“It‘s funny to realize after 40 years wearing the same shoes with the foolish disregard of one born in them that they‘re tight. They‘re a size too small and we didn‘t know it. [...] You try to take off the shoes and can no longer walk because that constriction had become part of your gait part of your style of your worldview. Likewise women with a culture made without them against them but that they still love cruelly as one loves one‘s tyrants.”