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Chelsea.Poole
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Ok, this cover looks cheesy af. BUT! It‘s really insightful. Whippman covers many topics I‘ve read about in other parenting books and it‘s much of what I‘ve read before, but she also brings her 3 boys into the conversation. This gave the book a conversational tone —like mother to mother vibes. Everything from academics to screen time, ADHD to porn and everything in between. The takeaway: boys are often caught in the middle of the political divide.

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thecheckoutstack
Mehso-so

In the end I‘m glad I read it but it wasn‘t a home run for me.

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thecheckoutstack
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Ok I probably posted that last blurb about 50 pages too early. I related to and had empathy for George in his late teens early 20s. George in his late 20s early 30s is much harder to stomach 🙄

squirrelbrain He did turn into a bit of a d***, didn‘t he?! 6mo
BarbaraBB I get you 😀 6mo
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thecheckoutstack
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I gotta say, I read a lot of reviews about how much everyone hated George and I‘m 130 pages in and I have empathy for him. He‘s pretty oblivious and careless of others but it‘s a story and a perspective I haven‘t spent a lot of time with in books and that makes it worth telling. I‘m glad I decided to give the book a chance.

BarbaraBB Yes! I felt that way too. I didn‘t hate him at all. I just wasn‘t that interested in him 😀 6mo
thecheckoutstack @BarbaraBB totally fair 6mo
squirrelbrain I didn‘t hate him either. I felt sorry for him - he was rather pathetic. 6mo
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thecheckoutstack @squirrelbrain I don‘t feel like that yet either, I feel like he‘s privileged and depressed but that‘s not pathetic to me, that‘s just his life. I‘ll let you know where I land at the end of the book! 6mo
ImperfectCJ I didn't hate him, and I actually appreciate an author highlighting how irritating this type of personality is and how many chances those around him give him, over and over again. It's almost a call to action for those of us with a tendency to enable behavior like George's on both a small and a large scale. 6mo
thecheckoutstack @ImperfectCJ I‘m getting the vibe from everyone‘s comments more of the face palming behavior must happen in the last 2/3 of the book. I‘m excited to see how my feelings about George change. 6mo
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mcctrish
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This follows George through his life, he‘s a likeable child, his uni years are good too. You like George, it‘s a great audio book. Adulthood hits and there is this undercurrent to George, and I am not liking him so much. He isn‘t mean, but he‘s thoughtless. I am raging at my audio book. FFS George, get it together
It‘s well written. I enjoyed it when I wasn‘t raging 😂😂

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mcctrish
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Artsy Cats puzzling

AnnCrystal 👏🏼🧩🐈🆒💝. 6mo
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mcctrish
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I started this today - very easy listening

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GingerAntics
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Straight men, are you okay? Straight white men, are you specifically okay? This entire book is an ode to the idea that it‘s about damned time we abandon our insistence on a binary view of life, love, sexuality, attraction, and gender.
👇🏻👇🏻👇🏻

GingerAntics This book is also very clear on how the toxic masculinity that harms women actually turns on itself in hazing rituals, ultimately using that violence and domination over weaker members of the group to reiterate and perpetuate itself. There is nothing healthy going on here. No, men are not okay. Straight men are not okay. Straight white men are absolutely not okay. Sadly, they are the ones most fervently fighting to keep things this way. 7mo
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GingerAntics
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This seems so obvious, and yet it‘s just not true for A LOT of men. I‘m certainly not saying every man, but the loudest, most vocal, most powerful men certainly. Not to mention all the men who look up to those men as the ideal of manhood and masculinity.
#JaneWard #TheTragedyOfHeterosexuality #men #women #intowomen #forwomen #manhood #masculinity #simple

TheBookHippie A man attaches himself to woman - not to enjoy her, but to enjoy himself.
SIMONE DE BEAUVOIR
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GingerAntics @TheBookHippie she was actually comparing heterosexual ideals to queer ones. That in heterosexual culture it‘s about what is most pleasurable to the man, not is pleasurable for the woman, ever. In queer culture it‘s how much pleasure a body can experience. Full stop. She was baffled by a survey where every straight man said sex was over when he came. She said “I can‘t imagine sex with my wife being over just because either of us came.” 🤣😂🤣 7mo
GingerAntics @TheBookHippie basically, the whole books can be boiled down to “straight men think they are entitled to sex” and “heterosexuals, are you okay?” 7mo
TheBookHippie @GingerAntics exactly. Men think sex is for them. That‘s it. Women are an object to achieve it whether they want it or not. 7mo
GingerAntics @TheBookHippie yup! I loved this book. It was just a little snarky, just a little funny, but very poignant and important. 7mo
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