Finding that most of these points do not pertain to me... I guess I had it better than I thought. I was 11 when my mom started drinking. As I write this, my mom and I aren't speaking due to her equaling my obesity to her alcoholism. #notthesame I am not a different person when I eat, AND I have been losing weight and changing for the better. Sad.. said if I want sober holidays that I can only eat veggies and turkey for dinner not cool your the mom