My first inclination was that this was going an emotional tale about an old man who has lost his wife, and must find a way to get on with his lonely life. Ove is not a character that we should love; he is grumpy, miserable and skeptical of everything but he is also non-intentionally funny. I loved the flashbacks to Ove's youth and life with his wife, Sonja. It is in his poignant reflections of her that makes my heart hurt the most.