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Big Gay Wedding
Big Gay Wedding: A Novel | Byron Lane
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Named one of Shondaland's Best Books of May Named one of Lambda Literary's Most Anticipated LGBTQIA+ Books Named one of Cosmopolitan's Best Books of 2023 (So Far) Named one of a Zibby Owen's Most Anticipated Spring and Summer Books Named one of Book Riot's Most Anticipated Beach Reads of 2023 An unashamedly proud, loud, and hilarious novel about a small town thats forever changed by a big gay wedding, perfect for fans of Red, White & Royal Blue and The Guncle Two grooms. One mother of a problem. Barnett Durang has a secret. No, not THAT secret. His widowed mother has long known hes gay. The secret is Barnett is getting married. At his mothers farm. In their small Louisiana town. She just doesnt know it yet. Itll be an intimate affair. Just two hundred or so of the most fabulous folks Barnett is shipping in from the heathen coasts, as Mom likes to call them, turning her quiet rescue farm for misfit animals into a most unlikely wedding venue. But there are forces, both within this modern new family and in the town itself, that really dont want to see this handsome couple march down the aisle. Itll be the biggest, gayest event in the towns history if they can pull it off, and after a glitter-filled week, nothing will ever be the same. Big Gay Wedding is an uplifting book about the power of family and the unconditional love of a mother for her son.
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jesseastin
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I enjoyed this book overall, but almost had to put it down because of the mother‘s homophobia and rigidness. I had no sympathy for her whatsoever. There are a lot of repetitive phrases, like Looney Tunes for LA and “Oh Barnett” and “posthaste” as literary devices, but I just found them annoying. Despite these criticisms, the book is funny and touching in parts and lets you believe that flawed characters can grow. I‘m glad I read this.

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Reggie
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I really liked this story of a woman running a farm whose life is challenged when her son comes home to say he is engaged to his boyfriend and all the beliefs she must face. There was lots to love, laugh, and cry at in here. What I didn‘t get was the last 20 pgs that had nothing to do with a big gay wedding and only existed to gut me so hard I was audibly sobbing. There is a thread of-death comes for us all-in here that I guess supports the 👇🏼

Reggie live your authentic life in a kind and loving way, he could have just toned it down a bit. Oof, those last 20 pages. 1y
rwmg Since you started off with a woman running a farm, I read “20 pgs“ as 20 pigs and was quite confused for a moment. 1y
Reggie @rwmg lol. She runs a farm for misfit animals and they are all named after 80s and 90s sitcom characters. Roz, Niles, Elaine, and others. 1y
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Cinfhen
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I really wanted to love this one but it was #MoreMehThanYeah ?parts were silly, sweet and sappy but overall cliché & predictable. #BorrowNotBuy

TrishB Doesn‘t sound like my thing! 1y
Cinfhen It just felt forced and more caricatured than I prefer @TrishB 1y
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Prairiegirl_reading
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I really liked this with one small exception. There is some animal death that seemed long and drawn out and ended up making the end of the book feel emotionally manipulative to me. I wish the end had been different but I still really enjoyed the book overall. 4⭐️

Reggie Omg, I was wondering what the hell those last 20 pages had to do with a big gay wedding other than to absolutely gut me.I was sobbing out loud. What the heck, man? There was a lot of death comes for us all here. And I loved PawPaw. 1y
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Zbayardo
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🌈📚 What a unashamedly proud, loud, & hilarious read! Pawpaw is my favorite & mom…well…mom turns out to be beautifully flawed.

Read this for a feel-good read that challenges stereotypes & embraces the power of love! If you‘re the type to poopoo love, weddings, celebrations, and families of all types then UGH just go somewhere else. The rest of us will have fun & celebrate in LOVE & LIGHT while eating wedding cookies! 🌈💍❤️

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marleed
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My immediate thoughts when I started this was too much agism and Louisiana bashing. But quickly I felt how heartwarming this journey would be. Sometimes the best way to eradicate homophobia from your well-intentioned mother is to love her through it and laugh along the way. It also helps if you have wacky side characters and great pets names. This was a bit long-winded at times but forgiving that, a fun read.

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Sara_Planz
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Barnett grew up on a farm in Louisiana, and in high school he realized he was gay. When his parents found out, they were not supportive of his coming out. His father died a short time later, leaving his mother Chrissy in mourning for her husband and in denial about her son. Barnett moves away and finds love with a man named Ezra. And now they are engaged! Barnett travels back to the farm to tell his mom the news and help her to understand.

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Crinoline_Laphroaig
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Right combination of hilariously funny but also had sad moments. I appreciated that it showed that you are never to old to grow as a person. It made my heart happy.

*I received an advance review copy from NetGalley and I'm leaving this review voluntarily.

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