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The Art of Life Admin
The Art of Life Admin: How to Do Less, Do It Better, Live More | Elizabeth Emens
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This book will give you many hours of your life back. 'Timely and necessary . . . a must-read' Cal Newport, author of Digital Minimalism Every day, an unseen form of labour creeps into our lives, stealing precious moments of free time, placing a strain on our schedules and relationships, and earning neither appreciation nor compensation in return. Scheduling doctor's appointments. Planning a party. Buying a present. Filling out paperwork. This labour is 'life admin' - the kind of secretarial and managerial work necessary to run a life and a household. Elizabeth Emens was a working mother with two young children, swamped like so many of us, when she realised that life admin was consuming her. Desperate to survive and to help others along the way, she gathered favourite tips and tricks, admin confessions, and the secrets of admin-happy households. Drawing on her research and writing in a wholly original manner, Emens shows how this form of labour is created and how it affects our lives; how we might reduce, redistribute and even prevent it; what 'admin personalities' we might have; and how to deal with admin in relationships. The Art of Life Admin is the book that will teach us all how to do less of it, and to do it better. *** 'Reading The Art of Life Admin is like sitting down with a friend who knows exactly how it feels to be drowning in your To Do list, and throws you a very welcome lifeline to help you to make your way out' Brigid Schulte, author of the New York Times bestseller Overwhelmed 'Every so often you come across a book that really does profoundly change how you see the world. This is just such a book - it will, by force of its own genius, reprogram your life and give you new tools for seeing things as they actually are' Tim Wu, author of The Attention Merchants 'Emens maps the political, psychological and practical landscape of "admin hell" with humour and hopefulness. This intelligent, witty book will shed new light on everyone's to-do list' Dr Clare Carlisle Tresch, King's College London *** From Ideas to Try: 1) Find ways to make things end. For instance, try writing No Need to Reply (NNR) on texts and emails. Save others time; they might even return the favour. 2) Start bypassing the to-do list when you face real-time admin requests. Email someone the information she wants while she's still standing there - so it never goes on your to-do list. 3) Spend your Admin Savings Time well. If you save yourself an hour, spend that hour doing something you really want - or need - for yourself.
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2/3 fascinating; 2/3 utterly bizarre. Yes, that does add up!

This is only part a self-help book. It‘s more a look at the role household admin plays in our lives, different attitudes to it, its impact on relationships, ‘crisis admin‘ following death, illness or divorce... A big part of her plea is for life admin to be acknowledged - if you‘re a reluctant cook (🙋🏻‍♀️) it might not be the 30 mins cooking, but the planning, decision-

rockpools making, and organising of full cupboards & food-that-goes-together that stresses you out (🙋🏻‍♀️ again). Her look at the differential impacts of admin were also eye-opening - whether looking at gender, poverty or race.

I‘m not sure there are any amazing quick productivity-wins in here, but I found it a surprisingly interesting look at a topic I never knew existed!

#SomethingByAnLGBAuthor #NonFiction2021 @Riveted_Reader_Melissa
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AlaMich What you say about cooking is me, 100%!! I get overwhelmed by all the moving parts involved in meal preparation and I just give up. It‘s gotten worse as I‘ve gotten older too. 4y
TrishB That actually sounds interesting. As my day job is admin, house admin does my head in! And every second spent in the kitchen in my opinion is a wasted second 😁 4y
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Riveted_Reader_Melissa I have to agree, having become the main house admin in my house...I dread the question What‘s for lunch, What‘s for dinner, ugh, not chicken again..ok we‘ll order out, where from , guess what...they ordered chicken 🙄🤪 I hate being the food czar of the house....I‘m not too keen on the grocery shopping either, but I seem to be better at that job (and yes, they are all unpaid jobs...unappreciated jobs...and I could be reading instead, honestly 😉) 4y
squirrelbrain This sounds fascinating! 4y
rockpools @AlaMich @TrishB @Riveted_Reader_Melissa @squirrelbrain Yep, this was a weird one. I think it just gave me a different way of looking at things, which sometimes is what you need. And on that note, I‘m off to the supermarket and to take a Covid test. The joys! 4y
rockpools @Riveted_Reader_Melissa Thanks - we‘re supposed to take them twice a week as routine, if we‘re going in to work, rather than there being a problem. It‘s just another thing on the faff and hassle list! 4y
Riveted_Reader_Melissa @rockpools Ok, as long as it‘s routine. I thought maybe you were sick. Better the hassle than being sick. No vaccines yet in your area? (edited) 4y
rockpools @Riveted_Reader_Melissa Absolutely- I realised when you commented it looked like a problem, rather than me just having a grumble. Surprisingly yes to the vaccines, I got my second one last week. They‘re encouraging us to still do rapid tests twice weekly so they can monitor the spread, isolate asymptomatic cases, & hopefully reduce the spread a bit more. (I‘m in the UK - it‘s so wildly different everywhere!) 4y
Riveted_Reader_Melissa @rockpools Yes it is! That‘s why I asked. My one friend in the Netherlands is in between shot 1 or 2. I‘ve had both of mine, but yes...it varies so much. I personally think it should be more universal. 4y
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This book is bizarre and unexpected - but not in a bad way.

📷 Mud flats. Admin is sticky. It tends to stick where it lands.

I picked this up expecting a light self-help book that I‘d probably bail on 10 minutes in. Instead it‘s an almost academic look at household admin and the unseenness of it all. I‘ve never read a productivity book that acknowledges inequality before - the admin of poverty; the admin of poor health; the increase of admin in

rockpools terms of extent and importance for those less privileged. We‘ve had examples from polyamorous households. We‘re now considering the gendered nature of admin, and how that plays out in same-sex families.

Even if we never get to the ‘art‘ of life admin, I‘m finding this interesting and potentially helpful. Not what I was expecting though!
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Suet624 Interesting. 4y
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‘Our unfinished tasks occupy mental bandwidth even when we aren‘t thinking about them. A series of studies of the so-called Zeigarnik effect show that we remember incompleted tasks far better than those we have completed, suggesting that our minds continue to hold onto those undone tasks‘

For some reason this fell out of BorrowBox & landed on my phone. No solutions yet, but I‘m finding the concept & stresses of ‘life admin‘ strangely identifiable

IuliaC This makes sense! 4y
rockpools @IuliaC It does! Whether or not she gets to helpful suggestions, I think there might be helpful ways of looking at things in here. 4y
AlaMich I love that term, “life admin!” 4y
rockpools @AlaMich It encompasses a lot! 4y
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