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What Comes Next and How to Like It
What Comes Next and How to Like It: A Memoir | Abigail Thomas
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The New York Times bestseller from the beloved author of A Three Dog Lifean exhilarating, superbly written memoir on friendship, family, creativity, tragedy, and the richness of life: If you only read one book this year, make it this one (Ann Patchett). In her bestselling memoir A Three Dog Life, Abigail Thomas wrote about the devastating loss of her husband. In What Comes Next and How to Like It, a keenly observed memoirThomas writes of the changes aging brings us all and of coping through love: of family, dogs, a well-turned phrase. She is superb company (People). Thomas was startled to overhear herself described as a nice old lady with a tattoo, because she thinks of herself as not nice, not old, nor a lady. But she has wondered: what comes next? What comes after the death of a spouse? What form does a lifelong friendship take after deepest betrayal? How does a mother cope with her childs dire illness? Or the death of a cherished dog? And how to like it? How to accept, appreciate, enjoy? How to find solace and pleasure? How to sustain and be sustained by our most trusted, valuable companions? At its heart, What Comes Next and How to Like It is about the complicated friendship between Thomas and a man she met thirty-five years agoa rich bond that has lasted through marriages, child-raising, and the vicissitudes and tragedies of life. After all, she writes, there are those people we love, and then there are those we recognize. These are the unbreakable connections. Exquisitely observed, lush with sentences you will read over and over again, What Comes Next and How to Like It is a beautifully felt, deeply moving memoir, the best work yet by a woman who has already done some of the best work in the field. Abigail Thomas is the Emily Dickinson of memoirists, and so much of this books wisdom is between the lines and in the white spaces. It may only take you two days to read, but the impact will stay with you for a long, long time (Stephen King). This is a glorious guide to living imperfectly and exuberantly.
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BarbaraTheBibliophage
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Thomas has been writing and publishing for decades. These reminiscences are short and non-chronological. Her stories suit the audio format, and she‘s a good narrator. There‘s a lot of heart (and hound dogs!) in this short book. Plus it‘s inspiring me to pull a file off the shelf and get writing.

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BibliOphelia A Three Dog Life has too long been on my TBR. The blurb for this has me scrambling to bump it up, but tbh, this sounds even more compelling! 6y
BarbaraTheBibliophage @BibliOphelia I‘m adding Three Dog Life to my TBR since reading this one. I‘d say it comes first in general chronology, but she does refer back to her husband‘s injury a bit in the second book. 6y
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BarbaraTheBibliophage
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Abigail Thomas is the keynote at a creative nonfiction writers‘ conference near me this weekend. Although I can‘t go to the whole conference, I‘m considering just going to the keynote. So I thought I should get a feel for her writing. This was just 4 hours, so I‘m going in. She creates *very* chapters, which is unique. It‘s kind of an odd flow, though. #creativenonfiction #hippocampus

BookNAround I really like her stuff a lot. Enjoy if you go to the keynote. 6y
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Suet624

“What can come” my grandson Sam asked, when he was very young, after his mother had warned him not to go into the woods after dark. What can come? This was a brilliant question. Can is scarier than will. What will come limits itself. What can come has no boundaries. Our family has repeated this question for years, laughing.

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Suet624

“I don‘t want to fall in love, but I want to see what happens if I do. I want the possibility of change, not change itself. I don‘t want to be filled with love, or longing, or desire, those emotional states I once pursued, but now think of as distractions from life rather than as life itself. “

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Marla
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This was okay. I'm glad I won it on goodreads.com because had I bought it I would have wasted my money. I think it is something either you really like or you don't. I thought it was okay.

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Marla
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A puppy to cuddle with as I try to finish this book.

Josie OMG what a sweet baby. What's his/her name? 9y
NatalieR Very cute puppy! 9y
Marla @Josie his name is Bo but we call him Bobo for short 😄 he has to be in a lap at all times. 9y
Josie Omg that is the cutest name ever. And it fits him so well!!!! I love lap dogs, big or small! 9y
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