I honestly don‘t know? Certainly well written, and a great many intelligent things could be said about the themes of love and loss, secrets and ideals, the things we agree to, both with others and with ourselves. But honestly, it just made me so sad. Every section seemed more laden with defeat and despair than the one before. Something to be said for inspiring really strong feelings? I can‘t say I enjoyed reading it, but it still has value? Ugh.