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Recollections of My Non-Existence
Recollections of My Non-Existence | Rebecca Solnit
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In 1981, Rebecca Solnit rented a studio apartment in San Francisco that would be her home for the next twenty-five years. There, she began to come to terms with the epidemic of violence against women around her, the street harassment that unsettled her, and the authority figures that routinely disbelieved her. That violence weighed on her as she faced the task of having a voice in a society that preferred women to shut up or go away. Set in the era of punk, of growing gay pride, of counter culture and West Coast activism, during the latter years of second wave feminism, Recollections of My Non-Existence is the foundational story of an emerging artist struggling against patriarchal violence and scorn. Recalling the experience of living with fear, which Solnit contends is the normal state of women, she considers how oppression impacts on creativity and recounts the struggle to find a voice and have it be heard. Place and the growing culture of activism liberated her, as did the magical world of literature and books. And over time, the clamour of voices against violence to women coalesced in the current feminist upheaval, a movement in which Solnit was a widely audible participant. Here is an electric account of the pauses and gains of feminism in the past forty years; and an extraordinary portrait of an artist, by a seminal American writer.
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ravenlee
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Suet624 (Sigh) so true. 7mo
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ravenlee
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This jumped out at me, in the context of the bear/man thought experiment going around.

bookishbitch Sadly I'm not surprised. I read a book that described the chemical changes in the brain that causes ptsd and it's ultimately triggered by your bodies thinking you might die. That kind of assault certainly qualifies. 7mo
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ChaoticMissAdventures
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Absolutely love this cover photo of Solnit as a teen. I have not read enough of her work, but her "Men Explain Things To Me" has had a huge impact on me and so many others, this has been on my TRB since it was released in 2020 and I am sad I am just getting to it, I got to the last page and immediately knew I needed to order a copy so I could read again with a highlighter. She is exactly the intersectional feminist I strive to be, so aware ?

ChaoticMissAdventures The only comment I have on the writings is she spends a good portion of the book talking about street harassment and the dangers of walking at night, which she continues to do, but she never mentions that statistically you are more likely to be harmed by people you know. I always think this is something to reflect on when we talk about male violence - physical or verbal. 2y
SamAnne Oh I have the hard copy of this and have also been trying to get to it. You are motivating me. 2y
ChaoticMissAdventures @SamAnne would love to chat about it! She has a line in here about how feminism chose her, and as someone who was called out for my feminist ways as young as 12 I felt this so much! 2y
SamAnne @ChaoticMissAdventures moving it up the stack. Ah, me too. 2y
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RobinGustafson
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June was an excellent reading month. Favorites included Rebecca Solnit‘s Recollections of My Nonexistence, Leonarda Carranza‘s Abuelita and Me, A Lost Lady by Willa Cather, and Natalie Goldberg‘s Writing Down the Bones: Freeing the Writer Within, but actually all of the titles pictured here were great reads.

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Lindy
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I came to understand visual art as a kind of philosophical inquiry by other means.

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Lindy
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A brilliant, clear-eyed and compassionate look at herself as a young woman becoming herself and a writer within the ever-present and harmful context of patriarchy. I highly recommend the #audiobook read by the author.

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Lindy
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I am fond of sentences less like superhighways and more like winding paths, with occasional scenic detours, or pause to take in the view, since a footpath can traverse steep & twisting terrain that a paved road cannot. I know that sometimes what gets called digression is pulling in a passenger who fell off the boat.

wanderinglynn What is this photo? It looks intriguing. 3y
Lindy @wanderinglynn That‘s my sister Zan walking through the signpost forest at Watson Lake, Yukon. We were on our way to visit another sister, who has a farm near Whitehorse. 3y
wanderinglynn A signpost forest? How neat! 3y
Lindy @wanderinglynn I love it. A great place to stop and stretch your legs. People keep adding more signs all the time. You can Google it for more information. 3y
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It is the reader who brings a book to life. I lived inside books & though it‘s often assumed that we choose books to travel through them to get to the end, there were books I took up residence in.

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Lindy
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All our struggles can be imagined as turf battles, to defend or annex territory, and we can understand the differences between us as being, among other things, about how much space we are allowed or denied.
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I think that a lot of girls and young women have this yearning, that is part desire to have a man and part desire to be him, to merge with this force, to be where power is, to be powerful.

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Lindy
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It could have been me who found myself in a moment in which my fate was not my own, my body was not my own, my life was not my own. And I hovered on that brink & was haunted by it for a few years that reshaped my psyche in ways that will never be over, which was perhaps the point: to remind me that I would never be entirely free. 👇

Lindy (Continued) This violence mostly targets girls & young women, as an initiation rite, a reminder that even after you cease to be a frequent target, you are vulnerable. (edited) 3y
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To get a car. To spend money I didn‘t have on taxis. To cut my hair, dress as a man, or attach myself to a man. To never go anywhere alone, get a gun, learn martial arts. To adapt to this reality, which was treated as natural or as inevitable as the weather. But it wasn‘t weather & it wasn‘t nature & it wasn‘t inevitable & immutable. It was culture. Changing that culture & those conditions seemed to be the only adequate response. It still does.

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Recollections of My Nonexistence is soft spoken and poetic about hard hitting topics regarding PTSD surrounding womanhood, the gender violence towards women, and the social conditioning of self doubt in efforts to silence women. It‘s a powerhouse of a story. It also focuses not only on trauma of womanhood, but joys of queer culture and of finding small spaces to feel heard in a world that ignores women.

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AnneCecilie
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This is the first book I read/ listened to by Solnit, and I‘m not sure this is the best book to start with. And I also needed some time to get used to Solnit voice since she narrates the book herself.

In this Solnit looks back on her time in San Francisco in the 80s when she was trying to find herself.

She also looks at how men dominate the spaces;the pavements, harassment and art. A lot of the time is also spent focusing on rape.

AnneCecilie What I really remember is from early in the book when she is referencing to an American soldier who has served and written a book about it. In his book he writes about PTSD and how it‘s 4 times more frequent in rape victims than in soldiers. And that this means that rape is 4 times more traumatic than war. (edited) 4y
AnneCecilie I‘m glad I have this book out from the library waiting for me 4y
SamAnne I‘ve been trying to get to this one for months. 4y
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Where have you been all my life, Rebecca Solnit?!?
I mean, I know she was doing her thing, writing about artists and western America and whatnot... not things would have crossed my path as a Canadian teen living out in the country ... but had I read this 20ish years ago, I think it would have changed my life 🖤

#selfcare
#booksandbooze

Hazel2019 Now I really want to know - in what way? I haven‘t read this one yet but most certainly will based on your review. 4y
Bookish.SAM Hi @Hazel2019! I wanted to be a writer when I was younger, gave up on it. But reading her start was inspiring. Also, and maybe more critical, was how I struggled with how guys reacted to me when I was younger and never felt like I was the owner of my own body... she talks a lot about that... as does any even slightly feminist work, which I certainly could have used back then! I hope you enjoy it!! 🙂 (edited) 4y
Hazel2019 Sounds great 😊 4y
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I love Solnit‘s writing, particularly on feminism, and I most enjoyed the parts of this book with that focus. This is in essay form (of course) and looks primarily at the 25 years she spent in a studio apartment in San Francisco starting when she was about 19. It didn‘t hold my attention as well as her non-memoir essays, but I did enjoy it.

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Current audiobook.

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Chelsea.Poole
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Essays from the author of Men Explain Things to Me (which I still need to read!) Solnit writes widely on feminism (which is what I know her for), social justice, environmental protection, and politics. This collection connects her past experiences with the current moment. Reflection about how far we have come as a society provides hope that our activism will bring about change for how far we still need to go. #essays #nonfiction #audiobook

Leftcoastzen I read it and loved it! 4y
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Kathrin
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Solnit's writing style is mostly what keeps me reading her books. Here she is talking about her start as an author, but also connects it to the present.

Now I want to read "Savage Dreams", her second published book....

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SamAnne This is near the top of my TBR pile. I will not let August go by without reading it! 4y
Kathrin @SamAnne If you are into audiobooks, I can definitely recommend it... the author narrates it hersef. 4y
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Glorious!Solnit used everything in the toolbox to become the great essayist she is.Her often solitary life in San Francisco , her education, her jobs .Her reflections on women being thought of as “less than “ or being victims of a culture that often vilified women or reduces them to objects has her analyzing gains made & how far we need to go.She casts a wide net to include many people who have been marginalized.
It‘s not you,it‘s the patriarchy.

Emilymdxn I loved this book too! 5y
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OMG. I love you. A booknerd soulmate. 📖🤓❤️

Leftcoastzen I‘m reading this too.She lived in SF before I did ,yet some comparisons spot on. 5y
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Got out a bit today and went across the bay to walk. I was the only person wearing a mask. 😞 I hope I finish Land of Shadows before it‘s due back to the library. I‘m settling in for the night and reading Rebecca Solnit‘s memoir.

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Rebecca.Eckland
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Beautiful. I love this memoir which has a decidedly softer tone (although not too soft) from the very articulate Solnit. Perfect for women who are pursuing lives as creatives.

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BekaReid
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I love Rebecca Solnit's writing and was not disappointed with her newest book. (And this cover! 🖤) Solnit's essays always provide me with so much to think about and return to as indicated by the pages I've tabbed.

SamAnne In my queue for April and can‘t wait. 5y
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New in!

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Leftcoastzen
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In Phoenix, the library is closed , I was out already , my local indie was open. I can count this as a book emergency even though I have tons to read at home,right?

Cinfhen Absolutely 5y
Leftcoastzen @Cinfhen Thanks ! I count on all you Littens to be book enablers !😂 5y
Cinfhen Collection is meant to be really good!!!! Good choice 👍🏽 5y
Branwen Totally a book emergency! 👍 You made the right call! 💕📚 5y
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Well-ReadNeck
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Solnit‘s writing is gorgeous and thought provoking. Love her essays. #arc #edelweiss

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NerdyRev
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A excellent book on being a beginning writer, what it is like to be a young woman in the world, and how women shape themselves to fit men standards so they stop existing (not a good thing, obviously). It is part autobiography and essay. There is lots of writing about the fear of rape and assault for those who may have triggers.

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So many good books today! I had to limit myself to three picks. Which to start with though? I think it might be Solnit. #womenauthors

Caterina Oooo I'm dying to get my hands on the Solnit! 😍😍😍 5y
Megabooks I think I‘m going to get the Solnit on audio. I preordered MDV. Great choices! 5y
NerdyRev @Caterina It is very good so far. 5y
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