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Secrets of My Life
Secrets of My Life | Caitlyn Jenner
In this remarkable memoir-written during her pivotal first years of becoming her authentic self-Caitlyn Jenner reflects on her past as she looks to her future.-Imagine denying your core and soul. Then add to it the most impossible expectations that people have for you because you are the personification of The American Male Athlete.-Bruce Jenner, the celebrated Olympic icon and later the patriarch of one of the most famous families in the world, seemed to be living a dream life of success, fame, and prosperity. But the all-American image and million-dollar smile belied a lifelong struggle with gender dysphoria, and it wasn't until the sensational Diane Sawyer interview that the public mask of Bruce Jenner was finally retired, and through the memorable Vanity Fair piece by Buzz Bissinger, that Caitlyn Jenner was introduced to the world and set free to exist on her own terms. Since then, Caitlyn has undertaken an arduous emotional and physical odyssey to achieve the completeness she always felt was missing.In THE SECRETS OF MY LIFE, Caitlyn reflects on the inner conflict she experienced growing up in an era of rigidly defined gender identities, and the cruel irony of being hailed by an entire nation as the ultimate symbol of manhood. She recounts her Olympic triumph, her rise to fame, and relates how her sense of frustration and shame grew with the passing years and the lengths to which she had to go to conceal her true self. Caitlyn in turn uncovers the toll that these personal struggles had on her three marriages and, subsequently, the relationships with her children. She also talks candidly about her life in the public eye as a member of the Kardashian clan, what led to her decision to become Caitlyn, and how she, her family, the transgender community, and the rest of the world has since embraced her new life.Filled with incredibly personal and moving stories of struggle and victory, of anxiety and fear, and, finally, of surrender and acceptance, THE SECRETS OF MY LIFE reveals the real Caitlyn Jenner by tracing her long and eventful journey to becoming herself.
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Cinfhen
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“Some people mention the word BRAVERY in my transition from Bruce to Caitlyn in the spring of 2015 at the age of sixty-five. It is flattering. I certainly don‘t mind hearing it, and I appreciate the sentiment. But when compared to what my father and so many others went through, there is no bravery in becoming your authentic self. For me it was a form of cowardice to wait so long.” I enjoyed reading Caitlyn‘s journey. It was open & honest👇🏽

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and contained just enough salacious gossip to make it a page turner. I never watched KUWTK, but my daughter did and I remember thinking how sad Bruce looked. And I remember his evolving looks. I appreciated all that Caitlyn shared and explained. Her story was very genuine and this book felt sincere in her desire to share her experience living in a body not meant for you. #POP22 #GenderIdentity
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BarbaraBB Great suggestion for these prompts. I hear about the Kardashians all the time thanks to R but have never watched the series. I know about Caitlyn though! 3y
Megabooks Interesting choice. Not a big Caitlyn fan, so I‘ll probably read something else. Great review though! 3y
Cinfhen I really didn‘t have an impression on Caitlyn before this book @Megabooks but I found her story really compelling!! Im super happy I chose it 😁 3y
Cinfhen I‘ve seen a few older episodes of the Kardashians as N was a fan @BarbaraBB and I did enjoy some of the gossip Caitlyn dished but the book did go deeper & I was all ears 🎧💙💗 (edited) 3y
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Cinfhen
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So it‘s a #POP22 prompt that has pushed me to pick this up #AboutGenderIdentity but I‘ll admit, im curious about her journey. #Scribd 🎧

Cortg Let me know what you think. Bruce Jenner graduated from the high school I graduated from. The football field was named Jenner Stadium. When the school reached out for a donation for a renovation in 2000/2001, Jenner refused. Needless to say, it‘s no longer named Jenner stadium. 🙄 3y
Cortg Just a fun fact for ya 🤪 3y
Cinfhen Hmmmm, that‘s interesting @Cortg since Caitlyn seems to indicate that she‘s very charitable although she does indicate that her charity is not in promoting Bruce Jenner but in aiding the Trans community. She does mention her younger years as well as her HS years quite a lot. I‘m enjoying this story more than I expected. (edited) 3y
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KimberlyJuracich
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Okay so I liked it. I like anyone that is speaking their truth. But I am also a kardashian fan. And I kind of believe that she kind of side swiped them with this when if she would have told them she would have had a support system and that makes me sad for her. I hate when someone has to hide who they are. And I‘m happy she is happy is happy.

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ClairesReads
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Well, this was a gossipy listen which was an entertaining companion to a remote teaching lifestyle. It's undemanding, and reads like a trashy magazine. It is what I hoped it would be.

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ClairesReads
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I find myself here, searching for audio drama, which I did not find in the polygamy memoir

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bibliobliss
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"I did not transition to become a liberal Democrat."

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bibliobliss
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• Please believe me when I say I never thought I'd be a fan of Caitlyn Jenner's but by God, after reading her book, I have to say I really am. I think she's a smart cookie •

#trans #transreads #gender #identity #celebrity

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bibliobliss
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“For a community pushing for acceptance, we can sadly be brutally judgmental of each other [...] We want to stamp out hate, and yet there are members of the trans community who take great pleasure and satisfaction in expressing their hate for me when all I have tried to do is ceaselessly advocate for my sisters and brothers. We publicly argue against stereotypes, and yet I am repeatedly condemned for not being a stereotypical trans woman.”

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• My thoughts exactly •

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• How could anyone take issue with Eddie Redmayne‘s powerful performance in The Danish Girl? The trans community getting up in arms about the film and his identity as a cisgender man irritates me. Aren‘t we glad that this beautiful story was brought to public awareness?! Why must people be so ultra-sensitive about these things? Caitlyn had every right to her feelings about that film! It was a story that needed to be told...period •

kgriffith As a non-trans person, I don‘t get to have an opinion about how trans people feel about how they are portrayed, period. I choose to support and elevate trans voices when they say there are reasons a work is problematic, even if the most privileged among them, and there is no denying Caitlyn‘s privilege, doesn‘t agree. 6y
bibliobliss From Caitlyn‘s comments, it seems the trans community condemned the film and Redmayne‘s performance largely because he‘s a white cisgender male. While there may be issues with the film, which I have seen 3 times (and I‘ve also read the book), in my opinion there is nothing wrong with a cisgender actor portraying a trans character. Also, regardless of Caitlyn‘s privilege, she still has a right to her own thoughts and feelings about the film. 6y
kgriffith @Readage Sure she has a right. I think it‘s unfortunate that she doesn‘t choose to use her platform to interrogate the problems rather than defend the status quo, but that‘s her prerogative. 6y
bibliobliss @kgriffith I‘m curious, have you read her book? She addresses serious issues within the community as well. 6y
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“Biology loves variation. Biology loves differences. Society hates it.”
— Milton Diamond

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• I am still enjoying this book so much. Here Caitlyn is talking about how Bruce will always be a part of her and she‘s not interested in blotting out his existence. She writes “You can‘t simply blot out your past, your beliefs, your interests. The life that you lived as a father and dad and husband, the accomplishments and failures, do not get sent to the trash with a click of the mouse.” •

#currentlyreading #trans #memoir #goodbooks #diversity

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bibliobliss
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“I never felt feminine, but I did identify as female. What is femininity anyway? It is entirely what anybody wants it to be. Because I continue to love car racing and motocross and motorcycling, does that somehow make me less feminine? It is only our tired and backward definitions of male and female characteristics that may make it seem so.”

I think I love this book so much because it relates to discussions in my Gender Communication class 🤓

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“Some people mention the word BRAVERY in my transition from Bruce to Caitlyn in the spring of 2015 at the age of sixty-five. It is flattering. I certainly don‘t mind hearing it, and I appreciate the sentiment. But when compared to what my father and so many others went through, there is no bravery in becoming your authentic self. For me it was a form of cowardice to wait so long.”

Talking about her father‘s time in World War 2

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“Biology loves variation. Biology loves differences. Society hates it.”
—MILTON DIAMOND

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“I play Bruce.”

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“Outwardly my life is good: terrific children, a strong marriage (at least before Keeping Up with the Kardashians takes off), steady work, a public that likes me. I continue to have a positive image.

It is not enough. It will never be enough. At this point in my life in the 1990s, in my forties, I honestly don‘t think I will ever get that peace in my soul. Concerns over family and the strictures of society are just too great.”

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“I do not stay out very long, but even the freedom of walking around in the farthest corner of a mall parking lot is still momentarily liberating. It IS incredibly EXCITING—the pulse quickens, the heart rate rises, a combination of giddiness and confidence and daring the world and happiness, sublime happiness.”

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bibliobliss
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Caitlyn was always worried overtime about getting caught being her authentic self 😞

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“Fortunately the episode was forgotten. But I learned a valuable lesson: whenever the woman inside you wants to check herself out in the mirror in your kid‘s bedroom, make sure the computer is turned off.”

She is writing about a time when she was almost discovered by her 2 daughters

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Bookladylinda I want to read this. 7y
bibliobliss @Bookladylinda It‘s good! 👏🏼 7y
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FantasyChick
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Ladies and gentlemen I present to you: the cure for insomnia! Ok maybe a bit harsh, but in my case? #truth I had never read a book with this content. I had such high hopes because a story about an Olympian married to Kris K who ended up transitioning into a woman? Who wouldn't want to read that? The problem here is Caitlyn...I'm sorry sweetheart but you're just boring. And you owe me 20 bucks for the book.
#DNF #bail #notforme

Kaye Funny. Love your review. I have nothing against people who have the gender change surgeries. I‘ve never gotten into the K family. They seem like airheads to me. This book is one of those that if it was the last book left on earth, I‘d write my own to have something else to read. 7y
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I.readalot
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Two memoirs I recently read and enjoyed.
I felt Caitlyn Jenner' s memoir was honest and heartfelt. I felt empathy for what she went through.
Haruki Murakami, a great writer, and an introvert like me. He writes about his 20+ year long passion for running.
#memoirs

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• how do we grow as humans? by educating ourselves and opening up our minds to other experiences. I can‘t say “I understand you” until I‘ve honestly tried to listen... I‘m indulging a genuine interest in transgender identities and issues—not out of pure curiosity but also out of concern for my fellow human beings and their unique struggles. we all deserve our version of happiness. it shouldn‘t matter to society what that looks like •

Reggie Nice. 7y
bibliobliss @Reggie thanks 🙂 7y
NatalieR Very well said. 7y
bibliobliss @NatalieR I try Lol thanks 7y
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NovelGirl82
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I wish that I hadn't waited so long to read this. It was wonderful. The way that she was so open and honest about fighting her gender dysphoria, and the effect that it had on her entire life, was heartbreaking and beautiful.

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NovelGirl82
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When I finally get to take a break from packing, I'll be able to get back to my current read! It's so good, so far. I just love how open she's being! #WEEKENDGIVEAWAY Thanks @Liberty ❤️❤️

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NovelGirl82
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After this very long Monday, that was Monday all day long, it's time for a bath & a new book! #bookandbath

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Brenda
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I just didn't get much from this book. There was a lot of pointless name dropping,or negative blurbs about ppl not relevant to her journey. I was also bothered by a real lack of empathy for her family . I applaud her courage,but I can't say I really like her as a person.

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MaryAnn1
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I'm not a Kardashian follower AT ALL, only curious about Caitlyn's journey. I expected to look at the photos and skim through the pages. I read it cover to cover. It was delightfully unexpected. She is honest, vulnerable and thoughtful. Above all I found her to be modest and grateful. So glad I picked this up.

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Cinfhen
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Day 4 #JuneTunz I'm not a fan of the Kardashian Klan but when it comes to #BeYourself I have to give all the love & support to Caitlyn Jenner. I haven't read the book but I'm feeling a library request...this awesome song is compliments of one of my favorite school librarians @Lmstraubie 🤓Love this song 🎵🤘🏼

Lmstraubie @Cinfhen Me too. So sad about Chris Cornell. 8y
Cinfhen Yes, what a gorgeous voice 💔R.I.P. Chris Cornell @Lmstraubie 8y
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dariazeoli
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Buzz Bissinger did a great job collaborating with Caitlyn Jenner on her memoir. It very much reads in her voice.

While very readable, I feel that I've kept up with so much of Jenner's story since her transition that there weren't many secrets revealed here. I also believe, now that I've it, that Kris Jenner's fury over the book is purely manufactured for sales... and KUWTK ratings.

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dariazeoli
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Over half done with each of these. It's a rainy day, so finishing isn't out of the question.

#SaturdayPlans #WeekendReads

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PacingTheCage
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Oh why the hell not!

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elleinadarat
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I really enjoyed this. Candid, honest, and better than I expected. Love or hate Caitlyn Jenner, she has a platform and means. And she seems to be honestly trying to figure out how to separate her new image from the Kardashian fame and do Good.

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elleinadarat
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This section hit home. And is so true. I was not my best self while going through my divorce. And I like myself now, a LOT, but my dealings with my ex-husband bring out a passive-aggressive, angry part of me I don't like.

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MimiLovesToRead
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My current audiobook. The Secrets of My Life by Caitlyn Jenner.

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