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Congratulations, The Best Is Over!
Congratulations, The Best Is Over!: Essays | R. Eric Thomas
The beloved bestselling author of Here for It presents a collection of heartening, thoughtful, and laugh-out-loud funny essays about the lifelong search for community and returning home. After going viral "reading" the chaotic political news, having one-too-many awkward social encounters, and coming to terms with his intersecting identities, R. Eric Thomas is ready to live his best life. Or, if not, at least his best-ish life. Now, in this collection of insightful and hilarious essays, Eric finds himself doing things completely out of character, starting with moving back to his perpetually misunderstood hometown of Baltimore. They say you can't go home again, but what if you and home have changed beyond recognition? From attending his twenty-year high school reunion and discovering another person's face on his name badge, to splattering an urgent care room with blood la The Shining, to being terrorized by a plague of gay frogs whove overtaken his backyard, Eric provides the nitty, and sometimes gritty, details of wrestling with your past life while in the middle of a new one. With wit, heart, and hope for the future, Congratulations, The Best Is Over! is the not-so-gentle reminder we all need that even when life doesn't go according to plan, we can still find our way back home.
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triplem80
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This was a hilarious read, and great on audio. If you liked “Here for It,“ definitely check this out!

Using this to fill the #52bookclub24 prompt for a cover without people on it.

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Kristin_Reads
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A great last book of the year! A funny and touching memoir.

tokorowilliamwallace This author came to speak at a Baltimore County library even when I lived in the area that I was able to attend! 11mo
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Chelsea.Poole
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I really enjoy R. Eric Thomas‘s narration, though I did prefer his first book Here For It, over his latest. This one features the pandemic (as it must—all the authors do something with it right??) and a bit of a melancholic feel throughout. Death and grief are present but lacked a meaningful impact for me. Nevertheless, I‘ll always be grateful for audio time with the author! He‘s funny though not overtly so, and seems to be a kind, standup guy.

Megabooks I preferred this one. 🤔🤔 great review! 12mo
KathyWheeler I have liked both of his books, but this one may have had more of an emotional impact on me in the death and grieving section because my father just recently died. Good review. 12mo
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KathyWheeler
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I enjoyed most of this book, but it‘s not all laughs. The chapter that had the most impact on me was about grief and the mundane tasks that have to be done after someone dies.

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Amie
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This is not the kind of book I usually read, but it was great! I laughed out loud a number of times.

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KathyWheeler
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This evening‘s reading. Thomas is a writer whose essays I find to be funny and sad at the same time.

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britt_brooke
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⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ Thomas is such a funny and engaging storyteller! Loved this personal essay collection about moving back to his hometown (Baltimore), about midlife, Covid times, etc as much as I did his first book, Here For It, which I read in 2020, but def doesn‘t seem that long ago. Total time warp. Anyway, funny people are my favorite. “Same-sames” is my new favorite term. Also, the frog essay is one of the best I‘ve read in ages. Audio is fantastic!

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britt_brooke
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Pretty brisk #audiowalk this morning. Champ and I are so ready for fall! 🍂🍁🐾

#dogsoflitsy

Soubhiville He looks like he‘s about to get zoomie. Such a handsome dog! 13mo
dabbe Hello there, Sir Champ! 🖤🐾🖤 13mo
britt_brooke @Soubhiville 😂🫶🏼 13mo
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britt_brooke @dabbe 🤗🤗 13mo
Megabooks Fall is here in Kentucky this week! Hope y‘all had a good weekend! 💜 13mo
Michreader3 So cute!! 13mo
britt_brooke @Michreader3 Thank you 🫶🏼 13mo
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ncsufoxes
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I listened to this one over audio & loved the narration. I resonated with Thomas on the whole subject of getting older & the direction that your life is going. I loved his insights. Some were hilarious: his trip to the ER & some were touching: the cemetery. He also discusses his move to a very red neighborhood with his husband during the pandemic. Definitely need to read/listen to his other book. #bookspin #nonfictionbingo prompt:same love

TheAromaofBooks Great progress!! 14mo
Riveted_Reader_Melissa Stacking! 14mo
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gossamerchild
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I'm feeling these essays so much, but this first sentence really struck a chord. It's so difficult and weird making new friends as an adult.

Highly enjoying this one.

#fantasticstrangelings #rericthomas #essays

Bookzombie It is! I feel so awkward attempting to talk to people. 14mo
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K.Wielechowski
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This book is hilarious and touching, I cried with laughter and sadness.
Thomas covers moving back to his hometown of Baltimore, a bittersweet situation because he swore he‘d never go back but his family and past were there, and now so is his future. He talks about he and his husband buying a house in a red area during the pandemic and finding meaning of self.

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HeatherBookNerd
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Hysterically funny and surprisingly tender at moments, these essays cover all the bases of midlife: the day-to-day joys and struggles of marriage, the successes and detours of a career, personal ups and downs. There is such realness and honesty as Thomas shares many moments during his midlife/worldwide pandemic/personal emotional crisis. All with loads of his trademark humor, hope, and musical theater references. The audiobook is a MUST!

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monalyisha
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I came out of Eric‘s last collection, Here For It, bowled over by how much we have in common — & loving him for it. This book was the opposite! I realized how different we are. He‘s an extrovert; I‘m an introvert. He‘s a city mouse; I‘m a country mouse. He‘s a gay Black man in America. I am not. I love him for everything he is & everything he isn‘t, & especially for how he writes about it, finding earnestness, hope, humor, & honesty. 👇🏻

monalyisha 1/1: The best essay is, hands-down, “Jericho.” Some additional standouts include: “Clap Until You Feel It”, “Oh My, This Soup‘s Delicious, Isn‘t It?”, “You Rock, “Congratulations, The Best is Over!”, & “The Invitation.” 1y
Chelsea.Poole I‘m so looking forward to this one! 1y
monalyisha @Chelsea.Poole I will say that it looks as if most Littens liked this one even more than his first. I didn‘t feel that way. Just in terms of tempering your expectations. 😉 But I think he‘s wonderful! 1y
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Megabooks
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I think I‘m in the minority, but I liked this more than his first essay collection. As someone who had mixed feelings about moving back to her hometown and fitting in, I strongly related to Eric‘s mixed feelings about moving back to Baltimore. He dives deep into his marriage, loneliness, and weathering the pandemic. He also writes about leaving the security of his job at Elle to work on his own projects. A great, thoughtful collection!

Cinfhen Curious about this one - I think it‘s a #BorrowNotBuy for me 1y
Megabooks @Cinfhen I‘m not sorry I spent a credit on it, but I don‘t think it‘s a must read either. 1y
Cinfhen 👍🏽 1y
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Christine I too liked this one even more! 1y
Megabooks @Christine yay!! 👍🏻👍🏻 1y
JoyBlue I'm with you. I liked the first book, but I like this one even more. 1y
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AvidReader25
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An absolute delight. I loved his first book & couldn‘t wait to read this. He is so funny & reminds me a bit of Sedaris. This collection of essays includes thoughts on the pandemic & marriage. He blends humor with serious moments of grief. I loved it.

“All of which was to say, the world is so strange and so wild and sometimes so beautiful and I am so many different versions of myself away from you, but I‘m trying to share as much of it as I can.”

britt_brooke Looking forward to this one! 1y
Chelsea.Poole Loved his first book! 1y
AvidReader25 @britt_brooke it‘s worth the weight! 1y
AvidReader25 @Chelsea.Poole I did too. His sense of humor has me laughing out loud. 1y
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Soubhiville
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I don‘t know the author, but saw that some friends were enjoying this and my library had it, so I borrowed the audio. I laughed quite a bit, especially about the essays in which Eric and his husband turn the lawns of their new house into various types of garden and path, and the pond draws frogs and toads.

I think a fan would enjoy this more than I did, but I‘d call it a light pick for providing chuckles. (It‘s not all light material though!)

Soubhiville And now I want cupcakes. (I mean, I‘m always up for cupcakes though.) 1y
Hooked_on_books Isn‘t he fun? I loved this one. He made me laugh on a day I really needed it. 1y
HeatherBookNerd His first book was marvelous. Looking forward to this one. 1y
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Christine
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I love R. Eric Thomas, and I loved this even more than his first collection. I LOLed a bunch during this audiobook and found it to be a basically perfect listening experience. His narration is exceptional, which I suppose it would be because he‘s a professional storyteller (via The Moth, theater, etc. in addition to his writing).

DivineDiana Thank you for putting this on my radar! I too am originally from Baltimore. Stacked! 1y
Christine @DivineDiana Aww yay, I think you will really love this then bc there is ample Baltimore/regional content! 1y
DivineDiana Love books that feature my hometown. ❤️ 1y
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Hooked_on_books
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I needed something funny, so I‘m so glad I cued this one up. As in his first book, Thomas takes stories from his own life and tells them with good humor, even if the topic is heavier. And he does a fabulous job reading the audio. Loved it!

HeatherBookNerd I loved his first book 1y
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Magpiegem
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I was listening to the Off The Shelf podcast today and was just thinking this book off essays about hitting middle life sounded good when I heard the publication date- 8th August… my 40th Birthday. I guess I‘ll have to buy myself a very apt birthday gift!

monalyisha One of my most anticipated books of the year! 🥳 2y
Magpiegem @monalyisha oh is it? I must admit I don‘t think I know the author. But you can‘t not buy a book about middle age that comes out on your 40th what ever it‘s like! 😂😂 2y
monalyisha @Magpiegem I didn‘t know the author before reading his last book but we‘re *roughly* the same age and I adored his witty, thoughtful musings. He felt like a friend. 2y
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