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The Change Room
The Change Room | Karen Connelly
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Gleefulreader
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Sometimes you start a book in 2018 and you finish it in 2022. An unusual story about a married woman who starts an affair with a woman she meets at the local pool. Rather charged and more erotic than the cover would suggest.

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GirlWellRead
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To be honest, this is not a genre I typically read, but after reading a glowing endorsement by Ami McKay (The Birth House, The Virgin Cure, and The Witches of New York), I decided to give it a chance. Connelly's writing is really good—she captures the psyche of a middle-aged mother/wife/woman so well against a really cool setting (Toronto).

Erotic. Truthful. Clever. Connelly begs the question: does anyone really have it all?

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ReadingEnvy
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Hardly any books feature bisexual protagonists and this one has two. One is a woman married to a man, who hasn't been in a relationship with a woman for some time. The other is a sex worker training to be a sex therapist. The two women meet at a pool in Toronto. Very sex positive, interesting ending that seems to let the reader decide what happens, which I like. There is a lot of sex in this book, in case that isn't obvious. #alaskacanada2018

MissAimz_55 Thank you for this! As a bisexual woman who decided I was actually starting to lean more into women and who was married to a man and got divorced and is now with a woman, this type of book means a lot to me. I've gotten a lot of shit lately from certain people about my beliefs and lifestyle. I need a sex positive book right now 7y
CaseyTheCanadianLesbrarian Glad to hear you liked it Jenny! 7y
ReadingEnvy @MissAimz_55 I'd say this is the perfect book for you! 7y
ReadingEnvy @CaseyTheCanadianLesbrarian yes thanks for the recommendation! I meant to credit you but ran out of characters. 7y
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Bibliogeekery
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Quickly skim re-reading this book for my queer book club meeting this morning. I wish I didn't forget book details so quickly! #queerbooks

JoScho I find that I read so many that they tend to get jumbled up in my mind 🤷🏼‍♀️ 7y
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Bibliogeekery
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I read this book for my queer book club. It deals with infidelity, sex and sex-work positivity, questions around polyamory and middle-age/middle-class urban life with lots of detailed, erotic sex scenes. It was a fun book to read on a beach with a mojito in hand! #queerbooks

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Lindy
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If you're looking for sex-positive fiction with descriptive bedroom scenes, this is it, featuring an Amazon Shahrazad in modern Toronto who believes in "sex as play for adults; delightful, zany, surprising. Sex as pure unadulterated joy." Marriage, parenthood & adultery, throwing in-laws & job satisfaction into the mix. #canlit #bisexual #LGBTQ

ReadingEnvy Sounds good! 7y
Lindy @ReadingEnvy There are plenty of passages that could earn an X-rating for the Reading Envy podcast. 😉 7y
ReadingEnvy @Lindy heh! I've said a few swear words but I don't think I've ever read a sex scene on the show. 7y
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Lindy
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"a bowl of pomegranate seeds that Shar had firked out of their honeycombed husk with the dexterity of a monkey."

Firk: to move quickly; hasten; jerk; twitch; fidget; fuss; conquer. (Merriam Webster online)

Lcsmcat That is a great Scrabble word! 7y
Lindy @Lcsmcat Indeed! It can also be spelled ferk. 7y
Lcsmcat @Lindy I'll have to remember this one. 7y
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Lindy
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This woman expects me to drop everything, just like that, & rush out to see her? She threw the phone back into her bag & returned to the sink. She wasn't going to leave those last pots; she was going to CLEAN them. Fucking things. Those burnt-on potatoes; that lamb grease. Cleaning was domination. A brief unsatisfying domination. They should make deposed dictators do it: life sentences of washing floors, toilets, the constant dirt of human life.

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Lindy
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Light fell in a band here, refracted in rippling white and rainbow lines over the blue-green bottom, through the water itself. The sun illuminated the air bubbles, minuscule, shining globes; it was like swimming through glitter.

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Lindy
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These epigraphs portend good things ahead in Connelly's latest novel. @shawnmooney - Barbara Pym made me think of you.

saresmoore Pretty photo, too! 7y
Lindy @saresmoore Aww, thanks. I was inspired by the mention of dried lavender in the chapter that I just finished. 7y
Centique That's beautiful! 7y
batsy Yes, what an excellent pair of epigraphs. 7y
Lindy @Centique @batsy They're great, and the author's prose is lovely also. 😊 7y
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CaseyTheCanadianLesbrarian
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This truly is a "juicy peach of a novel," a beautifully written novel of literary fiction with graphic, lovingly depicted sex (between women & between men and women) with a lot of attention to the emotional aspects and just pleasure for pleasure's sake. It's also a slice of middle class Toronto mid-life focused on relationships and character. Titillating and thought-provoking. Reminded me a lot of Zoey Leigh Peterson's novel Next Year For Sure.

Reviewsbylola 🛀 😍 7y
ReadingEnvy I'm reading it now! 7y
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CaseyTheCanadianLesbrarian
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Reading this novel's first sex scene, thinking about what we consider "literary" & "realist" & why that doesn't include in-depth descriptions of sex. Why and how did it become convention to fade to black or only mention briefly sex in fiction where so many other aspects of life are described in minute detail? Why is fiction either erotica, with explicit descriptions of sex and little else, or not, with no details of sex as if it's not important?

Lindy I think it's difficult to write well about sex. I usually skip the sex passages when I come to them, unless I really like the writing style. 7y
CaseyTheCanadianLesbrarian @Lindy I'm wondering why it's more difficult to write well about sex than other aspects of life? And do you find that sex scenes are important for learning about characters or you don't miss anything if you skip those scenes? 7y
Lindy @CaseyTheCanadianLesbrarian The well-written sex scenes do develop the characters; the other kinds don't. As to reasons why sex is hard to write about, I will search some links for you. It's a topic that interests me, since I'm so fussy about what I like in this regard. 7y
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Lindy @CaseyTheCanadianLesbrarian Pritchett mentions authors who write well about sex and I concur: Sharon Olds, Jane Smiley https://www.publishersweekly.com/pw/by-topic/columns-and-blogs/soapbox/article/7... 7y
Lindy @CaseyTheCanadianLesbrarian I've found lots of advice for writers, including the admonition to avoid metaphors involving food, flowers, crashing surf and mossy grottoes (for example). 7y
CaseyTheCanadianLesbrarian @Lindy These are great, Lindy! Thanks for sending them. Gonna peruse them later! 7y
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dixi_e
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What the...?!?

My novel just ended and it was completely unexpected!

This book was more light-hearted and erotic than I anticipated. I loved the frank exploration of sexuality and the questioning of sexual norms and relationships. A swift, pleasurable read.

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dixi_e
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Connelly's poetry is some of my favourite so I'm eager to experience her in the long-form of a novel. #currentlyreading

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CaseyTheCanadianLesbrarian
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20 mins left of the day and I am sneaking into today's #Riotgrams post. It's a #Freebie, so I get to talk about whatever I want. Behold, all of the free review queer books I have accumulated over the past year or so from publishers that I still need to read and review. And I've been making an effort to cull the list the past six months. 12 books is not so bad, right? Or is this excessive? I dunno I have no perspective anymore. #QueerBooks

CaseyTheCanadianLesbrarian Oops, I just realized I missed four books. 16 is the total number. 7y
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CaseyTheCanadianLesbrarian
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What a great week for #BookMail! Another day, another queer Canadian book. #QueerBooks

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