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ChaoticMissAdventures
Soldier Sailor | Claire Kilroy
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Mehso-so

This was not a book for me. I in general do not love books on motherhood (not being a mom myself). But I know some women who have had similar painful first years with their children and useless husbands. As always I want to know where her community is? She has no friends or family to help? This is such a terrible reality for so many women, it was painful to read here.
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ChaoticMissAdventures I can see why some like this book. The writing is solid, the story for so many is relatable. But I honestly skimmed most of the book. I had zero interest in her long winded ramblings. And found the book to just be exhausting which might be the point since our narrator is also exhausted? I enjoyed the other struggling new mother story much more than this one - it was richer in symbolism I had more of a story to grasp into. 2d
BarbaraBB Great review. I‘ve been surprised about how few people feel this way. I personally loved it but if you don‘t have kids I can‘t imagine NOT skimming it! 2d
ChaoticMissAdventures @BarbaraBB I started skimming pretty much from the jump. I wouldn't have read it at all if it hadn't made the WP shortlist. I am genuinely surprised how few people had negative reactions to the book. I do think the last half of the book was more interesting than the first half. And it did have me make a date with a girlfriend who went through almost this exact new mom life. So I guess that is good. 2d
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BarbaraBB That‘s really good indeed. I pity your friend. I hope her husband is not as worthless as the one in the book! 2d
ChaoticMissAdventures @BarbaraBB unfortunately he is. I think the extreme people see in this book is because they didn't have as useless of a partner or had other help. My friends husband, 10 years later and she is still married to him, luckily she convinced him to move closer to her support system so this last year when she was going through cancer I was able to get their kiddo to school each morning, and our other friend took care of after school and dinner. 1d
BarbaraBB I am so sorry to hear that. He left her to take care of everything even when she was going through cancer? That is the worst. She must have felt so glad for having people like you around. 1d
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ChaoticMissAdventures
Soldier Sailor | Claire Kilroy
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Setting up my exercise bike to ride towards my TBR corner.
Motivation or Foreboding?

Tamra 😅 Motivating! 1w
Ruthiella Definitely motivating! 💪 7d
Hooked_on_books That‘s a fun idea! 6d
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CoffeeK8
The Bright Side Of Disaster | Katherine Center
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Pickpick

I‘m slowly going through and savoring Katherine Center‘s back-category and loving everyone one. This one was such a sweet story of Jenny dealing with becoming a new parent when her unreliable fiancé leaves her the day before her baby is born.

marleed I love reading through an author‘s canon! 1w
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BookishTrish
Soldier Sailor | Claire Kilroy
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Pickpick

An exaggerated portrait of the dark side of new motherhood. It had an archetypal feel to it that didn‘t always resonate with me - a soft pick.

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TheBookHippie
Soldier Sailor | Claire Kilroy
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Yay it‘s arrived @Deblovestoread thank you so much!!!!

Deblovestoread You are so welcome! That‘s pretty fast for media mail. 4w
TheBookHippie @Deblovestoread I WAS SHOCKED!! 4w
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MicheleinPhilly
Soldier Sailor | Claire Kilroy
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Pickpick

Holy. Moly. Exhausting, maddening, visceral, raw. Absolutely astonishing.

BarbaraBB Totally agree 💯 1mo
MicheleinPhilly @BarbaraBB I‘m so glad I don‘t have kids. Jesus. 1mo
squirrelbrain That‘s exactly what I thought after reading this. 😬 1mo
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BarbaraBB @MicheleinPhilly @squirrelbrain It‘s quite exhausting indeed but extra so because of that shit husband! 1mo
MicheleinPhilly @BarbaraBB @squirrelbrain The number of times I said “You prick” out loud while reading… 1mo
BarbaraBB 🤣 1mo
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TheBookHippie
Soldier Sailor | Claire Kilroy
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Whelp
I‘ve some reading to do 🤭👀

Deblovestoread For the first time ever I‘ve read all but one. If you want to read Soldier Sailor and don‘t have it I‘d be happy to send mine to you. 1mo
TheBookHippie @Deblovestoread oh yes please!!! My library has none of course 😵‍💫 and that is one I want to read! ♥️♥️♥️ 1mo
Deblovestoread Will get it out to you this week. 💜 1mo
TheBookHippie @Deblovestoread Thank you so much♥️ I‘m excited to read it. 1mo
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charl08
Soldier Sailor | Claire Kilroy
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Oh Sailor, I thought, the little size of you. This is what it feels like when everything goes wrong, and by your own hand. When you are caught, cornered, the one to blame, when you discover something in your nature that you did not know was there and which you do not like. Confusion, shame, resentment, regret: it's my area. Don't panic. Sit tight. I can help you with this.

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charl08
Soldier Sailor | Claire Kilroy

'Hello,' I replied but didn't know what to add nor how to pitch it because she was three and I hadn't gotten to that page in childrearing yet. 'We're not supposed to praise little girls for their looks any more,' I told my friend, 'but for their brains, and my God but your daughter is clever. Such clever hair, such clever eyes.' She really was a beauty, that child.

'Gets it from her mother, obviously.'

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charl08
Soldier Sailor | Claire Kilroy

I ducked around a corner. Look, Mama's going round the bend! I wanted to tell you, but oh, oh. What struck me as the starkest contradiction of all was that, having navigated this much of life the volatility of youth, of love and loss, the agony and the ecstasy - the closest I had come to losing my mind was during the period known as settling down.

Suet624 💕💕💕 1mo
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