I enjoyed parts of this book & found others extremely irritating. Linguistically, there were both over- & under-explanations. On the whole, the entire book needed a much firmer hand in the editing department- it skips around between subjects & timelines & is a little too focused on navel-gazing for my taste, even for a memoir. I did, however, enjoy the parts that dealt more directly with developing an identity & relationships in a second language.