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In the Days of Rain
In the Days of Rain: A Daughter, a Father, a Cult | Rebecca Stott
A father-daughter story that tells of the authors experience growing up in a fundamentalist, separatist Christian cult, from the author of the national bestseller Ghostwalk Rebecca Stott both adored and feared her father, Roger Stott, a high-ranking minister in the Brighton, England, branch of the Exclusive Brethren, a separatist fundamentalist Christian sect. A man of contradictions, he preached that the Brethren should shun the outside world, which was ruled by Satan, yet he kept a radio in the trunk of his car and read Shakespeare and Yeats. Years later, when the Stotts broke with the Brethren after a scandal involving the cults leader, Roger became an actor and compulsive gambler who left the family penniless and ended up in jail. A curious child, Rebecca spent her insular childhood asking questions about the world, questions that went ignored, and trying to glean the answers from forbidden library books. Only when she was an adult and her father was dying of cancer did Rebecca begin to understand all that had happened during those harrowing years. It was then that Roger Stott handed Rebecca the memoir he had begun writing about the period leading up to what he called the traumatic Nazi decade, the years in the 1960s in which he and other Brethren leaders enforced coercive codes of behavior that led to the breaking apart of families, the shunning of members, even suicides. Now he was trying to examine that time, and his complicity in it, and he asked Rebecca to write about it, to expose all that was kept hidden. In the Days of Rain is Rebecca Stotts attempt to make sense of her childhood in the Exclusive Brethren, to understand her fathers role in the cult and in the breaking apart of her family, and to come to be at peace with her relationship with a larger-than-life figure whose faults were matched by a passion for life, a thirst for knowledge, and a love of literature and beauty. A father-daughter story as well as a memoir of growing up in a closed-off community and then finding a way out of it, this is an inspiring and beautiful account of the bonds of family and the power of self-invention.
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britt_brooke
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Mehso-so

⭐️⭐️⭐️ Stott, a fourth generation Exclusive Brethren, speaks of her experience growing up in, and leaving, this fundamentalist Christian cult. This focuses a lot on her father as the tutor alludes. I‘d never heard of this group, so I was excited to gain some insight, but I really struggled to pay attention. It seems like a fairly typical Christian offshoot, because you know I‘m a self-proclaimed expert on cultish matters.

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britt_brooke
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🎧🐾 it‘s a beautiful, mild morning. Too bad this book is not really holding my attention.

#audiowalk
#dogsoflitsy

Tamra I‘ve been bailing on audio books left & right. 😣 2y
britt_brooke @Tamra I probably should but I have such a hard time bailing (which I know is silly). I‘ll probably just speed it up and push through. 😅 I‘m already about 3/4 in. 2y
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Oryx
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Started this one today, Helen @squirrelbrain
I really like her writing style, so I can tell I'm going like it.

squirrelbrain Oh good, I hope you do! 👍😁 4y
keys_on_fire Love the view in your pic! 4y
Oryx @squirrelbrain I did like it. I had no clue this all happened - I was vaguely aware of the Brethren as there are some in NI and I'd see them, but I'd no clue about all the different divisions and splits, or bad the particular sect described in this book were. 4y
Oryx @squirrelbrain Thanks again for sending it to me. ♥️ 4y
squirrelbrain I‘m glad you liked it. We had Brethren next-door-but-one to us, and I‘ve no idea what sect they were but they all used to drink like fish and as a result get very raucous and misbehave (drink-driving, throwing fireworks etc!). We were all pleased when they moved away.... 😬 4y
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Oryx
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Thank you so much Helen! ♥️ I'm so excited to read this after we talked about it. That's so thoughtful of you @squirrelbrain

squirrelbrain Hope you like it! 🤞😁 5y
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squirrelbrain
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I read this non-fiction book recently. It tells the history of the Exclusive Brethren. It was interesting to me, as we used to have a Brethren family as neighbours, but a little bit detached as the author told her father‘s story rather than her own.

#rain
#ayupaugust

*The Cult were formed in Bradford, West Yorkshire, in 1984*

Crazeedi Hmmm, rather intriguing 5y
squirrelbrain I didn‘t love it @Crazeedi but I liked it - and I certainly learnt a lot! 5y
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bookwrm526
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Mehso-so

This was my book about a religion other than my own (I‘m an atheist) for the #ReadingWomenChallenge. I was very interested at first in the early history of the religion, how it started and all of the schisms, and the story of the author‘s family and their history with the church, but I eventually just got bogged down in it all, so it just kind of fizzled for me.

razmanda Cute pupper! 5y
bookwrm526 @razmanda I‘m dog sitting :) she is tennis ball obsessed in case that didn‘t come through in the pic lol 5y
xxjenadanxx Sorry the. lol was a disappointment but what a cute doggo! 5y
BarbaraTheBibliophage I thought this was a challenging book too. 5y
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squirrelbrain
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Pickpick

An interesting read, particularly for those who took part in the #bannerbuddyread about FLDS.

This is about a hardline sect of the Plymouth Brethren in the UK. Whilst it felt a little distant in places, due to it being the recollections of the author‘s father, rather than the author herself, I preferred this to Under the Banner of Heaven.

You really get an idea of how such cults can form and flourish, as well as the consequences of leaving.

BarbaraBB Interesting, thanks! 5y
MicheleinPhilly I‘m the world‘s worst buddy reader. Still haven‘t even started Banner. 😕 I‘ve been feeling kind of slumpy this week. (edited) 5y
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Kayla.Adriena @MicheleinPhilly you're not alone! I haven't started either! 5y
Cathythoughts Sounds interesting! Stacking 👍🏻 5y
Caroline2 Oh sounds interesting and goes with the book I‘m reading at the mo. Stacked. 😉 5y
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Becker
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Mehso-so

Few things disgust me more than the toxic use of religion to control people. This book was full of situations and stories that demonstrated this, all based around the Exclusive Brethren religious cult. It was interesting and informative but also had several dry spots that I had to push through.

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thebookmagpie
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Pickpick

This was amazing and utterly heartbreaking! I'd never heard of the Brethren before and it's astonishing and horrifying to discover they still exist within the UK to this day. Stott is very even-handed in telling her story, with a magnanimity and compassion that I find so impressive. Definitely worth picking up, especially if you're interested in cults and the psychological effect they have on people. #boutofbooks

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thebookmagpie
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Starting TBR for #boutofbooks 😊

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rmaclean4
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Mehso-so

I started reading this and then switched to the audio version. I felt that the strongest writing was at the beginning and in the last chapter. I struggled with it in the middle.

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rmaclean4
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I tend to read three books at a time. An audio (still working my way through Anna Karenina) a physical fiction (Stay with Me) and a non fiction. Does anyone else read muliple books at a time?

BarbaraBB Love the stack! 7y
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BookishMarginalia
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Pickpick

Not the history of the Brethren cult that I expected, but a true memoir of the author‘s life and experiences as a daughter and a (former) cult member. Interesting if not precisely compelling. The audiobook is pleasantly narrated by the author herself. 3.5⭐️

reluctantangeleno I've been listening to this too! 👍 7y
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rmaclean4
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My January TBR is ridiculous!! I am already in the middle of three other books.(The Ship of Magic, A Room of Ones Own, Margaret The First). What a wonderful problem to have!! 2018 is off to a great start.

Mdargusch Good luck! I enjoyed the Trouble With Goats and Sheep! 👍🏼 7y
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Jen2
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Pickpick

Fascinating, I have never heard of this cult.

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Booksnchill
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Pickpick

After I read this I looked at the backflap and realized Rebecca Stott was also the author of Ghostwalk which I read last year and enjoyed (about Newtonian physics and magical realism). This is a non fiction work about the 4 generations of her family caught up in a hyper doctrinal religious sect “The Brethren “. Told more like research than a deeply felt memoir, nevertheless well written and compelling if a bit clinical ⭐️⭐️⭐️1/2

BarbaraTheBibliophage I liked this one as well. I'll have to stack Ghostwalk too! 7y
Booksnchill @BarbaraTheBibliophage I think you‘ll like it- very atmospheric! 7y
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Booksnchill
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I am always amazed at the odd congruence I sometimes stumble upon in my reading. I listened to Sara Pascoe on the podcast Backlisted and she was talking about the memoir Father and Son (Edmund Gosse) about the Plymouth Brethren- so I began listening to that on audible- then I started reading this book and it is about the Exclusive Brethren and name checked Father and Son- so far this book about extreme religious cults is gripping. #Cults

BarbaraTheBibliophage I liked this one a lot. I'll have to look for the other one you mentioned. 7y
Booksnchill You should look for that episode of backlisted podcast- they recommended Father and Son as read by Geoffrey Palmer and it is very good! 7y
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TheJOMOreader
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...so far. A great book, but I'm a little more than a quarter through, and the experience of this family isn't what I was expecting.

TheJOMOreader Aaand disregard. Shit has since gotten REAL. 7y
ReadingEnvy Ha that's what I was thinking. Just hang in there. Is this the one with the Mitt Romney connection? 7y
TheJOMOreader @ReadingEnvy Ohhhhh, no Mitt yet, but I'm intrigued! 7y
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ReadingEnvy @LibrarianAF (my bad, thinking of a different book) 7y
TheJOMOreader @ReadingEnvy That one is on my TBR list. I'll bump it accordingly. Thanks for the hot tip! 7y
Kappadeemom The Sound of Gravel was amazing and horrifying all at the same time. I thought about it for weeks after reading it! 7y
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BarbaraTheBibliophage
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Rebecca Stott weaves together the story of four generations, including her own, involved in the Brethren, a quasi-religious sect or cult. Her father is the strongest character in the tale, and what a character he is. Alternately sad and fascinating, this is a great read if you like slipping inside a cult without joining. Thanks to NetGalley & Spiegel & Grau for an ARC in exchange for this honest review.

Full review at www.TheBibliophage.com

Cathythoughts Sounds good. I'm stacking 👍 7y
BarbaraTheBibliophage @Cathythoughts I hope you enjoy it as much as I did! 7y
Cathythoughts Thank you 🙏 7y
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BarbaraTheBibliophage
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I really need to catch up on my NetGalley shelf, so I'm working on this one, which was published earlier this month. So far, it's feeding my need for cult-related memoirs. This family's religious experience is odd. (I like odd!) #nonfictionchallenge17

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BarbaraTheBibliophage
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Sometimes I get turned down for NetGalley ARCs because I still don't have my book blog up and running. But this week I got approved for two that I'm super excited about. Plus I am loving The Radium Girls. #goNetGalley

LauraBeth I really enjoyed The Gatekeepers! 8y
BarbaraTheBibliophage @LauraBeth Cool! Maybe you posted about it here and that's how I happened to request it. #blameitonlitsy 8y
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