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Former NFL quarterback McPherson examines the roots of masculinity gone awry and how it promotes violence against women.
In You Throw Like a Girl, former Syracuse University quarterback and NFL veteran Don McPherson examines how the narrow definition of masculinity adversely impacts women and creates many “blind spots” that hinder the development of healthy men. Exploring the strict set of beliefs and behaviors that underpin our understanding of masculinity, he draws a path to the conclusion that we don’t raise boys to be men, we raise them not to be women.
Using examples from his own life, including his storied football career, McPherson passionately argues that viewing violence against women as a “women’s issue” not just ignores men’s culpability but conflates the toxicity of men’s violence with masculinity. In You Throw Like a Girl, McPherson leads us beyond the blind spots and toward solutions, analyzing how we can engage men in a sustained dialogue, with a new set of terms that are inspirational and more accurately representative of the emotional wholeness of men.