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A Life of My Own
A Life of My Own | Claire Tomalin
Esteemed biographer and legendary literary editor Claire Tomalin's stunning memoir of a life in literature In A Life of My Own, the renowned biographer of Charles Dickens, Samuel Pepys, and Thomas Hardy, and former literary editor for the Sunday Times reflects on a remarkable life surrounded by writers and books. From discovering books as a form of escapism during her parents' difficult divorce, to pursuing poetry at Cambridge, where she meets and marries Nicholas Tomalin, the ambitious and striving journalist, Tomalin always steered herself towards a passionate involvement with art. She relives the glittering London literary scene of the 1960s, during which Tomalin endured her husband's constant philandering and numerous affairs, and revisits the satisfaction of being commissioned to write her first book, a biography of the early feminist Mary Wollstonecraft. In biography, she found her vocation. However, when Nick is killed in 1973 while reporting in Israel, the mother of four put aside her writing to assume the position of literary editor of the New Statesman. Her career soared when she later moved to the Sunday Times, and she tells with dazzling candor of this time in her life spent working alongside the literary lights of 1970s London. But, the pain of her young daughter's suicide and the challenges of caring for her disabled son as a single mother test Claire's strength and persistence. It is not until later in life that she is able to return to what gave her such purpose decades ago, writing biographies, and finds enduring love with her now-husband, playwright Michael Frayn. Marked by honesty, humility, and grace, rendered in the most elegant of prose, A Life of My Own is a portrait of a life, replete with joy and heartbreak. With quiet insight and unsparing clarity, Tomalin writes autobiography at its most luminous, delivering an astonishing and emotionally-taut masterpiece distinguished by the deep and hard-won wisdom of devastating loss but even more extraordinary love.
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TrishB
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#wondrouswednesday
Cayman Islands, Paris, Singapore
Book and bath
Tagged one
Getting through the day! My PA resigned today 😞

Tagging anyone who‘d like to play ❤️

Eggs A dramatic day for you 😳 3y
Centique Oh what a shame about your PA! 😔 I hope you find someone great and it doesn‘t take long🤞🤞 3y
TrishB @Centique hopefully🤞🏻🤞🏻 3y
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Giving it a pick because I wanted to carry on reading. At the beginning she came across as privileged and patronising. She didn‘t necessarily move away from that but I was interested in her life story and she had a lot of challenges.
But somehow I don‘t think she‘s ever met a poor, working class person and her obvious disdain for anybody not in her cultural group was a bit annoying. I enjoy her biographical works, but we‘d never be friends.

Leftcoastzen Great review! 3y
Cathythoughts Yes ! Great review 👍🏻 3y
squirrelbrain Great review! 3y
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batsy Nicely put and an interesting review! I've enjoyed her biographies but this makes me wonder if sometimes I'm better off not knowing the biographer... Lol 3y
TrishB @batsy yes I agree! 3y
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#weeklyforecast
Currently reading A Life of My Own. The writing is spot on but I haven‘t warmed to the writer! We‘ll see.
Dipping in and out of Empty Nest to see if there are literary words of wisdom to prepare me. The nest will be empty 2 weeks from today. (One will return from uni of course!)
And I‘ve added the usual thriller.

rockpools Have a great week Trish. I‘d have been worried if the thriller hadn‘t been in there 😁 3y
Cinfhen Empty Nest syndrome is both a blessing & a curse!!! Sending much love 💕 💕 💕 3y
TrishB @rockpools 👍🏻 you too. 3y
TrishB @Cinfhen I‘m guessing that will be so ❤️❤️ 3y
Cathythoughts You got to have that thriller 👍🏻😁 3y
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I have been told this several times in my life.

Tove_Reads In my very sarcastic group of friends we call our friend from Manchester ‘Scouser‘. 🤣🤣🤣 3y
TrishB @Tove_Reads worst insult ever, either way round 😁 3y
Leftcoastzen I‘m just a weird American but I love and admire the variety of accents that exist in the UK and Ireland! 3y
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TrishB @Leftcoastzen it‘s such a class thing here 😞 3y
Leftcoastzen @TrishB yes , sad but true, I reject it entirely, says the person from the U.S. but it happens here too.A man in my life moved around a lot as a military brat , he had no trace of the sweet East Tennessee accent his family has. He had what I call a FM radio announcer voice.He felt it was key to get rid of accent, just another thing for the kids to pick on in a new school.I was curious about this book too. 3y
Susanita I love your accent! 3y
BarbaraBB I love your various accents but even in the small Netherlands we have many dialects and a similar attitude - it‘s not so much class as well as rural vs urban 3y
Reggie @TrishB I read this Gay classic where this guy really liked the working class men from London who were considered lower class because of their accents. And then the working class man started taking classes and lost the accent purposely because he wanted to be good enough for the educated guy. As soon as he “bettered” himself the educated guy dumped him. This was in the 50‘s. You just can‘t win sometimes. 3y
Cathythoughts Mean headmistress 😡 3y
TrishB @Susanita aw thank you 😁 that‘s really nice to hear! 3y
TrishB @BarbaraBB we have the urban/rural thing too. People that live outside Liverpool boundaries are called ‘woolleybacks‘ - sheep! Because they live in the countryside. 3y
TrishB @Reggie that‘s definitely a power thing. So sad. But it‘s also sad that it‘s assumed you‘re better because you have a ‘posh‘ accent. 3y
TrishB @Cathythoughts absolutely! 3y
Caroline2 Argh me too! When I was doing my teacher training to teach English abroad, one guy (v posh accent) actually asked the teacher, in front of the whole class, if it was appropriate for me to teach English with an Essex accent!!!!! 😲 3y
TrishB @Caroline2 god that makes my blood boil!! 😡 3y
Centique 😱😱😱 how dare anyone say that!!! Man I love all the different English accents. They‘ve all got wonderful histories and ties to community too (I listened to an amazing podcast about that somewhere) - one of the most interesting things about language, how it varies over just a few miles - it‘s absolutely classist and revolting to put down an accent 😤 3y
TrishB @Centique I don‘t think we‘ll ever shake off the class thing in this country! 3y
eraderneely My daughter is developing an adorable Yorkshire/American hybrid accent and I love it! But I will be devastated if she starts saying “I were...” 3y
TrishB @eraderneely 😂😂 don‘t tell her though! 3y
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Litsi
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Not sure why I read this. Guess I just wanted to see how honest an autobiography a biographer would write. Seemed a bit shadowy to me.

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#Page1 books subscription sent this to me. Otherwise I would never have read it or likely have heard of Claire Tomalin, a notable biographer and literary critic. Here she shares a memoir of her own life filled with an amazing array of literary figures and personal tragedies. More interesting to me is how the social structures of 20th century Britain and Europe allowed her to flourish. Her “ordinary” life would be unlikely for any Millennial now.📚

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#onmyown #musicalnewyear
I have read a couple of her biographies but haven‘t read this one - her own story. Looks like she‘s had a lot of challenges!

Cathythoughts I really like the sound of this one ! Stacked 6y
CarolynM She's a great biographer. I have a copy of this waiting for me. 6y
Cinfhen This sounds fabulous although heartbreaking 6y
TrishB @CarolynM it‘s definitely intrigued me! 6y
vivastory Sounds really interesting 👍 6y
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I don‘t read much historical biography, so I‘d never heard of Claire Tomalin until encountering her recently on NPR. I really, really like the way she writes - so matter-of-fact yet elegant. Her extreme privilege is clear, and I was often overwhelmed by SO MUCH name-dropping of 20th century literati. But I loved the parts about her family life and later-in-life career as a biographer. I‘ll definitely consider reading some of her other books.

Booksndogs Her bio of Samuel Pepys is fabulous engrossing as any novel. Even if you don‘t know who he is or think it could be stuffy or boring 6y
Christine @Booksndogs Wow, thanks for sharing! That make me even more intrigued... 6y
Litsi Her bio of Thomas Hardy was just so so. But I am reading this with more interest. 5y
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