edition

monkeygirlsmama Drooooool 7y
Varshitha Yum! 😋.. I'm a fruit junkie & these look delicious. We don't get Blueberries and Raspberries in India though☹️ 7y
Bibliogeekery @Varshitha I've haven't been in India for a number of years but if memory serves you've got some pretty AMAZING fruit there! 😉🍊 I still dream of the mangoes!! 7y
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Bibliogeekery
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Saturday morning. No one else is in the house for the first time in a long time. Reading bliss 📚☕😍

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Bibliogeekery
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MrBook 😆😁👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 7y
elkeOriginal This is awesome! 7y
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Danbo99
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Wow. Very sad story and look at life, yet hopeful too. It's the story of Aaron looking back on his life, alternating with his present day life and struggles. When I was about 75% through the book I found myself needing to go back. I restarted about a quarter into the book and just reading and browsing quickly I picked up so much more that I had somehow overlooked. This made me enjoy the ending even more. What a great story!

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Aaaand we're hooked. Great start to my #qgp2 read for this month! #queergoespostal #queersgopostal #queerbooks

BooksForEmpathy Oh! This is mine! Hope you enjoy it!! Also, aren't those quotes so good!? (edited) 8y
thrilloffear Opening with an Oscar Wilde quote is a very easy way to get me to like a book 8y
Broke_Girl_Reads @BooksForEmpathy I'm really enjoying it so far! Also yes, the Oscar Wilde quite especially is stoking my desire to visit San Francisco 8y
Bibliogeekery 🎉🎉🎉 8y
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malloryomeara
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This book is deeply sad and incredibly hopeful and lovely. Unexpectedly funny and sweet.

BooksForEmpathy Yes! All the Yes! Loved this one. 8y
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DocBrown
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I've read a lot of books this year -- check my reviews -- and this gorgeous Chinese puzzle, this lovingly sculpted word-garden of a book is easily the best one since Did You Ever Have a Family. A quiet yet revealing character study, glacial in that far more is happening beneath the surface. The author rewards the reader on every page with a trail of morsels that leads from cover to cover. Didn't want it to end!

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DocBrown
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Has there ever been a time in this country when this was truer?

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DocBrown
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DocBrown to make it sound even wittier or more insightful. As a result, they were in high demand at social gatherings, but they rarely accepted invitations because they enjoyed each other‘s company best. 8y
DocBrown This is me and my bride of 22+ years 😍 8y
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Bookdwarf
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Grabbed thus book at City Lights in San Francisco and holy shit it's amazing. Can't remember who recommend it but wow.

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Mindyrecycles
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Two books lent by two coworkers. #booktober #somethingborrowed

cariashley The Ann Patchett... ❤️🙌🏻👍🏻 8y
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Hoopiefoot
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Squee!!! I'm nowhere near the @Litsy power user that some of you are, so I'm crazy excited to hit this Litsy milestone 😁😁😁

Megabooks Congrats!!! 🎉🎉📚 8y
Suzze Congrats! Every milestone means more Litsy fun has occurred! 8y
CherylDeFranceschi W00t!🎉📚🎉 8y
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DebinHawaii Congratulations! 👍😀 8y
Texreader Way to go! 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👍 8y
PurpleyPumpkin Very nice, well done!🎉👊🏼💜 8y
LitHousewife Congratulations!!! 8y
quirkyreader Whoopie for you. 🐸🐙 8y
BekahB Congrats!! 😃 8y
britt_brooke 🙌🏻🙌🏻 8y
BookishFeminist Still awesome!! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼🎉 8y
Carol 📚💪🎉🙌🍻 8y
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shawnmooney
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Penny_LiteraryHoarders I started listening to this one months ago in audio, but put it away because I think it's one that needs to be read. It's a bit quiet and slow so thought it would read better in book format.... 😁 8y
shawnmooney @Lindy it goes without saying that I would love to hear your thoughts on my very tentative opinion. Can you think of a great novel or short story written by a lesbian about gay man or vice versa? I'm drawing a blank… 8y
bookishkai @shawnmooney hmmmm, interesting question. I'm also drawing a blank. I could give you a list of romances, but a great novel? Not really. Thanks for the recommend on this one, though, I'm off to the library to snag a copy on my way to work. 8y
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Lindy @shawnmooney not the main character, but important, in 8y
Lindy @shawnmooney likewise, important gay secondary character in 8y
Lindy @shawnmooney I recommend any of the novels I've listed above. I thought of others but I'm not sure if the authors identity as lesbians. 8y
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SFPublicLibrary
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A story about soul searching and starting over set in our very own San Francisco.

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BooksForEmpathy
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Listened to the audio of this one... I never wanted it to end. After 20 years with his partner, Aaron decides to leave and moves to San Francisco. The book alternates between chapters of Aaron's past and his present efforts to move forward. Interesting and heartbreaking characters. Rewarding read!!

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