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Over My Dead Body: Unearthing the Hidden History of America's Cemeteries
Over My Dead Body: Unearthing the Hidden History of America's Cemeteries | Greg Melville
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"Astonishing. . . fascinating . . . powerful. . .This clever, sensitive book gives us a new way to think about death, not as the final chapter, but as a window onto life in America."--NEW YORK TIMES BOOK REVIEW A lively tour through the history of US cemeteries that explores how, where, and why we bury our dead The summer before his senior year in college, Greg Melville worked at the cemetery in his hometown, and thanks to hour upon hour of pushing a mower over the grassy acres, he came to realize what a rich story the place told of his town and its history. Thus was born Melville's lifelong curiosity with how, where, and why we bury and commemorate our dead. Melville's Over My Dead Body is a lively (pun intended) and wide-ranging history of cemeteries, places that have mirrored the passing eras in history but have also shaped it. Cemeteries have given birth to landscape architecture and famous parks, as well as influenced architectural styles. They've inspired and motivated some of our greatest poets and authors--Emerson, Whitman, Dickinson. They've been used as political tools to shift the country's discourse and as important symbols of the United States' ambition and reach. But they are changing and fading. Embalming and burial is incredibly toxic, and while cremations have just recently surpassed burials in popularity, they're not great for the environment either. Over My Dead Body explores everything--history, sustainability, land use, and more--and what it really means to memorialize. Locales visited in Over My Dead Body Shawsheen Cemetery - Bedford, Massachusetts The 1607 Burial Ground - Historic Jamestowne, Virginia Burial Hill - Plymouth, Massachusetts Colonial Jewish Burial Ground - Newport, Rhode Island Monticello's African American Graveyard - Charlottesville, Virginia Mount Auburn Cemetery - Cambridge, Massachusetts Green-Wood Cemetery - Brooklyn, New York Laurel Grove Cemetery - Savannah, Georgia Sleepy Hollow Cemetery - Concord, Massachusetts Central Park - New York, New York Gettysburg National Cemetery - Gettysburg, Pennsylvania Arlington National Cemetery - Arlington, Virginia Woodlawn Cemetery - Bronx, New York Boothill Graveyard - Tombhill, Arizona Forest Lawn Memorial-Park - Glenwood, California The Chapel of the Chimes - Oakland, California Hollywood Forever Cemetery - Los Angeles, California Nature's Sanctuary - Philadelphia, Pennsylvania
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underground_bks
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American cemeteries have inspired landscape architecture, poets like Emerson, Whitman, Dickinson, and famous parks like Disneyland. They‘re also potent political tools & symbols, from Arlington to the separate African American Graveyard at Monticello. The strange, surprising story of the American cemetery comes alive in this tour across the country, from Savannah to Sleepy Hollow to Hollywood, with a journalist/veteran/grave digger at the wheel!

Singout Looks fascinating! 1mo
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DGRachel
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I found a lot of this tedious. I expected more Colin Dickey‘s Ghostland, and less cemetery guidebook. The history told here is by turns heartbreaking and rage-inducing - from the anonymity of “enslaved persons” cemeteries, and racial and economic discrimination, to the disrespect shown to the deceased and their living families in the name of capitalism. Yeah - a lot of rage. (August 2024 selection for The Morbidly Curious Bookclub)

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TheDaysGoBy
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This was a rec I saw from a fellow Litten and I enjoyed it a lot! It was really so fascinating. Definitely made me see cemeteries in a new way. I also thought learning the history of it all was so interesting. I weirded my family out as I shared with all of them the various things I learned like how/when embalming bodies started 😂

#hhc #scarathlon @dabbe

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Jessica!! This was fantastic! 4 books!!! AND more yummy vegan candy???? Thank you so much for- i feel very lucky i had packages from you! I loved This one as much as the other one! I hope you are having a wonderful Halloween Season! #allhallowsreadswap #ahrs
Thank you Chelle for hosting this fun swap 🖤🧡🖤

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TheDaysGoBy
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I‘m looking to read 20 chapters. Hopefully finished my current book (tagged) and start on my next one. Need to earn some final points for my team

@Andrew65 @dabbe #20in4readathon #hhc #scarathlon

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Andrew65 Hope it‘s going well 😁 14mo
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Day 8 #Scarathlon Photo Challenge - Coffin. Strangely enough, I don't own any physical books with a title or cover involving a coffin. This is one of my ebooks, and even though it's specifically about cemeteries, cemeteries are full of coffins, so I figure it counts. #TeamWhoYaGonnaCall

FlynnDewey Is it an interesting read at least? 1y
Fortifiedbybooks @FlynnDewey I haven't read it yet. I bought it a couple of months ago hoping I'd get around to reading it this year, but my focus has been on my physical TBR. 1y
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BookmarkTavern
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Part travel memoir, part history, & part anthropology, this is a fascinating examination of the USA‘s changing relationship with death and burial.

So interesting! It moves around to so many different burial sites around the country, & also examines the nature of who gets respect in death, talking about plowed over Indigenous sites, forgotten slave cemeteries, & talks of putting limits of which veterans are interred in Arlington. 🌕🌕🌕🌕🌑

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Reggie I drove from New Mexico to Pittsburgh this past summer and there were makeshift cemeteries all along the highway the whole way there. I found it fascinating. 1y
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I don‘t know what is going around right now, but I feel like I‘ve been hit by a truck.

So today is going to be a day of bed and books. ❤️

wanderinglynn Hope you feel better soon! 💚 1y
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TheDaysGoBy Oooh, I forgot I have this on my TBR. I should see if I can get it from the library for this month. Perfect pick! 1y
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Eyelit
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This really hits the sweet spot of aesthetically pleasing and functionally efficient. 🤩

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Mehso-so

Fun and humorous. A light fare on a dark subject.

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ImperfectCJ
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This is an interesting look at the history of how humans have dealt with their dead and how our biases around race, culture, and status, as well as financial incentives, have shaped these practices. Most interesting to me is how the design of modern theme parks and subdivisions is influenced by cemetery design. It's lightly peppered with Dad Jokes and an excellent follow-up to This Republic of Suffering by Drew Gilpin Faust.

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Soubhiville
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I‘ve always loved the peace of cemeteries, one of my favorites being Riverside Cemetery in Asheville NC. I got a little thrill when the author said it‘s one of his favorites too.

I guess I assumed that as long as there were humans there were cemeteries. It‘s interesting the way death practices change.

There is a place in CA where you can have your cremains stored inside an urn shaped like a book in a library of such urns. Tempting?

catiewithac I‘m excited to read this!!! 2y
DivineDiana I love the idea of a book shaped urn! Yes, tempting! 2y
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MaggieCarr
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Ahhh vacation reads... rather untraditional just like me to geek out over yet another unique history. I couldn't help but keep sharing tidbits with my husband "...did you know this...", "...oh listen to this..." towards the end I'm sure he was feeling the same way the authors wife, Ann Marie, was rolling her eyes over the author's endless fascination with cemeteries/memorial lands...

MaggieCarr ...The sheer statistics are just mindboggling but learning about the transition of traditions, landmarks, medical changes, and how they affected everything from death rooms becoming living rooms, to the massive draw to lands bringing together more people than theme parks-- all of it absolutely engrossing. I found myself extremely humbled, enlightened, and thoughtful as such decisions will also have to be laid out for my own self. 2y
ImperfectCJ This sounds really interesting! I enjoy visiting cemeteries and have been intrigued (and a little creeped out) by death rituals since I was very young. One of my favorite burial stories is about a girl buried in a keg of rum in a cemetery in Beaufort, North Carolina. 2y
Soubhiville I‘m reading this too 🙂. 2y
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jewright Have you read Stiff by Mary Roach? Your review made me think of it. 2y
MaggieCarr @jewright I have. She released an updated version, mind boggling how quickly science is changing and modifying year after year. 2y
MaggieCarr @ImperfectCJ where can I find the rum burial story? 2y
ImperfectCJ I learned about it in Beaufort (we used to spend occasional weekends there when we lived in NC), but you can find the story a few places online. Here's one: https://islandlifenc.com/the-rum-keg-girl/ 2y
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There are no ghost stories in here that‘s for sure. The physicality of graveyards are what we have here. The parts about how racism and classism affects where people are buried is pretty interesting. I liked the chapter on Chapel of the Chimes, Julia Morgan and cremation. I skimmed parts.

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Why? I think the answer is just that people aren‘t willing to do the the work or pay for the work of having the bodies moved. I‘ve found this fascinating for a long time.

Aimeesue A lot of those sound like areas where bodies were interred before embalming and watertight coffins were a thing. Would there be anything left to move? I honestly don't know. 2y
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Ruthiella Yup. That‘s why I visited-famous people. 2y
Tonton Made my pilgrimage on first visit to Paris. 2y
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This was so fascinating! Not only is it an excellent look at cemeteries in America, but a look back at parts of our history that gets overlooked. Cemeteries can inform us of our past & the treatment of others more than you would think. Melville provides a lot of food for thought regarding the things we as a country/society are still reckoning with today that are often reflected in our cemeteries. I need to get my own copy!

RainyDayReading Recommended for those that like weird and macabre non-fiction as well as Caitlin Doughty‘s work. 2y
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I‘m starting this one. I almost got this for my friend for her birthday last month. I‘m checking it out before giving it to anybody 😁. She likes visiting grave yards. We spent some quality time is graveyards in our late teens and early twenties.

dabbe My husband I I love to walk through graveyards, especially the really old ones. Such history and amazing lives lived. 2y
RowReads1 @dabbe They‘re fascinating. There‘s a bunch across the bay over in Colma. I‘m the most interested in Pere lachaise cemetery in Paris. 2y
Bibliomania Highgate in London too is well worth a visit. 2y
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Had an unexpected snow day today. I thought I‘d take advantage of my sudden day off by getting some reading time in. Made some progress in the tagged book before the dogs decided that I‘d been staring at the book and not them for far too long. #WinterReadathonDailyChallenge #WinterReadathon

kspenmoll Your tree is beautiful! 2y
Andrew65 That‘s beautiful! 🎄🎄🎄
Those dogs could prove useful for day 2 of the challenge.
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RainyDayReading @kspenmoll Thank you! It‘s my most favorite thing in the house right now 😊 2y
RainyDayReading @Andrew65 Thank you! Haha they weren‘t anymore use for that challenge than they were for this one! 🤣 2y
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