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Stop People Pleasing: How to Start Saying No, Set Healthy Boundaries, and Express Yourself
Stop People Pleasing: How to Start Saying No, Set Healthy Boundaries, and Express Yourself | Chase Hill
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Do you say yes to people so often, you've forgotten how it feels to say no?You're not alone.Many people spend years putting aside their own wants and needs in order to please the people in their life and avoid conflict. Although there will always be situations where diplomacy is important, you cannot define your life through other people.There's a fine line between being considerate of others, and compromising your individuality, and you can slip into living as a people-pleaser without even realizing it.Maybe you've been going through the routines of life feeling that you must keep quiet, and take responsibility for the feelings of others.Or, maybe you think it's more important to avoid "rocking the boat" than it is to be your most authentic self.While these habits might seem to dominate everything you do, there are actionable steps you can take to create a new world--one where you are open and confident in what you say and do.Just like the relationships you have with others, everyone's experiences with people-pleasing are unique. However, this individuality often stems from common roots that are keeping you trapped in the box of others' expectations.By helping you identify the steps that will assist you the most, Chase Hill shows it is possible to start changing, right here and right now.In Stop People Pleasing, you will discover: How the fear of disappointing and upsetting others may be changing who you are as a person that's going undetectedThe 10 signs that indicate people-pleasing characteristics, besides the inability to say noWhy understanding the roots of this habit will empower you to recognize the situations where you're most likely to ignore your own needs, and act in a more positive mannerA step-by-step 14-day action plan to help you achieve instant and notable improvementsThe 4 defense mechanisms specific to people pleasing, how to identify them, and how to respond to themMultiple exercises and approaches to help you rediscover who you are at heart, breaking free from feeling the need to seek validation from othersCoping mechanisms designed to help you overcome discomfort or frustration as you redefine the boundaries in your lifeAnd much more.If you believe it's impossible to finally stand up to your in-laws or be honest with your friends, think again.You deserve to make the choices that YOU want to make, and speak your mind without fear or anxiety.There's no quick fix for people-pleasing. Like most important things, changing your patterns will take time.With the right tools and techniques by your side, you will be able to hit the ground running and be one step closer to living your life the way you want to live it.If you're ready to finally stand up for yourself and transform your life, then scroll up and click the "Add to Cart" button right now.
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A simple read for anyone interested in learning if they are indeed a people pleaser or not. If you are and want to overcome the most negative aspects then Hill provides tips, tricks, techniques, and scenarios to help you adjust your life. He also explores the dangers of allowing people pleasing to control your life.

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Saying no

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How to Stay Calm When You're Feeling #Anxious

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1. Pay attention to the situation.
2. Decide if your anxieties are warranted.
3. All yourself why you care about the other person's reaction.
4. Know where your anxiety comes from.

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6 things to consider when planning boundaries you want to see in a partnership.
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1. Do you constantly apologize?
2. Do you feel responsible for the emotions of others?
3. Do you agree, regardless of your opinions?
4. Does it upset you when someone's angry towards you?
5. Do you feel pressured to do what you don't want to?
6. Do you see yourself mirroring others?
7. Do you go out of your way to avoid arguments?
8. Are kind words & praise essential for your happiness?
9. Do you hide hurt feelings?
10. Struggle to find free time?

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Started reading this #Nonfiction book.