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"Charming older men are 'silver foxes', but flirtatious middle-aged women are 'cougars'. Or, as my mother used to say, 'mutton dressed as lamb'. To be an older woman is to be fair game for ridicule. Your desire can be held against you, or worse, turned into a joke.
I am tired of being called a large cat or an old sheep or a female dog."