I'm struggling to resist the urge to call this pleasantly packaged fatalism, because it's definitely a reductive way of looking at the story as a whole. I usually enjoy sci-fi stories that are more human-focused, that address the interpersonal, exploring how humans/beings deal with life and each other, but this narrative walks the less trod path of addressing 1/?
I have to wonder if the author has experience with the loss of a loved one through illness or accident, a circumstance that couldn't be fought, had to be accepted, because it's 3d
I think in these troubled times, it's instinctual to reject the idea of accepting an impending dark fate, but that doesn't mean the message of cherishing a life in the face of unconquerable death doesn't have value.
Also introduced is the idea of wanting to give your life for someone and needing to accept when someone else makes a decision about their own fate, and the tension between the two sides. (edited) 3d